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Icegreen

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This is the story about how I (new redpiller) ended it with my fiance a few months ago at a restaurant. That night was both a f*** yeah moment and a holy **** why did I do that kind of moment, but in the end it's the best decision I've ever made.

Note:
-Fiance and I have been together for 5 years
-After reading about MGTOW, I've become enlightened and have seen how women can drag a man down. I have seen how they can completely control you and become a parasite that's latched onto your **** and money.
-I'm becoming successful in moving my way to VP at my firm pretty quick here while she is planning to go to law school, when she knows jack **** about law. She says "I want a powerful career". pfff, yeah obviously
-Her and I both want(ed) to settle down and have a kid. Perhaps it's social conditioning, but it's what I want.
-She is 27 (perfect 9), but I can tell she will hit the wall in terms of looks pretty soon

After noticing how distant this woman was becoming (been like this for over a year) with me I made her go out to my favorite steak spot with to talk about what the f*** is going on with her. She tells me that she is stressed out and doesn't think her and I will work out in the long run. I tell her it takes two people to work out relationship problems and stuff like this happens to couples all the time (pure afc garbage). I gave her every test I could to gauge her interest levels and willingness to solve the problem, but it didn't phase her and I knew it was over.

This pissed me off, because I gave her everything a man could give and had wasted the last year of my life trying to gain her interests. It was infuriating.

I took out my wallet, pulled a few 20s out, tossed them on the table. lit a cigarette in the restaurant said
"I'm looking for a woman, not a little girl who can't communicate properly. If you ever grow up you can call and buy me dinner, if not, well have a nice life, I wish you the best" and then walked towards the door.

As I approach the door I see a good lookin gal outside the window. I approach her. She questions why I'm smoking inside - I ignore her, we talk about **** and I end up taking her to my car as my new EX walks outside and sees. F*** eh?

Anyway, it's been about 2 months since this happened. The EX has called me like 25 times and is begging for me back and wants to get married and have a life together. Wtf brehs? Why go back to that when I can work and bone babes whenever I want and not have to deal with games?

How does a modern man even consider marriage? In this day and age, women are the ones who want to go and f*** around and play games, while most men want commitment and communication. What would happen if I married this person and she became "stressed and didn't think it would work out"? She would divorce and take my dignity. The western feminine mind is a very broken thing and no man should have to deal with it while being locked in marriage.

Us men are lucky that we can maintain our looks and status. Forget social conditioning, forever spin plates and make money into our 70s!
 

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Unfortunately this is how the modern woman is behaving. You did the right thing by gettin up and walkin out. From how you described it, I think it was a pretty strong stance move putting some cash out on the table, lit ur cig, give her a few final words and go about your way. I bet she didnt expect that because women say stupid sh*t like that to make you beg for them and plea how much you will change and do better. F*ck that, especially since you said you did everything for her. Her seeing you with another woman right away signaled that you would move on from her quick and that struck her ego right in the bullseye. I myself would like to get married and have a great wife but the more i experience and see the wild swings in women's behavior, it backs me off more and more from taking that plunge.
 

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Brothers, this is one of the most depressing realities we face in the west. Women are not what they used to be. Take heed upon what you enter in you're late 20s. Your family, friends and media will pressure you into starting a family and settling down. Are we willing to lose our dignity when our wives give us divorce papers after she doesn't feel like she is getting enough? Whats more is women tend to really hit a wall in attractiveness in their 30s while we can easily stay fit and masculine.

I'm envious of our more religious brethren. The wives of these men seem to have a much stronger moral compass. They will either stay with the man and put in effort, or divorce later on when the child between them is of fit age.

Either way, I think there is a paradigm shift. Men gain utility through intellect and knowledge and are much less willing to commit to a women even though they strive for commitment. Women gain more utility through more power, material and non material items, and are less willing to commit.

It's a damn shame, but we have to keep our heads high. There is more to life than trying to find one of the 1% of non ****ty women to marry.
 

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You dodged a bullet.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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zekko

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Lol, that couldn't have gone any better. Any way, I'm sure you did the right thing. If she was questioning your future now, you could bet the farm that once you get married it would only get worse. Well done.
 

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What the hells this "spousal support?" I understand if you had kids together and pay for the KID but "spousal support?" Really? YOU'RE AN ADULT. That sounds so manipulative why is that even a settlement. That's like still paying for a broken car that you already sold.

And I'm not gonna even ask why men don't get this settlement.
 

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Mauser96 said:
SHE wanted out...I had to pay for 2 years. She initailly asked for $1700 FOR LIFE.
... is this real life?? :crazy:
 

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Icegreen said:
She tells me that she is stressed out and doesn't think her and I will work out in the long run.

Anyway, it's been about 2 months since this happened. The EX has called me like 25 times and is begging for me back and wants to get married and have a life together. Wtf brehs?
Either:

1) the guy she really wanted told her to get lost
2) she didn't get into law school
3) all her friends got pregnant and you are the quickest and surest to get her pregnant

Hate to say but it has nothing to do with her love for you, it is what the public has done to her. :crazy:
 

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Mauser96 said:
Frayzer, I agree.

SHE wanted out...I had to pay for 2 years. She initailly asked for $1700 FOR LIFE.

She got $750/month for two years.
NO END to the balls a woman has, nor the greed.

WTF how does this even happen?, I mean paying for a child yes, paying for an ex NO, No this should not be happening.

WTF is going on with the world where a woman can get a free ride in a relationship then after they are dumped get a free ride just because they got used to living like that, NO she should go get a fvcking job and earn her way like the rest of the *sane* world :box:

Trump said:
Either:

1) the guy she really wanted told her to get lost
2) she didn't get into law school
3) all her friends got pregnant and you are the quickest and surest to get her pregnant

Hate to say but it has nothing to do with her love for you, it is what the public has done to her. :crazy:

What about the basic principle of, "women want what they can't have" ?
 

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Goddamn that was a great story....cinematic! Do not go back to her or you're a dead man.
 

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Hehe, that was a twisted ending. She will regret taking you for granted and that final scene will haunt her forever.
 
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