A good site to find a marriage partner

[Modern Man Advice]

Hi all,

I am 39 and I am looking for my future wife.
Unfortunately, all dating sites I know ask for pictures first which I think is not suitable.

I myself would not want to see the picture of my potential life partner first, but rather ask questions in writing at the beginning. If we seem matching, we still would exchange our pictures in a second step.

And I am certainly not looking for a hookup opportunity which I can have easily in city where I am living in. So it is really a serious marriage plan I am pursuing.

If anybody has recommendations, please let me know

Thanks
Marc

I advise against using OLD, unless sex is your main goal. Many guys here use it for that reason. SO you can see the type of mindset and environment that has brewed in those environments. I'd also say it's good for practice but take it with a grain of salt.

The reality is, most women (and men) in OLD are low-hanging fruit. High-value people are usually busy living and building fulfilling lives outside. And that is where you will ultimately cross paths with someone on the same wavelength.

What this means is you will ultimately attract what you are.


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[biggoal]

If you are actually looking for a woman who is potentially wife material and would value family, children, etc. I would avoid online dating sites. The only exceptions I could cite would be christian dating sites. I'd honestly say you should consider going to a church setting that you feel comfortable with. Many of the women there are obviously going to most likely share values similar to yours.

Based upon my observations, women in the U.S are often times more focused on themselves, their careers, etc. and honestly don't really place all that much value in marriage, children or trying to find a good man. Many of the major metros you will find this attitude and it's a bit sad because these women are behaving in a manner that contradicts their own innate biological programming and instincts. There is a reason why women in the business world have astronomical rates of mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety, whereas men in these fields are found to show the opposite.

Some areas of the country you can find women who still value traditional marriages, family, etc. Again, any place where church is a part of the local culture would be a good fit, there are plenty of options here.

Correct. 90 percent of the women on OLD are not even attractive. The 10 percent of them who are tend to be head cases. other than fat women, women don't need OLD to get dates, especially if they're under 30 and still have friends they hang around with from college.

On dates from OLD the chicks constantly complain about their ex husbands being crazy, etc.