A girl I'am very interested in going out with, advice needed! I edited thread.

[ReTiCuLeX]

Hi, Just wanted to say I haven't posted on the forums in a while as I've been busy with family stuff. Well anyhow, here goes!

I'am 17 years old attending The St.George School in NY a G.E.D School that prep's you for the test then sends you once you are ready.

Last week this time, I had did my usual thing in class, while I noticed a new student a very cute,sweet,sensible girl. Well I ignored the fact she was there and moved on to my daily activity playing planetside and thinking about it. Well this week she had been sitting 1 row to the left and 1 desk infront of me (Seating is allowed where you like in my school) She started off by giving me a sarcastic answer to me after I commented a friend. I was talking to a friend about a math problem, when he replied to me ahh shh I told you that was the answer or w/e. Well I had replied well shutup biotch I didn't ask you anyway an we laughed. She went ahead and said now next time you ask him for help with a math problem he won't help you. I just shutup as she put me in my place lol. Well this whole week she had stared at me, rocking back and forth in her chair putting chapstick on staring me in the eyes, I thought it was cute. She asked me for some help with her math or what ever and I went ahead and did so. We where talking and she had told me that she has a 11year old sister who has a scoller ship to a School and blahblah, I had listned carefully and looked into her eyes then conversating about how great that is and I have a sister too who is very smart in Jr.H.S. Wednesday I had talked talked to her about stupid stuff and we where the only ones left in class to do no work so she asked me to play a game of ticktack toe with her lol.. so I did and let her win once and she let me win once. Thursday she had asked me to get her some tissues I did so by going to the principals office for some then giving them to her. I tried to be pleasent to her. Well I noticed friends of myne talk to her sometimes after school but they wouldn't do anything with her as she is 17 also and they are 21+. I should really say "Friend" my friend nas. Well that day she had also stared into my eyes I mean like stared and smiled and I said what, and replied what again and laughed, then she turned away. I was dieing to ask her to come chill or what not but I was too scared to lol. Today finally I had broke the ice, I was in class with her not really talking to much to her, I had wrote her a note saying the following.

Hey, Alyssa are you doing anything today or tommorow? I was going to go see the movie underworld
Btw: By the way, I think you're really cute.

Her: Thanks.But I have work today, Sat+Sunday... My life sux = /

Me: Myne too: I got work to do tonight, alright maybe some other time, Tell me when you are free.

Her: I'll let you know

I was going to reply here but I wrote alright on the note an put it in my notebook lol.

P.S. I forgot to mention, on Tuesday she had seated right next to me, and hasn't moved from sitting next to me since then.

Do you think this situation is going to go anywhere ? Do I proceed to try to go out with her monday, I was thinking of giving her my # but I doubt she would call it like any other chick so I didn't.

Thanks in advance guys.
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[ShizamDaMan]

Argh, first you need to he-man b1tch slap your self for sending her a note. Seriously. Not to be mean, but notes were cool when you were 12 years old. Last time I sent someone a note it completely blew up in my face, hence why it was years ago.

Second mistake was telling her you were into her.

Here's what you need to do:

-Grab your nutz and tell your self you will get this girl
-Next time you see her tell her "Hey I'd like to get together with you sometime, gimme your phone number so I can make it happen."
-Wait 3 days to call. If she asks you in class tell her you had other priorites (then tease her about being a stalker)
-Make a date, shine yourself up and show her a good time

By the description you give, it's obvious she's into you. Just don't screw up anymore and I think you'll be pretty happy in your new relationship.

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Hey, thanks for the advice bro. I apreciate the help! It's been 1year almost since my last relationship.

 

[123guy]

Might even wanna spell check your work..

Scollership?

haha..

 

[cant think of a user name]

First things first:

Helping her with her maths work?
-- it's alright, but it kinda sounds like you're her little lapdog

Running to the principal's office to get tissues for her?
-- okay, you ARE her little lapdog

Writing notes and saying "btw: by the way" which actually means "by the way: by the way"?
-- not good.

"I tried to be pleasent to her"
-- you're trying too hard

"By the way, I think you're really cute."
-- now she knows shes got you by the ballz!


Anyway my point is, you're over-thinking this situation and kinda walking on eggshells.

Chill man.

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Bah, I didn't ask to get flamed. It was late I didn't sleep well and I went ahead to type away. Thanks for the advice, yeah I know she has me by the balls now, ****, maybe I'll be able to fix that somehow :-S

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

Thats all great and dandy, very descriptive great!

Now what you need to do is change it up a bit, and quit doing **** for her all the time, and instead have her do things for you, eg; giving you paper, tissue, a dollar, a hug, a massage, some head, a bullet in your head, whatever,.....just let it be known that you aren't no punk ass AFC whose gonna be her little slave, and sh*T. Don't take any sh*t from her, if she is resistant.

kino her too!!

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Thanks for the advice bro, I'm gona try and play it smooth now by doing like she does "Playing hard to get" If she asks how my weekend was, I'am going to say Oh, I went to the mall with my ex-gf, not to mention she works at the mall lol ( the girl I like) and be like yeah I had went shopping to buy my sister some stuff and just chilled. I will also tell her I had some occasional fun with some friends at there house etc... Sound good ?

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

it would sound good if you said that without scripting what you're going to say.

Just let it flow right then and there. F*ck coming up with what you are going to say hours minutes or days before you actually come in contact with this person. Just go natural.

And you don't have to elaborate about who you went with or visited..

Her:How was your weekend?

You: Marvelous! How about you?

Her:Good, what was so exciting about your weekend?

You: I went to a party, snorted crack, shot my grandma and ran my car off a cliff(just an example)

Her: oh i see..........

there simple no elaboration about I went to James' Luau party, bought some coke from the principal and we snorted and blah blah blah..


be subtle and mysterious.

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Ded_Skin omfg... once I read your reply, you got me in stiches bro hahaha. Off to bed I go, then to school w00t.

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Today, well nothing really happened at all :-S I played like she wasn't there lol... in second peroid, she sat down next to me as usual and she looked at me for a good minute I just kept looking at the teacher. At the end of second peroid, she was complaining she couldn't think of an conclusion for her essay, I was like ight let me look it over shes like ok 1sec, well then I went ahead saw a very very old friend of myne who came to class today and I was like hey what's up etc.. I totally forgot about her essay LOL then 2-3 mins later I was like alright keith hold up 1sec excuse me, I went to ask if she needed help she said na I got it lol.. I said oh well then Sorrrryy ha, an cont. chatting with my friend keith. She didn't really talk to me at all today, we made eyecontact like once today an I laughed she just turned away as I did. She has been talking to this other kid next to her, which I don't think can blow up my game but, she was talking of food today an talking with him about bigmac's n **** cuz she was hungry I was like ook... I just continued to ignore her till the next class which is in the same room but differen't teacher. I'am not getting the attention I'am used to getting argh, she didn't even ask me to sharpen her pencil she went ahead and did it herself "odd".

Thx ahead of time for reading guys,
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[On_the_Top]

I also feel, that I need to pimp slap myself, for sending a girl a note in class . Which was about I dunno about five years ago(been outta school chillin due hurricane Isabel) Anyway, she sent the note back with some sexually suggestive matieral, email, and a phone number, but hey I feel so bad for sending a message in note form.

I have a question also, thie girl gave me her number I think about two weeks ago, haven't called due to being evacuated and just plain having fun on my days off(after the hurricane of course.) What shall I do in this situation? Wait till I get back in school to see her, or call this weekend?

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Call her, see if you can get a date on this week. I think you've waited long enough bro, time to move on in.

I got ****ed over, my friend who has a car pretty much stole her the girl I liked. He's 22 shes 17 I'am 17 no car cuz I needed that RADEON 9800 Pro like I needed my head examined :S

 

[On_the_Top]

Humm.... no answer at her place, and my other girl's line is busy also, I guess due to the electrical lines and telephone lines not fully being restored, man this sucks, and I get to use the bright red 2002 dakota this week end.

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Today was a total retarded day, I asked her out again, this time in person. I went up to her said confidently, unnervious, hey Alyssa, what are you doing this weekend ? She responded, uhhh I'am working, I said um you're working now, but you just got fired from your old job, She replied, yeah, I said well where are you working now ? She said to me I'am working at so and so and spoke very fast. I was going to say to her next well I would really like to get to know you better maybe I could have your number and when you and I are free possibly we can get to know each other, but this didn't happen. She told me one sec wait here, she walks over to her friend and starts chating as if they where all day. I was like all wtf as I walked closer to her and her friend. I said to myself screw that, I went up to her said, Bye, I'll see you on monday. She gave me a weird look as if she was pist or something it's hard to explain, a weird facial expression. I felt bad about this sort of, but walked off like I was the king putting my music on boping my head. Well what do you guys think of this ? I belive It ended after that, she blew me off in a weird way. By the way, this occured after school, today I couldn't even sit in my usual class's where she sits next to me as the door was locked and we were assigned to another classroom where the room was very filled as everyone from school decided to attend lol...


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