A few teen sex questions

[TheNewGuy]

My girlfriend and I have been going out for around 4 months now. She says she wants to have sex, but is scared (because she is a virgin) that it is going to hurt and shes going to bleed everywhere. Is this typical with most girls? Shes pretty tight, I can barely fit 3 fingers in her (used to barely do one).

Also, she says shes up for anything. I suggested dirty talk and she said she didn't know what to say, but if I could find her something to help her out she'd read it. Know any good books/sites?

 

[mpimpin]

You might consider watching some porn together. You both might find some things you wanna try etc. It's a great way to get the ball rolling when its time. Her opinion and her tightness sound pretty typical.

 

[mpimpin]

Any sex questions belong in AE.

 

[LordGrin]

i'd just say that gve her some porn and let her masturbate and let all the blood n shyt out, then do it with her weneevr u 2 r redy .....or more like, wen ur redy lolz

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Take it easy there big guy. You don't need to stick 3 fingers in her vagina. She's a virgin, her p@ssy is gonna be small n tight. 1-2 fingers (index and middle finger) will do the trick IF you know what your doing. Yes, virgins will bleed after the first time having sex. Don't watch porn those guys have no idea what their doing. Its all about the angle for the camera. Don't worry about dirty talk for your first time having sex. Just do the normal missionary postion, take it slow and easy. You might just want her to get on top and ride you. This way she can get a feel of what pleases her and how she wants it.

 

[typical]

I disagree with getting the girl on top, most virgins dont knwo nothing about what they want, do missionary and take it slow, if you can comfortably get 3 fingers in then you shouldnt have any problems, just remember use lube and go gentle cause her hymen is going to rip and how much it rips and how much she bleeds depends on how rough you are.

 

[azanon]

Take it easy there big guy. You don't need to stick 3 fingers in her vagina. She's a virgin, her p@ssy is gonna be small n tight. 1-2 fingers (index and middle finger) will do the trick IF you know what your doing. Yes, virgins will bleed after the first time having sex. Don't watch porn those guys have no idea what their doing. Its all about the angle for the camera. Don't worry about dirty talk for your first time having sex. Just do the normal missionary postion, take it slow and easy. You might just want her to get on top and ride you. This way she can get a feel of what pleases her and how she wants it.

Go with this one. 3's too many for a virgin; hell its a bit too much for some experienced women unless they are pretty excited at the time. Her on top allows her to control the depth and timing so its not a bad position for her to try (besides missionary).

 

[Quiksilver]

She's a virgin, her p@ssy is gonna be small n tight.

Actually, being a virgin has nothing to do with how tight she is. Sure SHE might have more sensation, simply because it's never happened to her before, but it won't feel any different to you.

when pop the cherry there will be blood

 

[Ricky]

or you can always PIITB

There were girls in high school who considered themselves virgins because they only did anal!

 

[TheNewGuy]

Thanks for the responses guys.

When I'm fingering her I only use one or two fingers, but her friend told her more or less that if you can fit 3 fingers easily you could fit a ****.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I've been with 2 virgins in my life, neither were "scared" and both actively pursued me to get with them, going so far as to arrange times and places to have sex. I'm not trying to gloss myself here, I'm just saying I didn't have to negotiate with either one. When a girl wants to fukk, she'll find a way to fukk - virgin or not.

That said, when you are a girl's first lay, be prepared for the intense emotional lock she'll have afterwards. I'd go so far as to say this makes virgins girls to be avoided, but if you're like me this advice will go in one ear and out the other once you have the opportunity to tap a virgin. Understand that you will always be this girl's benchmark for sexual experience.

 

[azanon]

I've been with 2 virgins in my life, neither were "scared" and both actively pursued me to get with them, going so far as to arrange times and places to have sex. I'm not trying to gloss myself here, I'm just saying I didn't have to negotiate with either one. When a girl wants to fukk, she'll find a way to fukk - virgin or not.

That said, when you are a girl's first lay, be prepared for the intense emotional lock she'll have afterwards. I'd go so far as to say this makes virgins girls to be avoided, but if you're like me this advice will go in one ear and out the other once you have the opportunity to tap a virgin. Understand that you will always be this girl's benchmark for sexual experience.

Ive had one myself, and everything RT said is true. She pushed for it and was over-eager when the time came (but completely nervous and clueless about her own body). Emotional lock nails it on the head, because the woman didn't think straight from then on. Women in general aren't the best at reasoning. But lay a chick for the first time? You can throw reason freakin' out the door.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Thanks for the responses guys.

When I'm fingering her I only use one or two fingers, but her friend told her more or less that if you can fit 3 fingers easily you could fit a ****.

You can finger your gf however you want I have no problem. But for me; its not how many fingers can fit. Its about pleasing her, hitting the g-spot, making her orgasm. Other than that, have fun :rockon:

 

[drummer]

Dude its not guaranteed that she will bleed. Most virgins don't even have intact hymens, as sports, movement, fingers and tampons destroy them.

I had sex with my girlfriend (both of us were virgins) a month ago and she didnt bleed or have it hurt at all.

 

[TheNewGuy]

We tried last night and that **** was wayyy too tight. It was like halfway in and she was hurting pretty bad, so we just called it a night.