HelpYourself
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There have been a couple threads recently about not being in game mode when out in the field. I have a similar problem though not the same. Even if I don't feel like opening, I open anyway. I just lack the desire to close. While I kind of have the right attitude "Have fun first, and if you get a number, even better" and don't go home thinking "what if," I'm too complacent now. The exact problem I had before. Before, you could see the desperation to meet a woman in my eyes. Now, it's just like "I'll do my own thing, and unless I see a girl I HAVE to talk to, I won't go the extra distance."
I think this has to do with media idealism and 10 idealism. I've seen a few women, celebrities, girls I've known in the past, and random strangers who to me were 10s without a doubt and it's caused me to be overly picky.
I mean, while the 10 gives you that extra attraction, there's nothing wrong with an 8 or 9. The last girl I dated was an 8.5 and while I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with her, she was prettier than most girls I'd see when we went out together.
My question for guys with a lot of experience...is sex with a woman you think is a 10, or a woman you really like significantly better than with the 8 or 9 that's better than most but you aren't crazy about?
Keep in mind, I approach the 8s and 9s, I just don't seem to care if nothing happens with them. Then I go home and think about the 10s.
I think this has to do with media idealism and 10 idealism. I've seen a few women, celebrities, girls I've known in the past, and random strangers who to me were 10s without a doubt and it's caused me to be overly picky.
I mean, while the 10 gives you that extra attraction, there's nothing wrong with an 8 or 9. The last girl I dated was an 8.5 and while I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with her, she was prettier than most girls I'd see when we went out together.
My question for guys with a lot of experience...is sex with a woman you think is a 10, or a woman you really like significantly better than with the 8 or 9 that's better than most but you aren't crazy about?
Keep in mind, I approach the 8s and 9s, I just don't seem to care if nothing happens with them. Then I go home and think about the 10s.