A change for the better means things get worse?

[tweeder]

Hey guys! Well it's been a long time since I've posted on here. I've been out applying ou in the real world what I've learned here. I've bee very successfull, but I'm noticing a problem. When I first started on this site I was very pale and out of shape. I'd say I was around a 6. But after learning these tips I found I was pretty good at getting dates. Girls were always makig good eye contact, and I would smile and make my approach.

So I figured if I improved my looks, then things could only get better. So I got a tan, got a new haircut, and I am now in great shape. Toned muscle and all. The problem is that the ladies don't seem to be looking my way as much anymore. As soon as I make eye contact, they immediately look away. Or if I get a chance to smile first, I often get a very meek smile at best.

WTF is going on? All my friends say I look 100 times better than a year ago, but my success rate would say differently. Do you guys think that maybe I should go back to the way I was before? It doesn't seem to make much sense, but maybe you guys have some ideas?

 

[Seeph]

Better physical shape is not going to make girls not like you... If you were getting dates before this new improved you and now your not.. it has to be something with your DJ attitude and the way you present yourself you need to check out. No girl will not like you for having a good physical form.

 

[Seeph]

true Gig, I am 6'6" most people tell me they were intimidated by me when they first met me.. thats why I am always meeting others and breaking the ice. Try to be more outgoing tweed

 

[Anonymous56]

I am 6 5....I am a pretty good looking dude too.....I never really went up to any girls until like a year ago and thus I got no ass. However, real slutty and outgoing girls always approached me. I could never get the ones I likes to approach and I think a lot of it is just intimidation. Is it easier to approach a 5 or a 9??? It goes both ways...