A Challange for YOU and ME!

Ironwill

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So this Thread will contain a challange as stated above.
It will change your life if you do it, or you can just stop reading and wasting the rest of your life like you have always been.
Becaming just a tool of society and working your ass of for an average life with probaly an average girl an average house and blablalba.

You'll sit on your deathbed and think, that you wasted your life and you'll NEVER get another chance to do what you WANTED TO DO!
Fulfilling your dreams and accomplish everything you ever wanted to accomplish!
I'll tell you something, 99,9% of the human population doesn't understand that they will NOT live forever, they know it but don't understand.

Image that you will die tommorow and then it's over,you didn't **** that hot chick you saw yesterday, you didn't became a DJ( a MAN) even though you always dreamed of it and you are still not fulfilling half of your potential.
Dreaming doesn't change ****, ACTIONS DO!

I bet 99% of the guys reading this, read through it and hope that in an instant it will make boom and they are the man.
If you were a ***** before ,reading this won't make you the man, you'll still be a ***** ,but doing actually something going the DIFFICULT WAY WILL(!!!!) make you the man, the person who is only second to God.

I and YOU want hopefully became a MAN(!) ,**** being a DJ, a DJ to me is someone trying to create a fake personality and uses techniques to get chicks, great so you ****ed 999999 girls, so what?
Are you happy? Was this your goal in life?
I bet you'll still feel empty and you still walk aimlessly through life and then suddenly it makes click you realized it and you're 60 and ****ing girls with your 1t of viagra.
Was this your LIFE?

SO, DO YOU WANT TO BECAME A CHAMPION , A MAN LIKE MUHAMMAD ALI, MICHAEL JORDAN,OR THE FEW OTHER MEN WHO ARE OUT THERE DOING SOMEHTING GREAT, DOING WHAT THEY THINK THEY ARE DESTINED FOR.

IF you TRULY are, then walk this long way together with me, if noone does THEN I will walk alone, I am not in need of help, I offer YOU my help.


So let's start with the challenge it may sound ''easy'' but in reality doing it will change your life big time.
I will only make the first big step for you, you'll have to find out the rest by yourself, because everyone has different wishes for their future and my goals are different then yours.


The preperations:


1.
I want you to delete all of your useless PC games, I don't care if you're playing an online game with your LVL 9999 character or playing Counter Strike.
We are going into the reality,you don't need your fake personality anymore.

2.
Delete ALL of your ****ing porn, now don't ask.
You can't do it? Then get out of here!

The rules:

1.
You won't touch your PC,TV, PS2(or whatever you have), or any other what I call timewaster for the next 1 month.
AND NOT EVEN SURFING, ONLY WHEN YOU HAVE TO DO HOMEWORK FOR FOR EXAMPLE.
Why? Because they make you DULL, they kill your motivation, they destroy your sense for things arround you and they waste such an amount of your time that you get NOTHING DONE.
They keep you away from reaching your GOALS!

2.
You have an IPOD or any other Mp3 player?
Well you are allawed to listen to it for half an hour per day, anything more and your out.
Sounds strict?
But hey, it ****s up your social skills ( like all the other **** I posted above) it fills your brain ( zero concentration) with useless information and kills of your inner power....YOUR inner voice.

This one month without all this useless piece of crap will devolpe your OWN opionion ( because the media can't manipulate you anymore), will free your brain thus increasing your concentration and sense for everything and you will have to DO SOMETHING.

3.
You're NOT allowed to mastrubate more then once a week, everything over that and you ****ed up.
Now you may ask:,, WHY??? It's sooo healthy bal bla bla.''
No it's not, get over it.
By cuming you shoot out a ****load of your energy, your brain and body lose important minerals and vitamins which your body needs and to refill these vitamins and minerals it takes about 3 days.
Also you lower your testosteron levels, which WILL weaken you and make you more insecure, even though the 90% of your confidence should come from YOU.
By cuming less you will get more power, more concentration, a LITTLE(!) bit more confidence and you'll need for example less sleep.
You mastrubate every day? Time to change this unhealthy habit.

4.
SO, now you have a lot of freetime because you're not wasting your time with PC, TV and so on.
It's time to make use of it.
I want you to write down ( IN THIS THREAD) major goals, which may take you a lifetime to archive and minor goals, which you think are nice to do besides the major ones.
Goals which start with:,, I want to **** 200 chicks.'' Are not allowed at the moment,because you try to run even though you can't even stand!

First of we have to take care of your BIG problems which lead to your girl problems, for most people porobaly weak social skills, before you try to get chicks.
Because it will be easy to get them ,after you became your REAL, NEW SELF.
The will be attracted to you because you'll became different, an aura of POWER will surround you.
It will attract guys who want to follow you and girls who want to **** you, also your enemys will fear you, once their feel your aura.
It will crush them, the heavyness of your burden, because the do not have one and thus are WEAK.

5.
In this month you have to work everyday towards one of your goals.
The system works like this:

For example some of my goals:

(Main)
-Getting my old strengh back
-becaming the best basketball player in my club
-get GREAT marks which will help me get a lot of money
-learning as much as possible in every area ( wisdom IS POWER, without knowing what to do you can't lead and won't be confident).
-hanging out with my friends more ( social skills and getting new people to know)
-getting to know myself better and what I did till this point.


(minor)
-reading instead of watching for example TV<---learning as much as possible.
-doing everything by myself in every aspect, for example learning how to cook for myself and doing so.

You have to do 1 Major goal and 2 minor goals EVERYDAY!
They aren't allowed to be alwasys the same, you have to mix them.

If you're fat, then your goal will be losing weight ( NO EXCUSE) if you suck at school YOU WILL study MORE.
If you have no social skills make friends join a club for example and do there what is fun for you.

5.
Get to know yourself better, who are you know , what do you want to change?
Swrite down things you have learned and your toughts.
Put them on paper( a diary)

6. You accept this challenge once you post here your goals and then you should update your post every week ( that's why you will write a diary).

The challenge starts tommorow once you wake up, print it out since you will use your PC only for a weekly update or homework.

The Challenge wrapped up:

1 Month no timewasters, write down your goals here, check out the Rules and take finally ACTION.

This thread is supposed to make you get your arse off and solve your BIG problems.
By solving them YOU WILL GET STRONGER and by trying to reach your goals, you'll became A MAN who wants to accomplish his goals.
This alone makes you outstanding.
Because nowadays people don't have goals and without goals there isn't a way you should follow, without a way there isn't the power of change, the power to transform a WIMP into a MAN.

If I see that this Thread has 1000 views and no ****ing reply then I am going to find your ****ing house and I WILL ****ING KICK YOUR ASS YOU LAZY PIECE OF ****!!!!!!!
ARE YOU STILL WASTING YOUR TIME?????????
ACCEPT IT FINALLY YOU *****!
WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF???
ARE YOU AFRAID THAT YOU COULD BECAME A GREAT MAN????




BIG props to Senor Fingers and Contender.
I took some of your ideas and wrapped them up with mine, you inspired me to walk the path I have been walking some time ago, before I lost myself.
 

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As I tought noone of the around 30 people who viewed this Topic had the guts to acutally change something, but as stated before I don't care, I offered you a path and it's up to you to accept my help or sit on your lazy ass and waste your life.

This is my first update the next one will be in a week and yes I allready made progress.
I searched yesterday for some great books to read, which would help me to open my mind more ( Sun Tsus Art of war) and other books of great man as Ali.
I try to emulate some of his toughts on my loung journey.

Got invited to 2 partys today, one for today and one for next week, after the ''Abschlussfeier'', it's something like Prom, but without all that dancing and social bull****.

I also got a date with a Hb 7.5 for around next week.
I maybe don't have the aura of confidence I had before but I still got game and charm, here's the confersation for all of you technique freaks.

I was in the schoolfloor and wanted to leave ,but she still had to pack all her stuff away, so she asked me to help her, but I am not a gentleman, nor nice guy.

She: Hey Ironwill could you carry this stuff for me? You're a gentleman aren't you?
Me: Haha no I am not and if you want ME to do something then you have to do ALOT better then that. So come on another try?
She: O' come on !
Me:Still not good enough how about the word PLEASE?
She: Allright please!
Me:Not bad but with more feeling I don't feel your please.
She: pleeaaasseee ( laughing before)
Me: yeah yeah not bad hand it over, but believe me my services are not cheap, you owe me alot!

(gave power to her, just to take it away later)

After I was done with helping her our ways seperated and I told her before I leave:
Me: You know you owe me a goooooood date after this hard work! And you HAVE to pay it, you know my help is never cheap!it has to be the best ever, after I worked off my ass.
She: (laughing) Ok blablabla ( useless stuff I don't remember I only heard the ok/yes blbla stuff).
I told her the date and I was done.

The confersation wasn't exactly like that, because I can't remember everything, but it was like that.
I also thing that people who post 20 aproches per day either have a vague memory of them and make it like me or have a really good memory either I am done for today, the next update is in a week.
Hopefully some of you start to get off their asses.

Gotta buy some alcohol for the party, do sports, buy the books etc.
 

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Hey, more power to ya if you can pull this off.

I am tempted every once in a while to put myself on a big no gaming/no porn/no whacking/no TV/more good stuff program. I don't know if I could wipe some of those things out... they're FUN and a DISTRACTION... two things that are necessary to life.

Maybe it's more in moderation... which you seem to be doing by saying "masturbate once a week" and "listen to your MP3 only half an hour a day". It's pretty tough to wipe things out completely.

I don't know if I could go without playing a computer game completely... but I could cut it down to a few hours a week, surely.

I'll think about it. But again, good on ya.
 

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Good plan, I give props to it (could be written a little better). Good luck with your plan, I'm going to do most of it (music and porn are not goin, took me too long to DL that sh*t haha). Hey, you seem very motivated, why not try what I am going for. 3 weeks no masturbation. I'm at day 7, get some urges but nothing I can't handle. Good luck

Main
-Going to the gym more often.
-Become more experienced with women
-Gain closer connections with friends.
-Reading more, learning more.


Minor
-Masturbating once every 3 weeks.
 

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Ironwill said:
If I see that this Thread has 1000 views and no ****ing reply then I am going to find your ****ing house and I WILL ****ING KICK YOUR ASS YOU LAZY PIECE OF ****!!!!!!!
ARE YOU STILL WASTING YOUR TIME?????????
ACCEPT IT FINALLY YOU *****!
WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF???
ARE YOU AFRAID THAT YOU COULD BECAME A GREAT MAN????
I hate to be the devil's advocate, but wouldn't a lack of replies mean that people actually are taking your advice? Because you did mention no more use of a PC. They would have to deviate from your plan to do what you want, haha. But yea I assumed you were expecting everybody to print off your post and drop everything.
 
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Humm...I already have a 'system' like that. For example, at this current time:
- I can not view porn - not even once.
- Day-masturbation is prohibited - but night-masturbation is allowed in the event I'm unable to sleep by any other means or am over horney.
- Internet Attention Addiction is defined as staying on the internet for prolonged periods of times on boards such as this, to the detriment of progress - I'm giving myself up to three stirkes if this happens.
So if i'm on the internet - and fail to exercise, do something 'constructive' career wise, or dont do anything forward as far as women are concerned, then I get a strike on that day, if I get three strikes - then the rules would get clamped down hard - 15 minutes per day max - etc.. stuff like that.

About a few months ago, sometime in April, I viewed porn three times when I was really feeling depressed on various occasions. The third time was enough for me, and I really got strict with myself and even banned masturbation. Now I've relaxed the rules for Nocturnal masturbation where it is seen as a lesser problem then simply not being able to sleep.

*****

I think everyone on here can develop their own program/system.
 

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Ironwill said:
By cuming you shoot out a ****load of your energy, your brain and body lose important minerals and vitamins which your body needs and to refill these vitamins and minerals it takes about 3 days.
Also you lower your testosteron levels, which WILL weaken you and make you more insecure, even though the 90% of your confidence should come from YOU.
By cuming less you will get more power, more concentration, a LITTLE(!) bit more confidence and you'll need for example less sleep.
You mastrubate every day? Time to change this unhealthy habit.
This has got to be the biggest load of bullshyt that I've read in a long time. Show me the medical studies that back this up. It does not lower your test levels. And test levels have nothing to do with being insecure.
 

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xblitz44x said:
This has got to be the biggest load of bullshyt that I've read in a long time. Show me the medical studies that back this up. It does not lower your test levels. And test levels have nothing to do with being insecure.
Well... I will give my own experience.

I masturbated daily (or so) since I was 12. I am 31.

About three months ago I started to slow down.... to the point I now do it every three days or so. Right now I have actually not done it in a week... the longest I have gone without an orgasm in the last twenty years.

The results?

1) when I actually DO come, it's WAY better. I mean at least two or three times better. The amount and power of actual ejaculation is significantly increased.

2) I seem to have better willpower over when I decide to come. Before I'd be whacking away and then it would get close and WHAM. Now I can feel it coming (sorry) from miles away, can get it to peak levels and then pull back.

3) I am feeling VERY confident, especially the last week of non-whacking. And the girls are reacting to it... just last night I was at work, and this girl I work with that has a mild-crush on me pretty much invited me over for sex (she's very agressive with guys), also noting "you seem different lately... and you look great today". She's in the fvck-bank though... company ink.

But this is only my practical, real-world experience...;)


BTW I deleted all my porn today. Oh, Kaylani Lei, I will miss you... :cry:
 

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Ey Ironwill, I'm a purist, and I will do all that you say starting October 1st, the start of university (largely cos I can't afford a PC).

My goal: do as many girls as possible. That not allowed? Oh well
 

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Well i don't want to piss on your parade, but if you really want to do all this, you better know what you're doing.

Your idea isn't bad at all, and if you can pull it off, more power to you. I'm just saying that you should "know" yourself. Putting the stakes to high for yourself can only lead to failure (quitting, burning out, giving in) and you will feel like a failure and a weakling.

Start small, and celebrate small victories.

The key to succes is setting challenging goals (moving outside of your comfortzone) of which you know you CAN accomplish them.

To elaborate further...

I have found in the past that to really shine and succeed in something, it needs my full attention, with brakes welded in between. If i want to bulk up, i'll read about working out, put together a good program, talk about it with experienced people and then DO it. I won't be focusing on anything else at that time, i wont be trying to change anything else. Just gaining musclemass.

Once this scedule becomes a habbit i will focus on something else and keep the habits i have (working out). And i'll just keep adding to it.

In the end all i have to really do is manage my time to fit everything in, but the good news is that when something becomes a habit, it also becomes an automation. Your brain is wired to handle processes automatically when you repeat them frequently enough. And this goes for everything. Once you've learned how to drive a car, you are no longer thinking about putting your foot on the clutch then shifting a gear, releasing... you are doing it automatically. It becomes second nature and your reflexes are programmed accordingly.

At first you'll spend 2 houres in the gym, after a while you'll get everything done in 45minutes or less. You're game will go to automatic, you will go out, meet chicks and sarge... because that's what you do! It's in your nature, hardwired, you only need to 'maintain'. You will simply BE a good student, studying will be something you just do, if you got a test, you'll be studying, no question about it.

BUT you still need time to 'adjust'. Your brain is a great tool that you have, but it's not a computer to which you can just upload something. You got to get used to processes. So take it slow, one step at the time. I guarantee that you WILL go far!

As for jerking off. I'm not sure if this fits into the cathegory of 'wilpower'. Your sexdrive is in a lot of ways a basic need telling you to have sex and reproduce, it's not so easily quelled and will only become more pressing as time goes by. Must like hunger, only i've found that while hunger will cease after a certain time, lust never does (at least not for me). It just keeps pounding until you go stark raving mad (or jerk off). Regardless of that, i have found that i can 'condition' it slightly and jerk off less. I went from twice a day, to once a week... and sometimes i don't wack for ages because i'm having sex instead. The 'trick' is satisfaction. Sex is a lot more satisfying than wacking off. After i've had some tail, i sometimes go 2 weeks without cuming with no real effort. If you jerk off every day, you will hardly get any satisfaction out of it at all and it compels you to jerk off more.

All you really got to do is just not jerk off for a couple days and you'll build it up. I never managed to get past 3 weeks myself though... after three weeks i'm horney enough to shag a goat and every woman i meet represents a walking vagina. Regardless of what others may have found, i have found that it's not very productive to my game to be 'that' horney... so now i just take the middle road of not 'too' horney, but still turned on.
 

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Yea I'm not buying the medical part either, as I've read sex actually increases the testosterone levels in men. There was an Olympic athlete who tested positive during a drug test because his testosterone levels were higher than normal. Turned out he had sex like 4 times the night before. I'm sure these scientists would disagree too.

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2006/02/0222_060222_sex.html

You act as if we're praying mantises. Sex won't kill us.
 

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Methinks there is a BIG difference between masturbating and sex.

You think the effect on your mind is the same when you spank your moneky and when you bang a hot woman? I don't think so.

Even if we're speaking biologically... the presence of a woman does substantial things to the way our biochemistry works. Ways we still have little ability to understand.

Thus I have no doubt that having actual sex with a woman indeed raises your testosterone. But I really think you're not fooling your body by masturbating.

Although... I did see a study that said married men have lower levels of testosterone than single men.

ALTHOUGH.. (again, sorry)... perhaps there is a little more to this than just testosterone levels.
 

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I see where your going with this, it really does help alot with opening more stuff that you can do. You can do stuff to improve yourself instead of wasteful things. I don't watch tv so I'm ahead of a few, I've also had times where I quit games and never touched it for 3 months. Only thing is the internet (unless its cut off) but I find when you lose all the time wasters(sp?) you actually can improve and learn more stuff at this time.

Instead of going online to play a multiplayer game, instead go to a club. Instead of looking for the best porn scene go to the mall and get some fly cloth. Instead of sitting in the house watching room raiders and Next go out and approach some girls. You get my drift, what the main poster had put is pretty good and can really help time wise, you don't know how many days I used to be on the computer and 5 hours would be up.

I find that Internet, and TV are the worst because now its less people who goes outside. Remember when you were smaller and had no Internet, or cable, you would go outside. You would see alot of people outside, now that they have high speed internet and over 300+ channels on tv you see less and less people. There are some girls I've never seen in my area because they always hangout in there house. Then people want to chat over the internet instead of going on dates, or look at other people's myspace or facebook when they could just go outside and find people.

Anyone who hasn't tryed anything like this should do it, one of my newest ways of getting out the house is by getting something and instead of going to the store closest go to a far one. Go to another town just to get some milk that way you can approach some girls and your outside longer.
 

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Refraining yourself from doing all of these things seems a bit rediculous to me, as there is nothing wrong with enjoying many of these pleasures in life.

I am a very private type of a guy, I don't socialise very much at all, even though I am not a shy man, I spend a great deal of my time alone, playing computer games, surfing the internet, studying and typing out essays so that I can obtain even higher academic qualifications, listening to my music, watching sports on tv, as well as masturbating when I choose to do so.

In spite of this isolated type of a life I have learnt to be a success with the hottest babes, I repeat positive affirmations about myself into my subconscious mind, this I do for about half an hour a day, I have learnt the art of how to attract the hot babes, as well as being able to read there body language, so that I can tell if they are attracted to me or not within an instant of my seeing them.

Even though I may only be in public and social situations in very short periods I am able to approach and sarge many hot babes in a very quick time.

Wherever I go, even if I have stayed inside my home by myself for the majority of the day I can in a one or two hour visit to my local shopping centre approach and sarge several hot babes whilst I am there.

I spend a great deal of my time pushing weights doing sit ups etc and working out on the punching bag, I eat a very healthy diet, I do deep breathing exercises and I take a one hour walk along the beach near my home every night.

My body is fit powerful and strong, I do the majority of these things whilst I am listening to my music or watching tv or during my intervals whilst I am on my computer.

For example I can do my deep breathing exercises whilst I am surfing the internet and playing my computer games, I can curl and lift weights, do my sit ups, use the punching bag, and eat a healthy meal whilst I am watching sport on tv, I don't have to stop doing these things.

It is the same when I am typing out an essay and studying on my computer that I can stop for half an hour and surf the internet or play a game and watch tv as well.

Likewise I can listen to my music whilst doing all of these things, plus I can listen to it whilst I am walking along the beach.

It is all to do with time management, I cannot see any valid reason to stop doing these things if I can still achieve all of my other goals whilst I am enjoying them.

Being successful with the hottest babes has absolutely nothing to do with refraining from masturbation, watching tv, playing computer games, surfing the internet, listening to music, or even living in isolation for the majority of your time.

What makes you a success with the hottest babes is (1) Accepting the fact that not all of them are going to be attracted to you, taking it on the chin when you are rejected, and realizing that only one out of every one hundred hot babes has to desire you for you to always have one in your life.

(2) Approach and sarge every possible hot babe that you can in the time that you are in a public place or a social situation, if you learn to do this you will discover that the opportunity to sarge a hot babe will present itself about ten or fifteen times during a one hour visit to your local shopping plaza and you don't have to come accross as a crazy man to do it once you know how to.

(3) Build up your confidence, don't worry about what anyone else thinks about what you are doing, build up a power within yourself, veiw yourself as being the prize, walk into any public or social venue as if you are a King, be bold enough to approach every hot babe who shows an interest in you, use your own body language to reveal your attraction towards her and use her body language that she is directing towards you which will tell you if she wants you to approach her or not.

(4) Enjoy your own life, be happy, do what you want to do, you don't need every hot babe that you approach to desire you, one in one hundred is all that you need, be the best that you can be in all areas of your life, realize that a hot babe will eventually desire to be with you if you persist in your sarging all possibilities that come your way.

(5) If your voice is weak or you stutter or you have any type of speech disorder fix it, re-train your voice, speak deep, speak loud, speak with confidence, speak with power, and speak with clarity, this is extremely important, if you sound terrible, very few hot babes will desire you.

(6) Always look directly into the eyes of the hot babe that you are talking to at all times, this is also of extreme importance.

(7) Put the beleif into the hot babes mind that you are a high quality guy, that most other hot babes would desperately desire to be with you.

(8) Study the psychology of the hot babes mind, read dating tip manuals and books, read self help titles, search this So Suave threads and posts for any type of advice that may help, study the hot babes themselves, listen to what they are saying to each other, and look at the type of guys that they are attracted to and dating so that you can learn what to say and be like to win their affections.

These eight points are what makes a guy a success with the hottest babes, I don't claim to be an expert or even a fully fledged AlphaMale, I often kick myself because I don't follow these rules that I have outlined here, but when I do follow them they work, you don't have to give up anything at all to be an AlphaMale you just have to learn and apply a few techniques and you can become one. :D
 

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Alright I'll bite:

Main Goals
-Become the best runner on my high school cross country team and a time of 15:40 or less for the three-mile run
-Straight As next year in high school (I will be a Junior)
-A larger social circle (I have many friends but few I actually 'want' to hang out with)
-Spend more time with my friends
-Gain my parent's trust (they are strict as hell and I've pissed them off one too many times)
-Absorb as much knowledge as I can
-Find a career path that I want to follow (I have barely a clue as to what I want to be)
-Learn more about myself and what I want - I confess that I don't really 'know' who I am, I feel as if I don't know what I want to do with my life at times
-Get a driver's license - I haven't put much effort into it and my parents aren't too willing to go out and help me practice that often
-Spend less time on the internet and more time OUTSIDE!
-Save money towards buying my own place when I go to college so I can live by my OWN rules and not my parents' rules
-Get more involved in my high school so I can meet new people and develop new interests.
-Better eating habits
-Make better use of my free time - I have quite a lot of it and I waste quite a bit of it (though I do have a job)
-Improve the tone of my voice - I used to talk very quietly and lately I've been getting better with this
-Improve my confidence - I was very shy and insecure before but I've made a solution to this problem one of my top priorities

Minor Goals
-I want to read more
-Less complaining about homework and more shutting up and getting it done
 

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@KoalaKing

I don't do this challenge, because I have problems with woman I acutally DO have game and everything you've written down there is not new to me.
I am allready past that problems, it's just that I lost my focus on my life and goals.
I know how it feels to wake up and not knowing what I have to do and feeling kinda lost and waking up with a sharp and focused mind ready to achieve everything.
I want to get back to that.

Let's check your rules.

1. I know this, for example at the party last week I met a chick and we flirted a bit.
I could build up the attrection to a certain extent, but not enough to #-close her.
I follow my gut and the attrection wasen't high enough.
I met her on the next day where we were invited to hang out with a friend of mine ( who infact seems to do better with her then I did).
I did alot better with her and this time I COULD have #-closed her, but she was surrounded by her girlfriends who didn't give me a sec to isolate her.......But who cares there was a wise sentence by some guys on here: NEXT!
It's infact true.

2.I try to create moments, because I it seems I only see them when it's to late most of the time.

3. I don't need to build it up, it's within me I just have to get back the tought of KNOWING that I am confident.
True confidence is knowing that you're confident not thinking.
Acting confident comes from alone then.

4.THIS is were I lack.
I know that I am not the best I COULD be, that's why I try to change that.

5.I have allready done that about a year ago, I can control my voice very well, I only have problems when I am drunk with my speech.

6.I used to intimitade even the really hot babes when I looked in their eyes.
Lost it, I try to recover that feature.
It was always funny, because after they looked in my eyes they knew that I stood higher then them, it was like after that second they started to desire me even more.
Also worked well when you try to make other guys who want to mess with you look insecure.
But this stuff comes only when you're truly comfortable and confident with yourself, difficult to keep and archive.

7. I don't have to say that to myself I allready know that and the hot babes allready know that too.

8. I won't fill up my brain with even more trash.
Society has allready done a great job of filling the brains with useless bull****, so that way they consume and stay always low, **** that.

This Challenge is a wake up call, if you think you're awake how can I wake you up then?

@ Distant Light

You got it right.
It's also about getting ride of the barriers and other crap the media has put inside your brain, free your mind and it will free you.

@Isiman84

Dude, put your opinion over the opinion of everyone else.
Do you believe some guy who has a site called the mastrubationpage or do you believe yourself?
I could myself open a site about how to get laid and I also could post on there how being a nice guy get's you *****.
Would it be a FACT then?
What does your real life experience say?
Realsmoothie for example agrees with me and my real life expierence is almost the same.
Facts do NOT exist it's just a opinion of someone.
In the moment you accept it, it becomes a fact for you.
If you want one of your so called facts then check this site out: http://www.herballove.com/library/resource/overmas/fatal.asp

Try not to jack off for a week and then post about how you feel and please don't cheat, say how you really feel.
If you feel the same, good for you jack off as much as you want, until your **** looks like Donald Trump or if you feel better then it's also good.

@Socialreject

It's not the first time I do this challenge I allready started small, this is just the next step.
I first off need to get the things I used to be good at or had back, then I'll correct my other problems.
Otherwise as you stated I would probaly fail.

@L777 if you think that this will fulfill you then go do it.
It's just most guys on this site have major problems (other then girls), which lead to their social- and chick-problems.

So school is over, now I have finally time to concetrate myself 100% on my goals.
Barely made it past the first week, because I couldn't decide by myself when I would do my stuff ( school, basketball-training, partys, friends who invite you somewhere a.s.o.).
So the big after-school partys are over and my head hurts , but I am ready to go!

by the way I made more progress but I guess it will peak at the third week and I have latley problems with my muscles.
I have regulary muscleache after training and I can't go there today, because it would only make it worse.
Any advice on how to neutralize the muscleache after you do ( ALOT) sport?
By the way I am FIT and I do eat healthy it just accours to often in the last few months and my muscles need alot of time to regenerate ( about a week).
 

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I said I WOULD update didn't I?( Was in holiday for about 2 weeks)
So here it is, I guess I learned quite a bit in this month.
First off I failed at the 3 week.
Hurts to accept the fact but I ****ed up, how?
I became kinda lazy I tried to FORCE myself into something instead of wanting.

In the second I didn't believe in the idea anymore I didn't believe in myself anymore and failed, at least temporaly in the end I gained more then I lost ,it was worth my time.
I only wanted to get my mind clear again, regaining the focus on my life and the challenge was the way to go, I don't want to became a ****ing monk.

But I learned from my failure, first off i keep on going thus I am making progress.(and no I am not doing this stuff anymore)
It's funny, because I can see why people always fail to change something.
They don't truly want it.
I understood the reasons of their failure, because of my own recent failure.

They don't want to sacrifice something in order to gain something.
You can't always gain gain gain and gain more you can't fill a glass with more water then it can handle, but you can empty it and fill it with another liquid.

This site teaches you how to sacrifice the ''AFC'' in you, you empty the AFC-water out of your glass and fill it with man-juice (**** how original hahahaha).

You can forget or compress a desire for a some time, maybe a day , maybe 10 years but as long as the desire is within you, it will come out once again.

So there a two options: killing it off or moderation.
By killing it off the desire will no longer be aviable, the option itself DOES NOT EXIST.
Or let the desire out for some time, but how do you know that you can keep it under control?
In the end the universell answer is, do want you REALLY want to, what are your deepest whises?
It's funny how a simple sentence can contain more truth and wisdom then the whole DJ-bible.

It's simple, why do people read through the whole bible?
Because they can't accept that it is that easy, they search for a reason to not take action, by saying they don't understand.
So they search loooooonnnnnggg posts and read them, this stuff won't change you.

You can read though Pooks post and won't be enlightend ,you never will, because you don't have the memories or feelings to correctly assisiate them with the right words.
In 1 sentence can be so much wisdom, so strong feelings and power that it may take you a life time to create your own version of it, truly understanding it is still impossible( I hate this word,this word has so much power, it keeps billions of people away from life).
I mean look at the bible there are posts that are 5 sites long and say nothing that these sentences don't say.

You could some the bible up in :
- be a man
- do want you want to
- life your dreams, dont be afraid
- succes in life brings succes with woman along

That's it, you can leave the site now, you know now everything this site has to offer and some side note for the people who always ask WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????
or IS SHE INTEREST IN ME?????
Do want YOU think is right, it IS YOUR life, YOUR kindgom.
Stop being afraid of failure, you WILL fail like I did but **** if you are still going on then you're making progress.

Your gut is always the best think to ask first.
Living by the opinion of others is like living not at all, look at all the chicks their a WEAK , WEAK and WEAK.
They let themselfs get manipulated by friends and society.
Just a question, has a GF ever broken up with someone on here because here FRIENDS told her to?
Even though SHE doens't think that way, but wants to keep her friends, because she depends on them?

You're leading--> you're confident in that situation --->active*male*
You're following-> you don't know what to do in that situation---> you're passive*woman*

Even though it can be reserved for different situations in life.
The more wisdom and knowledge you have the more can you lead, the more confident you will became.
But you also need the right mindset and physical attributes to acutally be able to TAKE DO what you tought off.


So this is enough for now , I am tired and I'll go to bed.
Got to stand up early ( training my b-ball skills).
And I didn't check the post for spelling mistakes or other stuff , english is NOT my native language.
 
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