A blast from the past

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Funny thing happened today.

Since I broke up with my g/f I have been trying to reconnect with old friends and make some new ones to get my socail life back up to speed. One of these old friends happens to be a girl that I have known for about five years who I went out with a couple of times right after we first met.

After going out with her I pretty much wrote her off as an attention Wh0re. She always seemed to thrive on the attention whenever I showed her any, but never seemed to return any. You know the type.

Anyways, over the past few years I have bumped into her many times while out partying and such. One time I ran into her I was walking out of a club with my soon-to-be girlfriend (we had recently met) and we bumped into her on the street. Later that night my g/f told me that this chick was giving her the up and down "who do you think you are" evil eye kind of look while we were out on the street talking. Strange.

I recently traveled to Europe and was going to be visiting my friend's home country Czech Republic, so I contacted her for travel tips and advice. Since I got back we have texted each other and talked on the phone a couple of times, but nothing more than the usual BS.

Today she calls me up and asks me for the umpteen millionth time about buying some equipment from my store. We also talked about RE investing, since she recently purchased her first investment property. She made a comment about getting together for a drink sometime, and I said "sure, give me a call".

So tonight I am at the store and she calls me up asking if I want to meet up with her and her friend for a drink. I met her an hour or so later at an upscale restaurant bar.

It's funny because like I said, I had written this chick off as simply wanting male attention, so I pretty much decided not to give her any. But tonite when I met up with her something was different. Both her and her friend were pawing all over me and making lots of sexual references and such.

Anyways, her friend goes off and starts flirting with a bunch of other guys in the bar leaving us alone. We were sitting next to each other on a bar type booth. She started telling me about a business idea she has that is basically a high class sex shop. I actually really liked the idea, and we talked about it all night. She sat real close with her leg pretty much on top of mine and kept making references to sex and saying how she was really "tipsy".

So I'm thinking to myself, "Damn, maybe she's just horny and wants a quick wham-bam-thank-you-ma'm" So I'm trying to escalate the sex talk, telling her that with her business idea she must be wild in bed and that she must have quite a collection of sex toys. I tried to keep the sex talk up, and she mentioned several times how she "wasn't getting any" lately. She also said something about coming back to her place later to see her condo since I had never been there.

It's getting later and we decide to leave, so I mentioned something about coming over, to which she replied "Maybe tonight isn't a good night....I'm going to see my friend who just got back into town then I am going to bed" I pretended to be offended that she was retracting her invitation, so she says, "but if you really want to come by you are welcome to". I told her "no, not tonight cause you're busy". She mentioned it again, but I told her I was headed home.

So what do you make of the sudden about-face? Should I try to fukk her or is it still a lost cause? I really don't want to put much time into it but she's pretty hot for a MILF and I have always wondered how she would be in bed.

Whatcha think?
 

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Whatcha think? [/B]
Don't think.

She ain't LTR material. My experience with women when they act like this is that if you're horny and have protection then just go for it. Flow with her emotions for the night as you don't know how she'll be the next. :woo:
 

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Dude you should have ****ed her right there and then that night.

And if you **** a girl good enough she'll be addicted to you.

The only reason she said maybe tonight isn't a good night is she was showing antislut defense, but then she reofferred.

It may be too late now though. Sometimes those windows of horniness only last a bit.
 

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Originally posted by STR8UP
she's pretty hot for a MILF and I have always wondered how she would be in bed.
MILF as in Single Mommy?

NEXT!

From what you've described it appears her IL with you is now heightened because she lacks other prospects and it's time for the man on deck to step up to her plate. I get the impression that you weren't her first priority in the past and now she's pulled your number in line. This would follow for a true AW (they're all AWs to some degree really).

I'd keep her as a pet on the side as one more plate to occasionally spin, but don't let this girl occupy your efforts with better prospects. The last thing you should do is allow this one - especially a single mother - to limit your options.
 

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Can someone tell me what MILF stands for? Seriously. I have no clue...

Yeah man, sounds like she wants you too play house. LOL!
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Originally posted by Ricky
The only reason she said maybe tonight isn't a good night is she was showing antislut defense, but then she reofferred.

It may be too late now though. Sometimes those windows of horniness only last a bit.
It's possible now that you mention it. I could have gone back to her place but I kinda turned it around like I didn't want to anymore.
 

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Re: Re: A blast from the past

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
MILF as in Single Mommy?
No, sorry. MILF as in hot older chick. No kids.

From what you've described it appears her IL with you is now heightened because she lacks other prospects and it's time for the man on deck to step up to her plate. I get the impression that you weren't her first priority in the past and now she's pulled your number in line. This would follow for a true AW (they're all AWs to some degree really).
Yea, I know she was previously fukking this other guy who is all over her and wanted a relationship. She only seemed to want him for the sex. She told me several times last night that she isn't gettin' any anymore so I am assuming that's a done deal.

I'd keep her as a pet on the side as one more plate to occasionally spin, but don't let this girl occupy your efforts with better prospects. The last thing you should do is allow this one - especially a single mother - to limit your options.
No way is this anything close to a priority for me. I had honestly discounted this chick years ago after going out with her a couple of times. We have kept in contact and met up for luch or drinks from time to time over the years, but she was the same person that made me pretty much forget about her in the first place, so I didn't think anything of it until last night when she seemed WAAAAY more into me.

Keep in mind, I would never date her but I wouldn't mind sampling the goods.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
could it be that she wants something (other then your unit:D )
I agree from the small snipets that you provided, it sounds like more she wants to get free financial and business advise.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent Freeman
I would definetely lower her self-esteem by demonstrating that I don't find her one bit attractive anymore. I would start off by saying, "wow, you have gained a little weight since the last time I saw you."
I kinda did that a couple of times, matter of fact.

I had ordered a pizza and she was sharing it with me. She went to the restroom and when she came back I had eaten the last slice. She said, "Good thing you ate the last one....I don't need it cause my ass is getting bigger". So I told her to get up and show me her ass. She got up and when she turned around I slapped it and told her the she might be ok having JUST ONE MORE SLICE...haha.
 

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Originally posted by spider_007
could it be that she wants something (other then your unit:D )
Yea, I know she does want business and investment advice. But she knows I would help her with that regardless so I don't think the flirting had much to do with that.

Maybe we can trade. Sex for money tips sounds fair to me!
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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So I told her to get up and show me her ass. She got up and when she turned around I slapped it and told her the she might be ok having JUST ONE MORE SLICE...haha. Written by STR8UP
Man, you need to be smashing that and keeping it on a very long leash.

Mr. Tomassi pointed this out earlier.
 

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Can someone tell me what MILF stands for? Seriously. I have no clue...
"Mothers I'd like to fvck"
 

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Come to think of it, now I know how I should have handled this situation.

Instead of mentioning anything about going to her place when we were still in the bar I should have just walked out to my car and just assumed it was going to happen. When we get to our cars I tell her, "Ok, so I'm following you?" Then what's she gonna say? No? Always assume you've made the sale, ALWAYS.

And another thing about the whole attention wh0re thing.

I guess even they need love (sex) too. It's just a matter of playing it the right way with them cause it would be easy to fall into their stupid game. It might take LONGER to make it happen, since girls like her always have a line of guys and they just pick and choose who they want at the moment.

I told her last night that she still has to stop by and see my new place. Maybe next week I'll tell her to come over and get her into the jacuzzi. I already know I can get her revved up with the sex talk, so from there it should be a done deal.

I only met her friend for the first time last night, but she seemed to be the same kind of person. She would go talk to a guy for 15 minutes and then just up and leave to do the same with another one, leaving the first one wondering why she just left him there. Silly ho's.
 

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rent........

STRU8UP,

I have an attention wh0re as my fvck buddy. (that is all an AW is good for, as I see it)

I am just using a 'rent with the option-to-buy' system on her.

She may dump me tomorrow, because, that is what AW's do.

So, I think you should 'hit that thing' with the idea that any day she will move on. (which she will)

my 2 cents

cave dweller
 

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THAT IS AWESOME

"Rent with the option to buy"

Brilliant!

This thread reminds me of the fact that may well be true. Some women need sex as much or more than guys. Sex is kind of the validation of attractiveness for women that men get from things like their careers.

Plus physically girls crave sex. It is biological. I mean I crave it to, but I'm getting convinced that there is something in our food that is making women way more horny! That and the fact they can act more on their repressed desires nowadays.
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
Plus physically girls crave sex. It is biological. I mean I crave it to, but I'm getting convinced that there is something in our food that is making women way more horny! That and the fact they can act more on their repressed desires nowadays.
Maybe it's just that I have a lower sex drive, but looking back I can say that every girl I have ever been with was a horny little fukkmonster and wanted it all the time. Do you think that it's any different when they aren't in a relationship? Of course not. They are probably even hornier since they don't know when they will get their next fix.

And I agree with cavedweller about the AW thing. Over the years I have mostly ignored chciks like that as a waste of time. Maybe I need to rethink my strategy and use the situation for what it is.
 

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her fan club

STR8UP,

Some men will build a harem.

AW's will build a 'fan club'.

When she gets tried or bored with you she just dumps you and picks another one of her fans.

But, you knew that.

Go easy, because, she will be here today and gone tomorrow.

my 2 cents

cave dweller
 
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