6 reasons to date girls you're not attracted to

Manure Spherian

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It sounds to me that you had to settle with what you were able to get, is that what you did? Got a girl at the end of her beauty years cause that was what you could get? Would you recommend that to your son? Get a not attractive girl and move on with life?
My wife is very pretty and I met her when she was 24.

I recommend men who cannot get a pretty woman to lower their standard. Or else don’t have a woman at all.
 

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I like it. Some men should get a less attractive woman and move on with life.
I do agree with this to some extent. But ONLY if she feels like you are a "ten" even though she is let's say a 6 in your eyes.

Because when a man approaches the 6 with the idea to make things easier, he will find out the hard way that misses Six will gibe him the same bs that misses 8,6 gives him.
My wife is very pretty and I met her when she was 24.

I recommend men who cannot get a pretty woman to lower their standard. Or else don’t have a woman at all.
There's also the possibility to see more colours on the spectrum. What about hitting something "a little less" for the time being? Women do it all the time, they'll date a man they don't find that attractive to meet their needs in that particular moment in life.
 

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lower their standard. Or else don’t have a woman at all.
Or become more attractive, with more game, better social skills, develop personality, be a more fun guy.

But I get it, its not the typical advice cause its very difficult and requires time, and many men have been raised to be defective women that they want everything fast.
 

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Or become more attractive, with more game, better social skills, develop personality, be a more fun guy.

But I get it, its not the typical advice cause its very difficult and requires time, and many men have been raised to be defective women that they want everything fast.
So true. Been trying to unlearn a lot of femininity these past couple years.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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