I recently went through a terrible break up, lost my closest friends, got my license suspended. I also havent been very busy this summer since I only work a part time job and not going to school for the semester. Its been brutal for about 3 months. Ive done alot of sitting around and over thinking. However I realize its time to rebuild myself. My goals by January are the following:
- Hit the gym 4 times a week and reach muscle aesthetics by January. Im already naturally thin and toned but in 5 months time I want to be able to stand out.
- Find a good full time job making atleast 15 an hour. I currently go to school but will be done with associates by December. Full time job this year is impossible.
- Buy a better car. Want to get infinity g37 coupe all black.
- Buy a house and move out of parents house in January. I currently have enough money saved up for a down payment. I wont qualify for a loan until I get the full time job.
Those are my 4 goals and plan to really focus and work for the remainding of the year. Im 20 years old and experienced a very painful break up with a woman who is very promiscous and know isnt really a good catch. She started dating a friend of mine after me and has been a painful blow. Is having a mental competetion with him to be better than him a good idea or should I just focus on myself?. It kinda fuels me to work harder but i dont think its healthy.
Anyways, what do you bros think? Are these good goals to have and will achieving all this make me more attractive to women? I wanna hear DJ feedback and advice.
- Hit the gym 4 times a week and reach muscle aesthetics by January. Im already naturally thin and toned but in 5 months time I want to be able to stand out.
- Find a good full time job making atleast 15 an hour. I currently go to school but will be done with associates by December. Full time job this year is impossible.
- Buy a better car. Want to get infinity g37 coupe all black.
- Buy a house and move out of parents house in January. I currently have enough money saved up for a down payment. I wont qualify for a loan until I get the full time job.
Those are my 4 goals and plan to really focus and work for the remainding of the year. Im 20 years old and experienced a very painful break up with a woman who is very promiscous and know isnt really a good catch. She started dating a friend of mine after me and has been a painful blow. Is having a mental competetion with him to be better than him a good idea or should I just focus on myself?. It kinda fuels me to work harder but i dont think its healthy.
Anyways, what do you bros think? Are these good goals to have and will achieving all this make me more attractive to women? I wanna hear DJ feedback and advice.
