5 Mating Strategies Women use to select and reject men

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I feel like women pick me for the Opportunist (White women looking for a black bat) and Sex Appeal game.

I think my weakest is confidence and charisma because I don't put out a serious vibe/I'm realistic and my voice doesn't reflect what I look like.
 

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Accurate video. To summarize- women mate based off 5 archetypes:

Opportunist - “Clout chaser”

Sex Appeal - “I want to fvck him”

Confidence - “He has balls of steel”

Social Proof - “Wow everyone likes him”

Charisma - “Master at game / charm”

Men, what are you strengths? I second most dating coaches in saying to maximize volume you need to be a 7/10 in all 5, rather than a 10 in one or two and a 0 in the rest.

Stay away from Opportunists and Social Proof. Those broads only see you as a disposable utility.
 

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I feel like women pick me for the Opportunist (White women looking for a black bat) and Sex Appeal game.
There is a subset of White women who are seeking a larger than average black bat. 12% body fat also helps too.
 

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Accurate video. To summarize- women mate based off 5 archetypes:

Opportunist - “Clout chaser”

Sex Appeal - “I want to fvck him”

Confidence - “He has balls of steel”

Social Proof - “Wow everyone likes him”

Charisma - “Master at game / charm”

Men, what are you strengths? I second most dating coaches in saying to maximize volume you need to be a 7/10 in all 5, rather than a 10 in one or two and a 0 in the rest.

Stay away from Opportunists and Social Proof. Those broads only see you as a disposable utility.
Here's a great example of an opportunist I had:

Once met a girl that thought I raced in NASCAR. She was several years younger and super into me for the first two weeks. She was quick to want to come to a race. That was until I corrected her and said no, I don't race in NASCAR I, I race on a lesser regional level. She wouldn't talk to me after that. I never misled her, but I think the she was so mesmerized by the idea she never listened well enough nor understood.
 

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For me I would say confidence and charisma. When I utilize social media I can add in social proof, because I'm very well liked on SM and naturally funny and witty and I get a lot of likes from beautiful women, even if they're in relationships or married. However I shut down all my SM about a month ago just to focus on business and life. I'm working out and losing weight to get my sex appeal up. I'm by no means ugly, but if it came down to looks alone, I wouldn't be able to stand a chance against the top 1% of men with good bodies, so I need to fix that.
 

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If you’re a confident man that carries himself with absoltute boldness, success, masculinity, self-assuredneas while being grounded, centred and internally strong and referenced - women will think you have all of those things and chase you for all of those things at once.

That’s the point of having game and confidence - they see you as turning up all of those aspects at the same time in the same person.

So the video seems redundant and I’ve watched his videos before - he has very little game, minimal charisma and understands some game - just roided up muscle. So I would take his advice with a grain of salt.
 
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