4 flakes in one day? WTF?

[DonGorgon]

Yup i tried to meet up with 4 different girls that i met at clubs and all 4 said yes its cool then one by one they all flaked out..

2 girls just stopped responding wen it came time to meet up and one said she was doing her hair and would call me back but never did.. and the last said she was studying and would call me back and never did.

This sucks cause i was feeling very positive about all these prospects cause they were giving very good feedback and showing high interest.

One that stopped responding sent me a patronizing BS text "Hey..." at 1am and i did not respond to that.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

That's ok. There's always variance in life but it balances out when you're making the right moves.

One day in the future you'll have all 4 that DON'T flake in one day and you'll have to WTF about that.

I always keep this in mind (the Big Picture) because I get a large portion of my income from playing poker. I make all the right moves, don't make emotional decisions, only logical ones yet I'll get my ass handed to me on occasion for a few weeks straight which is (for the short term) statistically improbable but over the long haul to be expected. I always keep in mind that since I made the right moves, that's normal and I'll soon end up with a few weeks where I'm getting far more than my fair share.

All in all I'm a winner.

 

[DonGorgon]

That's ok. There's always variance in life but it balances out when you're making the right moves.

One day in the future you'll have all 4 that DON'T flake in one day and you'll have to WTF about that.

I always keep this in mind (the Big Picture) because I get a large portion of my income from playing poker. I make all the right moves, don't make emotional decisions, only logical ones yet I'll get my ass handed to me on occasion for a few weeks straight which is (for the short term) statistically improbable but over the long haul to be expected. I always keep in mind that since I made the right moves, that's normal and I'll soon end up with a few weeks where I'm getting far more than my fair share.

All in all I'm a winner.

Great post thanks man .. im just feeling very rejected right now but things will turn around.. I will never get accustomed to the emotional randomness that women live by, they will say anything but their actions could be opposite and for no clear reason..

 

[drak_ool]

DonGorgon, believe it or not, but that is a situationi I used to run into EVERY weekend. A couple years back, when the weekend came around a friend/budding PUA and I would invite out every major prospect we had met in the week/2 weeks before. Most of the girls seemed like a sure lock until the afternoon before the date. Then, one by one, they would start flaking (belive me, I ve heard every excuse)...

The thing is, we were expecting this! No matter how good the signals we got from each specific girl, we knew based on experience that a lot of them will not show up. So we'd be happy even if only a couple girls would show up.

And then, of course, there were the times when no girls would show up, they would all flake. What did we do? we didnt' just sit at home sulking, we'd go out anyways and sarge, only to repeat the whole experience the weekend after...

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

When it rains, it pours.

 

[IamMe]

When it rains, it pours.

HAH my thoughts exactly

 

[DonGorgon]

DonGorgon, believe it or not, but that is a situationi I used to run into EVERY weekend. A couple years back, when the weekend came around a friend/budding PUA and I would invite out every major prospect we had met in the week/2 weeks before. Most of the girls seemed like a sure lock until the afternoon before the date. Then, one by one, they would start flaking (belive me, I ve heard every excuse)...

The thing is, we were expecting this! No matter how good the signals we got from each specific girl, we knew based on experience that a lot of them will not show up. So we'd be happy even if only a couple girls would show up.

And then, of course, there were the times when no girls would show up, they would all flake. What did we do? we didnt' just sit at home sulking, we'd go out anyways and sarge, only to repeat the whole experience the weekend after...

THATS WHAT ME AND MY FRIENDS DO BUT WE HAVE NOTICED THAT THINGS ARE GETTING HARDER AND HARDER.. we used to get 1 lay for every 7 numbers but now it 1 per 14 numbers or worse..
I dont give up but i do communicate the situation to others.. Females have too many options its too easy for them to chose some other guy..lol thats why world economy is powered by desperate men working to get money to spend on thing that will help them get and keep women...lol and the men who have decided not to play the game are called homosexuals..lol

 

[flint]

Wow that's rough man. But in all honesty, there's literally guys on this forum right now that think you're a baller for having the nuts to go out and successfully pull 4 numbers alone. I'm not saying you should go backwards all I'm saying is you need to look at it like you're succeeding just because you're moving things forward regardless. Everytime you push your comfort zone/step it up you're succeeding. And screw them you'll meet someone else whatever. I know you're going to be bummed out for a bit but try not to let it get to your head too much. Easier said than done though I hear ya.

 

[pikachu_69]

I don't know if it's a coincidence but generally I've noticed girls you pick up in a club generally have a very high flake rate if you try to see them again outside of the club on another night even if it's to go clubbing again.

I just don't bother to try to number close in a club these days and just try to see how much I can get there and there that night, a kiss close or what not. I will number close and call them but I expect them to flake more than likely so I don't worry too much. I think the further you've gone with them in a club and the more sober they are the less likely they'll flake if you've created enough attraction.

I'm surprised you're having this problem though you seem like a real DJ on here!

 

[DonGorgon]

I'm surprised you're having this problem though you seem like a real DJ on here!

lol... thanks but all DJs have drouts and every ho will not chose..

Last night a lame ho came over and BSed and waisted 3 hours of my life .. she would not let me KINO or escalate at all.. I should have never let her come over cause she gave many negative signals but i was desperate so got what i got..lol

Im supposed to hang with this other college ho tomorrow we will see if she flakes or not..

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Yes, all DJs have droughts.

4 flakes in a day? Setting new records for yourself, regardless of how dubious they are, is a good habit to make.

 

[DonGorgon]

Ok so last night one of the Hbs10s who flaked on me last sunday and said she was in the hospital, came over.. She drove to my house and would not let me KINO or escalate only wanted to talk.. blablabalbba.. for 2 damn hours. She would not take her shoes off. would not lay down on my bed..

I already had a bad feeling about her cause she flakes on me before and wen she cam last not she did not mention her hospital story at all..lol

Im havin a really bad streak right now.. but tonight have a ho from cali comin over, she seems cool as hell but can i convert into an F is the question..

 

[Solomon]

**** DG

start a journal already man, I keep telling you but you won't listen LOL
anyway last year you went through it and you made it, funny part is last year I was going through a hot streak, and I attribute my lack of success to 2things. 1. Lack of passion for the field (haven't gone as hard) 2. My diverse focus now on life i.e. working out, trying to take care of business

chicks are there even in a streak, peep my link on how to think like a DJ

peace

and oh DG the site is www.nextlevelgame.net

 

[Swashbuckler]

Who gives a fvck? Go get some more prospects!

 

[DonGorgon]

Who gives a fvck? Go get some more prospects!

I do that thurs fri sat and sundays..

anyway so last night my last prospect came through it was hard as hell to F her but i did after 2 hours of for play and talking etc,,.. then she told me she was a virgin ..wow...