3rd date no makeout

[WCS14]

Went out on a long date with a girl yesterday; our 3rd date.

1st date ends I get a hug

2nd date ends I walk her to her car--I get a 1.5 second kiss on the lips

3rd Date I pick her up at her Step Dad's and Mom's house.

Date ends I drop her off on street in front of house and what do I get?

A half kiss (the kind you give a relative--part cheek and part lip). We were still in the car; I did not walk her up to door.

Now in her defense, maybe she felt awkward making out in a car in front of her parents house on the street(it was 9pm)

The dates seem to go fairly well with her asking a lot of questions too.

When we text she always uses emoticons and gives me detailed responses.

However, she has not layed a hand of me on any of the dates (e.g, an arm touch, knee touch, etc). where I have to her on a limited basis.

I am confused, what is this girls deal?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Sounds to me that, you're not getting it done during the date.

At the end of the date, most of the time, a chick isn't going to up and decide: "he acted like a gentleman, and we had fun, so I guess I should give him a bl0wjob."

Sexual tension, push/pull, the build up. Groundwork needs to be laid.

 

[disgustipated]

Yeah if it ain't happened by now you are fighting an everly increasing uphill battle. For the girls that actually managed to hold out on me to the third date....the ones I ended up having sex always let me know what they were doing as to not lose me. Meaning, telling me basicallt, hey I really want to fuuck you right now and I'm almost giving in please stay with it a tad longer. They always conveyed their interests.

The ones that made me wait and I did NOT get sex from, made no such efforts. Sounds like what you're going through.

Eject or spin more plates.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Never think in terms of what you get.

You TAKE what YOU want.

I did it just last night. We did the usual side-kiss, but all evening I had deeply increased her investment in me. I took hold of her head with both my hands and gave a nice kiss goodbye. She was surprised but loved it.

Women want to be swept away by a man who boldly takes her regardless of possible protestations.

 

[Atom Smasher]

OP, I need your age in your public profile.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Sounds to me that, you're not getting it done during the date.

At the end of the date, most of the time, a chick isn't going to up and decide: "he acted like a gentleman, and we had fun, so I guess I should give him a bl0wjob."

Sexual tension, push/pull, the build up. Groundwork needs to be laid.

Spot on and it really is all about YOU as the man taking what you want.

Inject some more flirting into your dates, touch her casually, then quickly take that hand away. You have to make her comfortable being close to you & building on the attraction.

It had nothing to do with being in front of her step parent's house etc. Your responsible for taking the reins and if you don't, most women won't either.


One tip I read years ago that helped tremendously, was to not wait until the end of the date to make a move. Do it at a high point ON the date, so when you drop her off, you can either continue on that or let her go knowing her interest is high.










PIMP

 

[Mr.Positive]

When we text she always uses emoticons and gives me detailed responses.

Be vague in your responses, but show interest.

If you like this gal, be patient. If after the 3rd date and no escalation, it's natural for men to start to focus their attention on others.

There's nothing wrong with being patient, but be natural. It's natural to start slowly losing interest if things don't progress forward.

Lot's of gals out there. A lot who are willing to tear your clothes off after a date or two.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Your responsible for taking the reins and if you don't, most women won't either.

Exactly.

Here's something I learned, when you two are about to leave and go somewhere: Take her hand, and lead her out.

And that's how is starts, simple as that.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear WC,
Try pulling back,find a few options,start spinning Plates,she will come,Promise!