35 plus and single were do you guys meet girls?

Bread Cutter

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I am married and been out of the game for 4 years. My question to the guys out there that are 35 plus is what source do you use to pick up woman?

Is it

Online
Clubs/bars
Starbucks
Mall

I would probably guess for most of you is online?
 

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I would probably guess for most of you is online?[/QUOTE said:
Most of us prefer meeting people in person but we want to have all doors open so some of us have tried online at some point in time.

Women tend to like meeting men outside of bars and clubs as they have this stipulation that men at bars and clubs just want to get laid. You can meet a women anywhere, it's no different if you're 20's, 30's, or any age. I met my gf at a house warming party and my friend met his at the gym. Anywhere as long as you can start a good convo really.
 

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When I was out running wild I met girls in bars, the lake, house parties, and online.
 

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At 35, you probably have a busy enough life where hanging in bars is not on the docket. You can still do that if you have the chops. Dating younger women should be easy.

As you are out and about personally and professionally, you'll also be able to meet some great women. You'll need to dial-up the outgoing ness (you need not be a used car salesman though).

Online is a strange place but it works after you know the drill. Women of any desirability get dozens of contacts every week and so they live in 'screen-out' mode, looking for any reason not to reply to you or initiate contact. But if your profile is well written and you have your looks and career in order, it can be both fun and busy.

Unless you're 'don't give a damn' loaded, stay away from 1st date dinners. Dating is very expensive. Favor drinks or other shorter meet-&-greet situations.

Haunt your favorite places, shops, bars, restaurants, museums and find new ones.

And for god's sake, do NOT let anyone set you up for blind dates. Well-meaning friends do mean well. But I've endured any number of nightmares that way.
 
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Dear Bread Cutter,
Sure the Internet is good,silly as it sounds,it helps your verbal skills...As a long term thing why not take up Dancing......Outside a knocking shop,where else within minutes of laying your money down.can you be holding any one of a number of Women?....One thing though,unless you are a spectacularly attractive Guy,steer clear of Bars,the Women there have a big choice,are street wise and far too experienced for you!
 

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You are married? Or you were married?
 

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Poster nowhere to be found lol
 

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I think OP is woman trying to know where to meet men
 

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Online for me...too busy to meet chicks anywhere...occasionally at a bar, but it's not my scene anymore....5 day hang overs killed my party life....
 

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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i usually meet women in my social circle. that said, i have had 3 years LTR with one i have met on a bus. other was my teacher in high school, others i have met on the streets, or shopping mall, striked a SHORT and LIGHT conversation about some item, and asked for a date in the end. some agreed. some not.
in the summertime, swimming centers are a good place to socialize. women get naked, you see the whole deal. also on holiday resorts, at tennis.
if you wanna meet a lot of girls, join a dance school, salsa, bachata, kizomba is very popular these days, and even if you don't get to pick up the girls there (which is doubtful, it is like a poon paradise there), you learn to dance, and not have to wiggle like a worm on parties.
also, some frown on this, but i have had my fair share of boobies from facebook. i don't do dating sites, for no particular reason, but on facebook, if you have a good profile, and you text-open in a light and fun manner, you will have positive responses. also some blocks, and unfriends, or ignores, but who cares right?

i hope i have given some good ideas. now go out and be like nike :))))))

PS: always dress with taste, smell nice and have CLEAN SHOES. a nice watch does help also. have the attitude of a boss. be confident, not arrogant, but fun to be with, light, and never be clingy. i know i know, it is shallow, but for first impression shallow is what matters.
 

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Big Nuts said:
Online for me...too busy to meet chicks anywhere...occasionally at a bar, but it's not my scene anymore....5 day hang overs killed my party life....
You don't have to drink alcohol just because you are in a bar.
 

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Online IMO should be the last.

Online is designed for women, not for man. The power is on women side there. You could be whipeout fast by frustration because of results.

Definitely you should go online, but be careful. This is the worst place FOR MAN to meet girls.

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