All right nerds, let's lay out a guide/to do that details how to create interest.
Just so you know, much of this information is paraphrased from Robert Greene's AOS. I share it with you because it works.
Phase One: Creating Interest.
Context: Your target lives in their own world. Our goal here is to unearth them from their world and get them to start thinking about us and wondering what our world is like. We want to change their focus from them to us. We need to capture our targets attention and turn it into desire. To do this we need to make the target feel unhappy with their own lives and intrigued by our own mysterious aura.
1) Select a worthy target. Pick someone that naturally attracts you. Pick someone that you have some access too. Pick someone that is not easy to seduce, because we enjoy challenges. This is more of a long-term project as appose to a one-night stand. If you are looking for a one-night stand, go elsewhere and enjoy eternal unhappiness. We enjoy true challenges.
2) Approach Indirectly. You must approach your target indirectly. A direct approach is largely ineffective. If you flat out tell a girl you are trying to seduce her, you appear easy and therefore uninteresting.
Instead we will approach from the side… We want the target to be oblivious of our intentions and to think that her interest in you is generated from within. We want them to think they are in control.
We want the target to come to us.
To do this we must give them space to breathe. Live on their periphery; have them see you but you never actually approach them. Make them approach you.
You can be hot and cold with the target; be interested in the target then withdraw your interest.
Become friends.
DURING THIS PHASE AVOID THE TENDENCY TO CROWD THE TARGET!!!
3) Create Complexity. We want to be on our targets mind as much as possible during this phase. We want to do anything that will spark the targets imagination. Anything.
Play with your personality. Most people have one quality, they are funny, or smart, or fun etc.
Become dual natured. Be a nice guy with a mean streak below the surface. I use to have a reputation of being an *******, but when I met girls I was a chivalrous gentleman. This confused girls, and made them interested in me. They wanted to figure me out.
Analyze your personality. Become a Paradox, Become an Enigma, Become Complex, Become Confusing. This will make the target try to figure you out and use their imagination.
I have also had success with mixing physical heat with emotional coldness. Give the target a suggestive look while acting aloof on the surface. Be hot and cold, happy to see them one day and totally uninterested the next.
Something you can apply to every day interactions is withholding information. If you only talk about surface matters, people will wonder what your thinking. This gives off a mysterious air.
3) Create jealousy.
What better way to create desire then to fake interest in someone they are rivals with. Imagine how you would feel if a girl you like was suddenly interested in your best male friend. Your vanity would take a small hit and you would try to prove to the girl that you are more interesting then your best friend. Competition works in our favor in this situation.
4) Create Dissatisfaction with their current lives.
This is a pretty simple section. You have to tactfully suggest that the targets life is not as grand as it should be. Point out that their life is boring, it lacks adventure, spontaneity, and excitement. I like to allude to girls being old and boring, giving them the pet name grandma. Then acting distant afterward.
Make the target feel they are not following the path they ideally would follow.
Ask them about their dreams and ideals and they will realize their life is not what they want ideally.
5) Use mirroring.
Mirroring means imitating your targets body language, moods, damn near anything. When you do this you make the target feel naturally in tune with your person. Very effective.
Tool Box:
Conceal your intentions
Send Mixed Signals
- Be dual natured
- Be hot and cold
Attack their vanity by using love triangles
Create Dissatisfaction
Mirror the target
It’s worth saying twice AVOID SMOTHERING THE TARGET AT ALL COSTS!!!
PS Excuse my grammar errors and random capitalizations.
Just so you know, much of this information is paraphrased from Robert Greene's AOS. I share it with you because it works.
Phase One: Creating Interest.
Context: Your target lives in their own world. Our goal here is to unearth them from their world and get them to start thinking about us and wondering what our world is like. We want to change their focus from them to us. We need to capture our targets attention and turn it into desire. To do this we need to make the target feel unhappy with their own lives and intrigued by our own mysterious aura.
1) Select a worthy target. Pick someone that naturally attracts you. Pick someone that you have some access too. Pick someone that is not easy to seduce, because we enjoy challenges. This is more of a long-term project as appose to a one-night stand. If you are looking for a one-night stand, go elsewhere and enjoy eternal unhappiness. We enjoy true challenges.
2) Approach Indirectly. You must approach your target indirectly. A direct approach is largely ineffective. If you flat out tell a girl you are trying to seduce her, you appear easy and therefore uninteresting.
Instead we will approach from the side… We want the target to be oblivious of our intentions and to think that her interest in you is generated from within. We want them to think they are in control.
We want the target to come to us.
To do this we must give them space to breathe. Live on their periphery; have them see you but you never actually approach them. Make them approach you.
You can be hot and cold with the target; be interested in the target then withdraw your interest.
Become friends.
DURING THIS PHASE AVOID THE TENDENCY TO CROWD THE TARGET!!!
3) Create Complexity. We want to be on our targets mind as much as possible during this phase. We want to do anything that will spark the targets imagination. Anything.
Play with your personality. Most people have one quality, they are funny, or smart, or fun etc.
Become dual natured. Be a nice guy with a mean streak below the surface. I use to have a reputation of being an *******, but when I met girls I was a chivalrous gentleman. This confused girls, and made them interested in me. They wanted to figure me out.
Analyze your personality. Become a Paradox, Become an Enigma, Become Complex, Become Confusing. This will make the target try to figure you out and use their imagination.
I have also had success with mixing physical heat with emotional coldness. Give the target a suggestive look while acting aloof on the surface. Be hot and cold, happy to see them one day and totally uninterested the next.
Something you can apply to every day interactions is withholding information. If you only talk about surface matters, people will wonder what your thinking. This gives off a mysterious air.
3) Create jealousy.
What better way to create desire then to fake interest in someone they are rivals with. Imagine how you would feel if a girl you like was suddenly interested in your best male friend. Your vanity would take a small hit and you would try to prove to the girl that you are more interesting then your best friend. Competition works in our favor in this situation.
4) Create Dissatisfaction with their current lives.
This is a pretty simple section. You have to tactfully suggest that the targets life is not as grand as it should be. Point out that their life is boring, it lacks adventure, spontaneity, and excitement. I like to allude to girls being old and boring, giving them the pet name grandma. Then acting distant afterward.
Make the target feel they are not following the path they ideally would follow.
Ask them about their dreams and ideals and they will realize their life is not what they want ideally.
5) Use mirroring.
Mirroring means imitating your targets body language, moods, damn near anything. When you do this you make the target feel naturally in tune with your person. Very effective.
Tool Box:
Conceal your intentions
Send Mixed Signals
- Be dual natured
- Be hot and cold
Attack their vanity by using love triangles
Create Dissatisfaction
Mirror the target
It’s worth saying twice AVOID SMOTHERING THE TARGET AT ALL COSTS!!!
PS Excuse my grammar errors and random capitalizations.
