moneyisking
Master Don Juan
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Thank you for your time and attention. It may be a long post, but I make it worthwhile to read and I await for your advices.
Let us start with honesty. We all share our moments of failure and embarrassment, those totally AFC-drenched days where we would become totally nice and oblivious to game. I, for example, used to be scared to talk to girls b/c of my AFCness and many times volunteered myself to become women's mule, supplicating myself. Even though I got way better than what I used to be, I still can see my AFCness time to time.
All you Master DJs and players, lady killers... you have great advice for all of us, but had it not been for your tragic mistakes and face-warming memories of stupidity, then it would have been impossible for you all to transform from AFCs into Don Juan that you are right now.
Do you recall that time when you got totally ashamed or heart-ached by a girl and you decided to "get this sh!t straightened out"? Then for years you tried, read this/that, got out of your comfort zone and tasted small successes and failures, but eventually you improved.
Then BOOM! You are standing in front of the giant gates of Final Judgement. You have two choices: Either enter the gate and achieve the Don Juanism (becoming good at women, having deeper outlook on life, striving for general success, enjoying self-development, and feeling good generally about life, etc), or keep trying to enter that gate doing whatever it takes.
If you answered your Sphinx and entered the gate gloriously, you know who you are. I know I haven't entered the gate, but I also know that I am standing right in front of it. RIGHT IN FRONT OF IT.
For 3 years, I have done many things like yal to get women to "feel successful", but more I focused on women, the more I began to focus on myself. I had share of success and failures, embarrassments. But what finally got me to move fast ahead to this final gate was lifting fvck load of weights, reading Book of Pook, and getting my heart-broken by first woman that I actually liked. It's long story.
I am a virgin. Of course I did more than making out with a girl, but still, I am a virgin. Lately, things started happening inside me; I started becoming positive, more outgoing, and happy around women; well, until I got heart-broken by this chick. Then I fell into depression, but climbed back up and I am studying very hard, achieving goals everyday, and lifting lot of weights for supreme shape. But I think I have lost that happiness around women after the incident with the girl I liked. I think I automatically become little nervous and worrisome, and retract my emotions. Honestly if I didn't fall in love with that chick, I would still retain my happiness, and by now I would be with women; but for some reason, the nature or destiny decided that I needed lesson to learn before my entrance to glory. I am ALMOST THERE! I can feel it!
Of course, struggles and hardship is not over, but at least, I am at a point where I can jump up to next level. Help me Don JUANS!
THANK YOU!
Let us start with honesty. We all share our moments of failure and embarrassment, those totally AFC-drenched days where we would become totally nice and oblivious to game. I, for example, used to be scared to talk to girls b/c of my AFCness and many times volunteered myself to become women's mule, supplicating myself. Even though I got way better than what I used to be, I still can see my AFCness time to time.
All you Master DJs and players, lady killers... you have great advice for all of us, but had it not been for your tragic mistakes and face-warming memories of stupidity, then it would have been impossible for you all to transform from AFCs into Don Juan that you are right now.
Do you recall that time when you got totally ashamed or heart-ached by a girl and you decided to "get this sh!t straightened out"? Then for years you tried, read this/that, got out of your comfort zone and tasted small successes and failures, but eventually you improved.
Then BOOM! You are standing in front of the giant gates of Final Judgement. You have two choices: Either enter the gate and achieve the Don Juanism (becoming good at women, having deeper outlook on life, striving for general success, enjoying self-development, and feeling good generally about life, etc), or keep trying to enter that gate doing whatever it takes.
If you answered your Sphinx and entered the gate gloriously, you know who you are. I know I haven't entered the gate, but I also know that I am standing right in front of it. RIGHT IN FRONT OF IT.
For 3 years, I have done many things like yal to get women to "feel successful", but more I focused on women, the more I began to focus on myself. I had share of success and failures, embarrassments. But what finally got me to move fast ahead to this final gate was lifting fvck load of weights, reading Book of Pook, and getting my heart-broken by first woman that I actually liked. It's long story.
I am a virgin. Of course I did more than making out with a girl, but still, I am a virgin. Lately, things started happening inside me; I started becoming positive, more outgoing, and happy around women; well, until I got heart-broken by this chick. Then I fell into depression, but climbed back up and I am studying very hard, achieving goals everyday, and lifting lot of weights for supreme shape. But I think I have lost that happiness around women after the incident with the girl I liked. I think I automatically become little nervous and worrisome, and retract my emotions. Honestly if I didn't fall in love with that chick, I would still retain my happiness, and by now I would be with women; but for some reason, the nature or destiny decided that I needed lesson to learn before my entrance to glory. I am ALMOST THERE! I can feel it!
Of course, struggles and hardship is not over, but at least, I am at a point where I can jump up to next level. Help me Don JUANS!
THANK YOU!