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21 and Inexperienced (dating, sex, etc)...LIE?

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I'm 21 and I have been on a few dates, but really nothing to write home about. It's always casual group dates or spontaneous like let's go for coffee. How should I deal with questions when the girl asks about my dating or sex life, which is non-existent? Do I need to lie? Should I make up fake stories with fake names?

On a similar note, if a girl is asking me about girls I'm seeing or how's dating going, am I in the friend zone?
 

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hell yeah man, fake it until you make it.

I'm not very experienced also but lots of girls think i am because of the way i act.
 

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its always important to act confident in everything you do. but not overly confident to the point of bragging.
 

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How should I deal with questions when the girl asks about my dating or sex life, which is non-existent? Do I need to lie? Should I make up fake stories with fake names?
I wouldn't lie, that often leads to problems. It is just a question, you could turn the tables back on her, ask her that or a different question or change the topic or don't answer -tell her it's privileged information.

Or be very vague, mention a few names etc.. but don't go into details. If she gets intrusive ask her if she's feeling 'insecure' etc.. etc.. Keep up the mystery, make her think.

On a similar note, if a girl is asking me about girls I'm seeing or how's dating going, am I in the friend zone
No, not at all. Maybe she's wanting to see how she could fit in ? Don't forget that her action's are more important than her words.
 
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