2 totally unrelated questions

[BouncingPumpkin]

#1
There's this guy I like in my science class at school and I don't know exactly how to get his number or to REALLY tell if he's interrested. We have little convos everyday but just in that class, I don't talk to him outside of science.
I used to be the one initiating convo but I backed off a bit after a few days and now he's still talking to me, so at least I'm interesting/fun enough to be talking to. I touch his arm sometimes when I leave class(subtle kino?).
My problem is how to get his number. I've read this up already on the site but, you mostly talk about guys getting girls numbers and there isn't anything to helps girls. I thought of just straight out asking him but didn't know how he would respond.
Any suggestions are helpful, different points of view are always useful, thx.

#2
On a totally diferent subject, I was curious on what a girl can do with a guys nuts.
I know how to give a bj, and I'm apparently very good. But I'm still stuck at the whole nutsack thing. Everyone treats them like if you blows on them, they'll explode(sarcastic) so what the hell do you do? Somebody told me to just put them in my mouth, can that really give him pleasure? Is licking enough. I'm too scared to suck(even lightly), I don't want to hurt him.
Once again, this is a total different subject than the question above. I'm not planning on giving him a bj the second I get a #, I'm not a slut.


Any suggestions are helpful, thx

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Umm, yeah this site is for guys.

I would suggest something like www.badgirlswirl.com or something for you

But 1. Offer the guy sex, or a bj

2. stick em in your mouth

 

[BouncingPumpkin]

Offer him sex? Are you serious?
That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
I don't want to sleep with him, I want his phone number.

Surely there must be someone smarter than you on this site to answer my question.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by BouncingPumpkin
Offer him sex? Are you serious?
That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
I don't want to sleep with him, I want his phone number.

Surely there must be someone smarter than you on this site to answer my question.

You like this guy, yet you don't want to sleep with him? Yeah, believable...Anyway...Just ask for his number. It's so crazy (like me), it just might work!

As far as what to do with his nuts...Don't bite them or suck too hard and you'll be fine...If Demon was around, he could give you tips on what to do...

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Ok girly

The guy is prolly a straight up AFC that is waiting for a girl to fall in his lap... boom there you are

Another thing... get the Fvck off the boards if you think i don't know what guys want

 

[CableLight]

Now now kids, play nice...And PiHi, on the off-chance that it's actually a girl, you could be a little more realistic.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by CableLight
Now now kids, play nice...And PiHi, on the off-chance that it's actually a girl, you could be a little more realistic.

Let's not have a repeat of the "lil_princess16 and crazykid" situation...

 

[BouncingPumpkin]

Ok, it's not that I NEVER want to have sex with him.
But I'm not a slut and I'm definately not willing to offer him sex just so I can get his number.
I'd like to date him, find out what he's all about. See if I even really like him. You know, there's only so much you can learn about someone during science class.

I didn't mean to insult your knowledge on guys, PiHiPlaya. I just thought your idea was silly. ALL guys can't possibly be like that. There must be at least a few out there with more control over there hormones.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

no, i was serious! Offer a Guy Sex!

It's like Offering the Guy a Lump Sum instead of payin him over time... he'll spring for the money as a whole then pay him gradually.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Also you don't have to put it all out on the table! that will scare the AFC off!

Imply sex, something like "Can you afford condoms?"
"Yeah"
"awesome, then can i have your phone number?"



And Controlling your hormones is bull****, men want sex all men want sex... you can't control Hormones and you shouldn't have to
that's what we are taught here, not to be sorry for being a man

 

[Eternal]

Excuse PiHi, I don't think he's ever gotten any. Just ask the guy for his number if you have to. Give him a week though, he might ask for yours.

Some signs he likes you:

- Touches you

- Gives you eye contact

- Makes jokes around you

- Insults you some

- Compliments you

- Asks you personal questions

 

[BouncingPumpkin]

I don't solely want to have sex with him PiHiPlaya.
He's fun to talk to in science class and I am interested in having more than just a class with him.
I don't want to have sex right away, I have more respect for myself than that.

Obviously guys can't completely get rid of there sex drive. That would be impossible and completely unecessary. But there are guys out there who think only of sex and there next lay, while there are others out there who think about sex but can date a girl for a period of time before pouncing her.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

why don't you start being sexy or flirtatious around this guy you like, I think it helps...........


wow, this is the first I'm giving advice to a female on how to attract a male.

I'm so great at everything...I pat myself on the back.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

why don't you start being sexy or flirtatious around this guy you like, I think it helps...........


wow, this is the first I'm giving advice to a female on how to attract a male.

I'm so great at everything...I pat myself on the back.

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[BouncingPumpkin]

Thank you for the..tip, but I'm not sure about that.
I see girls who are big flirts and try to act sexy around guys at school, and I've read many posts.
I don't want to seem to...available, or..gosh, what's the word I'm looking for..desperate/wanting?
I've read about challenges and how it keeps a person's interest level high. What my concern is, if I become a flirt or look too much like I'm interested, I don't want to push him away without getting a chance.
Also, people here have already labelled this guy as an AFC. What gives you that impression? Clearly he's gotten a girl's attention right? So he must be doing SOMETHING right.
Anyways, how can I flirt/be sexy without pushing him off?

 

[BouncingPumpkin]

I just don't want him to think of me as a piece of ass. I am much more than that, and I think I'm a very fun, interesting person to be with.
So if I just asked for his number next week, would that be weird becaus it's considered the guy's jobs to do the number thing, or cool because I have guts to get what I want?

 

[GlutusMaximus86]

There's nothing wrong with a girl asking for a guy's number. A lot of men like it actually because its a confidence booster. However if you do ask for his # I suggest you give him yours as well or just give him your's. If you have his number and he dosen't have yours he may feel like you have all the power has to where things go.

 

[Cloud-uk]

just wondering, why are we answering this girl's questions when the question from the gay guy (loverboy?) got closed instantly? No offence to ya girl, but this is a site about guys getting girls. That is what sosuave is about. Personally I think its wrong to answer a girl and tell the gay guy to piss off. I don't know which mod closed that thread, but there's a few girls on the board, so why can't there be any gay guys? All sounds a bit homophobic to me.

Anyway, I have actually thought about what it must be like from a girl's point of view, cos guy's attraction is so visual. Ugly guys can improve themselves and gain confidence, and they can make their lack of good looks obsolete. What the **** do ugly girls do? ***** themselves out? Thats harsh ****. By the way I'm not calling you ugly bouncingpumpkin, just specualting.

Oh, and just up the flirting. Sit on him lap and stuff. If he doesn't ask you out or for your number he's either too chicken **** to ever be worth going out with, or he's gay/married/your not him type. If that's the case find some better guys.

 

[Porky]

I would say he's an AFC, yes. If you like him as much as you say you do, you're obviously giving some signs. Why he hasn't acted on those signs, I don't really know.

I'm an RAFC, and girls still hit on me. I didn't realize, but now that I found this site I'm beginning to notice it happen more often. Far from doing anything right, I would say that I have almost always done everything wrong.

So, even AFC's have opportunities.

 

[WrEcKLeSS2000]

Well if he hasn't acted on any of the signs you are giving him he is either A. A huge AFC or B. Not interested

I know this because when this ugly girl was hitting on me a while ago I just wasn't interested at all...I felt no attraction towards her so I basically just ignored her and really never talked to her...

If a girl that I was interested in starting talking to me...I would definitely go for her and get her number.... I would definitely go for her and get her number....

It seems rare that girls that I think are hot would initiate convo first because girls can be shy and expect the guys to initiate on them and that what I would have to do most of the time if I wanted that hot girl


Thats my take on the situation