1st 2nd date question

[BES]

I Am Just Wondering what is the best place to have a first date?

1.)Dinner and a movie? or movie and dinner?
kino level? just hug ?

2.)who will pay? Me or both?
3.)I heard end a date early on the first date is good? like for example i have to say bye not her......i have to say "its getting late blah blah blah"

4.)For the second date......should i step into the next gear???
bowling, mini-golf, or pool. those are good for kino.

5.)I really want to take a HB to San Francisco just go sight seing and enjoy the view. this would be my special date. i would do this to a HB that have the same chemistry.

I tried searching in the forum but theres only 1 tip that will help me out.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15076&highlight=dating+tips

6.)also very important question: I dont want to bore my date. i was reading the nice men vs jerk boys. and learn women gets bored to there nice men, so they end up dumpin ght nice boy.
How do i keep my date happy after 1-4 date?


PS:any more tips please post.


One more thing. everytime i get a new job girls seems to give me some kino in the first day. ok dating co-worker is not a bad thing.
because its only my part time job not my profesional job for me.
heres my background.
my first job... she touch me in the arm(but i next her) and another girl pat me in my chest.......AND for my second job a girl touch me in the back while trying to tell me something.

7.)what the hell is going on??? ok on my second job i think iam going to next her to she's turning me off always on her cell phone.

8.)I found out what is the best way to find out if they have a BF or not. (What do u do for FUN? or what u been up to lately)......if she never mention BF you got a green light brother lol.

wow so much more to learn. lol

 

[quest]

i always do the movie for a first date.. don't really like it because u can't talk much (which i should do because i'm pretty good in that aspect)
never involved dinner. always picked her up, dropped home straight after. only talking is in the car.

very weak dates.

however, yes i pay for the first date.

kino level? just hug? well i've only ever taken out 1 girl i hadn't kissed previously.. and i choked bad, barely touched her. however all the ones that i had kissed previously, i atleast kissed goodnight. which i felt was AFC, should have been kissing her during the movie.
the more kino the better i think, so long as its fairly innocent.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

do an activity that is fun and exciting where you don't always have to be doing the entertaining --- does not have to spand a lot of money - i.e. indoor rollerskating -

If she has an enjoyable time then the second date is secured.

End the date on a high note - soon as you sense the date is beginning to fade ithen tall her that we should save some energy for our second date and smile at her.

Your job is not to keep a girl happy - your job is to be a man and do things that will raise her interest level in you. You are the prize, remember - act like it but don't be arrogant.

Don't ask if she has a b/f - she'll let you know if she does.

Your 'kino' questions are non-sensical and irrelevant! - don't fret.

 

[xblitz44x]

1) For a first date, depending on the girl and what *you* like, I recommend dinner. Go some place where it is on the quiet side that you can talk with her and test for chemistry. I go into center city Philadelphia for dinner. We usually drink wine over dinner, walk off the little tipsyness, then go to a local dessert place.

2) If you ask her out then you pay. She will probably offer, just pay for the bill. When she insists just tell her that she can pay for dessert.

3) Ending the date early is a stupid tactic. It is used mostly by guys who are worried that she won't like him after she gets to know him because the "challenge" will be gone. I think it's crap, personally. If there is chemistry and things feel good, see where it takes you.

4) You will have a better idea of what to do on the second date, after the first date because you'll have talked to her about her interests and hobbies. Find something that you both enjoy and propose that as your second date idea.

5) That date sounds like a great idea.

6) Pretending to be a jerk, or pretending to be some "alpha male" isn't going to keep her any more entertained. Usually the reason women get bored on dates is because the guy is too shy and reserved to let his true self come out and have a good time. He's too worried about if she likes him or not and feels vulnerable so he hides behind a shy shell. Just be you. Pretend it's a best friend sitting across from you. Act as you would if you were 100% secure.

7) Just because she touches your back or arm doesn't mean she likes you. Talk to her, she'll throw signs out there for you. She might ask you what you are doing 'this weekend', or what you do for fun. You can usually feel chemistry. OH, yeah, by the way, if you're nexting her because she talks on her cell phone then you're going to have one hell of a time finding a girl that doesn't piss you off.