“Because I can”

[Billtx49]

How is that weak and validation seeking?

I think it tells her two things. That you think you’re lower value than her and that she’s already on a pedestal …
A man that knows his own value doesn’t ask why a woman gives him attention.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I think it tells her two things. That you think you’re lower value than her and that she’s already on a pedestal …
A man that knows his own value doesn’t ask why a woman gives him attention.

Interesting. I asked her to weed her out as a time waster. If she’s just looking for attention I want to know asap. In the old days I wasted a lot of time with time wasters because I made the assumption they were into me instead of into my validation. If you have a better way to accomplish that I’m all ears

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Interesting. I asked her to weed her out as a time waster. If she’s just looking for attention I want to know asap. In the old days I wasted a lot of time with time wasters because I made the assumption they were into me instead of into my validation. If you have a better way to accomplish that I’m all ears

Insist on a phone # if she's over 25

 

[biggoal]

I'll try this next time I go on OLD. Aim to schedule a date or meetup that day.

What about for us dudes that are typically over 35 miles away from the girls on OLD?

 

[derby1]

Can you explain the "good taste in men" one. I would use it but I don't get it.

so if Ive seen her in the first isle and weve acknowledged each other, then see her come down the 3rd isle ill ask if "shes following me because it appears she has good taste in men"

 

[Don Dark Horse]

What about for us dudes that are typically over 35 miles away from the girls on OLD?

Find girls closer. You could find a watering hole that you enjoy and can frequent often, make it the spot for your crew. Learn the names of all the bartenders and bouncers and use that to your advantage when you pick up ladies in the bar.

so if Ive seen her in the first isle and weve acknowledged each other, then see her come down the 3rd isle ill ask if "shes following me because it appears she has good taste in men"

Love it. I am going to use that one for sure.

 

[derby1]

Love it. I am going to use that one for sure.

obviously be ready for any comebacks or shut downs, the clint eastwood smerk is always good to keep in the chamber and then walk off.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

obviously be ready for any comebacks or shut downs, the clint eastwood smerk is always good to keep in the chamber and then walk off.

"I didn't say you can eat your victims."