#spinningplates

I have posted before asking for similar advice, but to skip all the fluff and context of my own situation, I want to ask a more general question to all the married men, men who have been in the game for a long time, and or men who are currently in a LTR. What do you think is the correct course...

So, I've been meeting some women after I broke up... But I'm doing something wrong. We start talking, mainly on instagram... Had a connection, I see that she was emotionally/desire up to me. So when I feel that rapport I invite her for a date. In that time she is sending heart emojis, etc...