relationship advice

TLDR: So, I had been dating a girl for a while now, then I entered into long term with her last year. It's smooth now, and has been kind of perfect in all manner. In the start, I used to drink a bit(very very less), but then I stopped because she opposed very vehemently. I don't mind that...

TLDR: Would you stay committed to a person totally, and kill your physical desires just because the person in front of you is not ready even if that person is honest, loyal and caring to you? I am 20, a virgin, and a girl I am currently with has sexual trauma. A few I know, and a few I don't...

I encouraged my wife to an open relationship, but expected, as we discussed, she will be telling me everything afterwards.. and so can I continue game.,. It did happen, my wife had a crush on the guy, and she did not tell me of course. Instead she acted like an affair and felt in love with the...

In the next months, I will be going out, to improve my communication skills and also to live a bit outside my open relationship... we still love each other, and she accepts I am still gaming for just fun. The main problem is, that I almost have NO sexual desires and can't follow up with the...

I see many articles and posts about how to get women, but not to many on how to keep them or what to do when in a relationship. If you had one piece of advice for relationships what would it be?

Hey guys, A few weeks ago I met a 22 year old girl called Eva at a bar. We danced and made out for an hour or so. She was really interested and was giving me lots of compliments about my looks, dancing etc. I was pretty overwhelmed by all the compliments. I told her to come back to my place but...

Hello to all, First time posting here so I will do my best to keep it short and to the point. A little bit of context first, i read through numerous threads posted here and after searching for answers on the web it is an absolute pleasure to see how many insightful people are giving advice...

Gaslighting. In my years of being here on SS, I've never actually seen this topic talked about. Which is probably why I got blind sided by it and it took up 3 years of my life. This was during a time that I was at my confident peak. So let's talk about the term Gaslighting. Gaslighting is a...

I have a bad weekend with a woman I've met on instagram. She was not from my town, we talked for some weeks and she decided to come here to stay the weekend with me. She arrived, and I noticed she was a little strange... she got angry easily and a preying woman. Late night on friday, my...

I was thinking about this for a long time now. Most of my boyfriends broke up with me because of the same reason. When they do, I don’t feel anything bad at all because that is not a foreign experience to me anymore. I refused to give them what they asked. They want to do ‘that thing’ with me...

I'm confused and don't know what to do. I have never been in a long term relationship. I talked to a girl that I like a lot at my college, I simply showed interest in knowing her and she immediately liked me, to be clear none of us told each other we love each other or how we feel to one...

I don’t mean to judge but am I the only one who finds girls confusing? I do think that they have a lot going inside their minds and I appreciate how much they make an effort to almost everything but I am finding it difficult to understand them. For example, an ex girlfriend of mine whom I have...

I met Tatiana during AFA’s Singles Tour in Ukraine last year. And to tell you, that was the beginning of a very special journey. While the affair is still ongoing, we decided to meet everyday and date. With the span of one week, I learned to love her. She is so caring, loving, and...

I’ve been in a long distance relationship with Anastasia for 5 months now… we met through an online matchmaking site. Things have been going well and in the span of 5 months, we pretty much know what we need to know about each other, to be honest, I think we already know too much. So, we...

I’ve been divorced not too long and have two kids with me. It’s been a couple of years since then but I feel like I’m ready to get back into the game and find someone. I don’t think I have what it takes to find someone in person. I know that my age is beyond what women would find attractive...

I met my Filipina girlfriend online through a dating site called loveme. We got along really quickly and we’ve been communicating for about a year and a half now. After all the time we spent together via video calls and chat, we figured it was time to see each other. I decided to visit her in...

I met this amazing woman on this website called Loveme. Her name is Yulia, she’s from the Ukraine, and everything about her is just great. She’s so smart and funny, and we just connect on so many levels. I’ll be the first to admit that we have a significant age gap I’m 59, and she’s only 33...

I’m in my mid 40’s and I work for a company that demands a heavy workload. I’m currently living in California, but I sometimes have to travel abroad for work. On some days my job keeps me on a really tight schedule and that might hinder me from some aspects for my life –including love life. I...

She knows I like her and has a “rebound” boyfriend according to her friends (I found out at a party and one of her friends specifically said that he was a rebound to make her ex jealous). They started going out two or so weeks after the break up. I then told her that I liked her but she didn’t...

I am 23 and have known this girl for the last 11 years and she has been calling me her best friend since the last few years. I have always thought of her as just a great friend until I started developing feelings for her 2 years ago. I feared telling her about how I felt but around the end of...