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I see alot of threads where most advice is that she should respect you etc etc. But I feel like most of this advice can be summed up in to just “LOVE YOURSELF”. So what does this mean? When looking for a partner you need to know who you are, what you look for in a partner and obviously also...

Hello everyone! For the context, this was my last post. My life has been really well from the last month or two. My self-work on gym finally paid off, and my life just transformed on it own. I, for first, read this in an old article related on testosterone, but now I just feel so, how do I say...

Hello everyone! New here. I’d love to hear your opinions on my thoughts regarding my search for a new tenant in my spare bedroom. For context, I’m a ~30 year old single male earning decent money, great physique (<12% body fat, 6 pack, gym 6x a week). I’m at a very happy place in my life -...

hey guys I try to make it as short as possible. Me and a girl had an ONS (both 20)we were in a kinda relationship. First she wanted to commit me but I said we are just friends. She asked me many times to visit her but I never did and I think it pressed her a little bit. She **** tested me...

So I've been into game for about a year now, and got my first FWB three weeks ago. This girl went out with me, told me she had a "boyfriend" many times (to which I just said "ok"), and would not let me kiss her or hold her hand. So I thought things were over. But then she messaged me a few days...

https://www.zerohedge.com/markets/elon-musk-and-girlfriend-grimes-break-after-three-years Seems like all these billionaire bois can mange money but have a hard time with manage their women.. :whistle:

Hello gentlemen, Just getting back into the game after separating recently (married three years, with her for seven) and beginning to spin plates. So far I am having fun and have two solid plates in rotation. I really enjoy spending time (and f!cking) both of these girls because they are...

So I've recently went on a date with a girl i met at a nightclub. We went to a bar for a first date, but some things and behaviours have worried me: She mentioned her self esteem has been very low in the past, and her friends have had to work very hard to improve it. She compliments my eyes...

Hey guys, A few weeks ago I met a 22 year old girl called Eva at a bar. We danced and made out for an hour or so. She was really interested and was giving me lots of compliments about my looks, dancing etc. I was pretty overwhelmed by all the compliments. I told her to come back to my place but...

I experienced an event 8 years ago. Back in 2011, my father died in his sleep. He was in his 50s. I was just 21 at that time. Even after all this time, I grieve his lose. It was unexpected and sudden. No good-byes. Just plain ‘the end’. During this time, I realised one thing: the insensitivity...

Just watched this vídeo. Basically it says that any addiction you have is because you are feeling like in a cage, or adapting to a painful or negative environment. And it basically says that the more you're isolated, the more addicted to short term stuffs you are. Like Alcohol, Smoking, Drugs...

So, i've been hanging out with this girl from a town 15 miles from my home. I met her first day of training on a new job, she was also a trainee. I was working up to ask her if she wanted to go to the festival and she said "if you're asking me to go then its a yes". The whole time we've been...

I met a girl about a month ago at a nightclub. We made out on the dancefloor for ages. I went and got some food with her after the club closed. She said how she loves how mature I am and enjoys talking to me too. Couldn't get her back to my place since her friend was sick and she needed to take...

this is a thread that is going to be the affecting factors of why your relationship is failing... the first reason, and it is the most important reason for this consequence, the number one rule for anybody before going into a relationship is to never change the person they are dating. I'm not...

Hi, I am a 22 yr old college student and a couple of months ago I met a girl online and we really hit off. I thought this was someone I would like to know better. We met a few times, at no point it felt that any of us had to drag the conversation, we were explicit with our liking for each other...

Gaslighting. In my years of being here on SS, I've never actually seen this topic talked about. Which is probably why I got blind sided by it and it took up 3 years of my life. This was during a time that I was at my confident peak. So let's talk about the term Gaslighting. Gaslighting is a...

Hello, I don't have anybody else to talk who would understand me and it seems like you guys are going through the same sh*t here. So I met her when she was 14 and I was 15. During this time she was very lonely and wanted me to talk to her for at least 5-6 hours a day. I was crazy in love for...

Hey guys, I had an interesting situation this weekend. I will explain it and it would be nice if i got feedbacks about it. I've met an interesting girl, that had a nice chat with me (books, philosophy, psichology, personal development) and she stayed at my home this weekend with a friend I...

After a year and a half of “studying” psychology and game I’ve entered a relationship with a girl who I’d thought to have been something special. Turned out that she is a snake and probably has some brain damage. I was blinded by her looks and our past expriences. Later on I have realised that...

She had a 5-year relationship and I also had a 4-month relationship right before. She frequently initiated all contact to meet. We were together all weekends and one day during the week. No fights, no you did that you did not send me you did not call.no needy behavior no clingy behavior, great...