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  1. WarMachine

    Conflict after 3 months

    I (bf 31) have met this girl (27) 3 months ago. There was a big chemistry since day one and we started dating. She is giving, caring, generous but has a strong personnality. After a couple of weeks of dating, she seemed so enthusiastic about the relationship that she was texting all day long...
  2. resilient

    NC, IDGAF, Scarcity in Attention When Treated Poorly

    It used to be when a man was treated poorly by his main plate or plates in general, he would hold back attention, be less available, IDGAF, spend time with other plates, radio silence, or go full NC for a while. In the past, I felt like full NC/ghost/ignoring messages, etc. would surprise them...
  3. S

    Somewhat unique situation where I want an ex back.

    Hey guys. I've always done alright with girls. I normally have a few chasing me but I'm usually not that interested. Then in late October I met someone, asked her out on a date and we clicked in a way I haven't felt in a very long time (and she felt the same). Normally I have a lot going on in...
  4. Andrewdiceclay

    No contact is actually pissing women off

    It appears as I get older and especially if the women is older than me... if I NC for 1-2 days the women are getting angry and turned off. I usually get called a player or they assume "one of my other girlfriends was busy and I remembered about them". This has been happening non-stop for the...
  5. T

    When you dump her and change your mind

    Howdy folks. I'll try to keep this as concise as I can. I'm new to SoSuave, but have been in the Red Pill/ Pick up community for years. Context: Dated a girl who I would estimate at a 6.5. Id consider myself a 7. We dated for a few months, I took her virginity, was one of the first people she...
  6. S

    Expat relationship dies slowly, blaming self yet can't find the cause.

    Thank you in advance for any advice you may offer. I'm in a dark place and am really in need of some straightening out. We met while we were both performers in China. We had immediate mutual high interest, and we found ourselves in a relationship fairly quickly, despite other opportunities I...
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