ltr

This is going to be a long post, so sit tight. I'm finally posting for the first time here because I need advice, and all my friends in real life are either naïve, don’t care, or too 'simpy' to provide a solid answer. A couple of years back, after I graduated high school, I grew out of my shell...

Hi, I've been in a LTR for the past 3 years. We live separately and see each other 1-2x a week. For the past year or so my sexual desire for her has been dwindling. I've been working a lot on myself, going to the gym, eating healthy, career, dressing better, etc. whereas she hasn't been doing...

Recently saw this absolute bombshell, "crush of everyone at work" get married to this guy who her parents found for her - 6ft tall bloke , good family background, working as an executive at one of the big tech companies (you've heard of it definitely) abroad and built a very successful side...

I'm eager to explore the idea of finding a "ride or die" partner. You know, someone who's truly loyal and committed through thick and thin. But, it's not easy to navigate the modern dating landscape, which is why I'm turning to this community for some advice. Where do you find her? Or do you...

Thinking of marriage? Watch this..

First time posting here so apologies if it's the wrong place/not the right topic/very long, but struggling for a solution with LTR of 7 years and 2 kids (3 & 1). Both in our early 30s. Have recently gone through a period of change, moving house, other half moving jobs, moving out of capital...

I’m 25 years old Sudanese immigrant. I don’t have any problem attracting 5’s & 6’s. This 23 year old Indian chick from work invited me straight to her apartment last Friday 20 minutes after saying “hi” to her. My English is terrible so it can’t be my game. **** is too easy. Idk how dudes...

Basically the title, and 1- Did the dynamic of your relationship change? If yes, how? 2- Did you set any rules/boundaries before moving in? 3- Why did you think it's a good idea to move in with your LTR?

This is not a thread about girls I'm dating right now, but rather a reflection on past relationships I had. Almost in every relationship that the girl I was dating had male friends, the male friend or the fact of having male friends seemed to have directly (e.g. monkey branching or cheating) or...

When the end goal is to establish an LTR (in order to have kids), I believe that it's agreed-upon among the community that the best strategy is to spin multiple plates because it allows to vet women and choose the best one. But, I couldn't find much information on how long to spin a plate...

I don't usually post much on here but I need someone else's insight on a situation I'm in. So I just started going out with a girl that used to braid my hair(I cut it now) and at the time, she was in a relationship that went on for 10 years(since she was high school). During the braid...

HI folks, Like the title says, I am wondering how you guys take time to improve your social skills even you have a girlfriend since the game is on. For long term dedicated gamers here, I think it's huge to still go out and work on your social gatherings and working on your game. This year...

I (20m) visited my gf (20F) yesterday and was planning on satying until sunday, (she lives 1h away). So I get there right, first time seeing her in awhile and thought I would give her some flowers (like the afc I am) bc I havent done that too many times. The evening approaches and I assume...

Like the title says Ive been in my ltr for sometime from a young age. My partner in recently yrs has become more persistent about marriage. I do care for her however, I started feeling uneasy when intimacy and ultimatums started being used for her own leverage. I caved after a long dragged out...

G'day! I recently dropped a red, and it hit bloody hard. I have been in an LTR with a bird for 4+ years. For years I have, like a good little AFC, accepted her rejections for sex and her reasoning as fair and that her needs (though frustrating) came before mine, even being a good little worker...

This is primarily to supplement the coolidge effect I have a girl I've been seeing for 2 months, she's great, cooks for me, has great sex also has a nice ass but no tits. They're only A cups and they're lovely but I am an ass and tits guy. I'm wondering about this as I see a future with her. I...

I've been in my thought cabinet lately thinking about what makes a strong LTR. Recently some of my distant family members who I thought had good LTR / marriages really has it turned out was on shaky ground. And I thought to myself "What makes a good LTR?" The kind that lasts 50 years to a...

First post here, been a long time dude studying PUA's stuff when it first came out in 2000 and improving myself since then with more deep core and RedPill awareness (following manosphere and all its evolution). I'm actualy losing my girlfriend : she's losing interest, pulling back, all in a...

Hi everyone, Me (26) and my GF (27) have been dating for a little over 6 years now. She has terrible anxiety. Over the years this anxiety has often been at the cost of me and everyone around her. Some examples: she won't take any pictures with anyone, including me, unless she feels like she...

I wanted to share with you guys a cool video @Roober sent me. It's from a musical play that toured 2005~2006 with comedian Tyler Perry dressed up as an old lady talking to a younger man who is having relationship trouble. There are many pearls of wisdom and lessons that can be taken from the...