dating advice for men

I have posted before asking for similar advice, but to skip all the fluff and context of my own situation, I want to ask a more general question to all the married men, men who have been in the game for a long time, and or men who are currently in a LTR. What do you think is the correct course...

This is going to be a long post, so sit tight. I'm finally posting for the first time here because I need advice, and all my friends in real life are either naïve, don’t care, or too 'simpy' to provide a solid answer. A couple of years back, after I graduated high school, I grew out of my shell...

Hey Guys, this is my first post in the forum. I think I ****ed everything with my bestfriend. I declare myself one month and half ago and I did not get an answer yet. we talked on May 30 (Last week) and everything was good until I asked her to go out. She did not reply the message and left...

I wanted to ask for advice, I saw 2 girls, I got on well with the first one, we didn't kiss, but I think she likes me and we should see each other again soon. I already knew the second girl, I had lunch at her house, she was a little embarrassed but after a few glasses of wine she melted, we...

Hello everyone! For the context, this was my last post. My life has been really well from the last month or two. My self-work on gym finally paid off, and my life just transformed on it own. I, for first, read this in an old article related on testosterone, but now I just feel so, how do I say...

Hello, I am 19 and new to this platform. In fact, any dating platform Recently, I have been reading The Rationale Male, and from there, I read about SoSuave, so I decided to check it out. This post will be long since I do not know how to write a short summary, so if you can bear with me, point...

So i find it easy to cold approach and close the instagram, and also te slide in girls dm’s. the conversations are good, but when i try to close for a date they either find and excuse or just cant. i always ask them like “but lets do x on x time?” where am i messing up? Why is it that i can...

Hi Guys, I've really been struggling to get any girls after literally a tonne of effort and at this point I am starting to run out of ideas. I've only used online channels (95%) like dating apps (muzzmatch 250 matches) and Instagram where I have more than 2,150 followers with 1630 following and...

I’m 27 average looking man who likes writing code for a living. I met this girl on a solo day hike where we tagged along till the summit and clicked a few pictures. We exchanged numbers to share the pictures. She is a resident doctor at a hospital in the city and is currently doing her...

hi guys! so this is my first post after reading a lot of your posts.... thanks to everyone for all these great comments and advices, it has really helped me a lot! unfortunately, i do notice that i have a sticking point that i just cannot beat. i just notice that when i meet a girl that i am...

Hi! I'm from Colombia and I've been reading about the seduction community and a few books but I thought asking for advice wouldn't hurt me. I have read The Game, The Mystery Method and currently reading The Rational Male, but I think that the techniques that are taught in the first two books...

Hi all, First time posting here after reading The Rationale Male by Rollo, although I may have to re-read it multiple, multiple times to really let the ideas and concepts really sink in. Other dating books I've read include "Models" by Mark Manson (one of my favorites), I've skimmed through...

Hello, everyone! I'm a young guy (19) and I've been reading everyone's advice and tips in here, which I thank you all for. I have been reading "The Rational Male" which led me to Sosuave. Anyways, enough of that. I met this girl through Instagram and she is from Argentina (she's going to...

Hey folks, I am in my mid 20s and wondering what is the stuff you will you knew in my age when it comes to dating and relationships? Any tips or tricks are highly appreciated

I went on a date with a girl I met on a dating app, it went well, k-closed and got confirmation that she wants a second date. Now I’m leaving on a two week trip and I won’t be able to go on another date till I get back. I’m wondering what’s the best way to play this. 1. Should I suggest we go...

Hi guys. Recently, I have been really anxious and lost from so many mgtow/red pill videos I have seen. I have heard so many horror stories about relationships, "truths" about female nature (hypergamy, women don't actually care about you unless you can provide them something, etc.) And that game...

Hi, I am a 22 yr old college student and a couple of months ago I met a girl online and we really hit off. I thought this was someone I would like to know better. We met a few times, at no point it felt that any of us had to drag the conversation, we were explicit with our liking for each other...

Hello peopulz... So tomorrow I'm to meet someone I've been chatting with on OKC with for a bit and all is well until she sends me the following... "Wait, yeah, no there's no way my anxiety is chill with meeting another stranger. If we do meet, I'd like to at least not have to pretend to be...

First date (on a Thursday) was patio drinks then a walk outdoors on a warm summer evening. Holding hands on the walk, hugging, and the date ending with her suggesting a second date on Sunday. She texts me 30-45 mins after, thanking for the walk, saying I am adorable, and that she is really glad...

Hey DJ, You all know I am in a LTR of 1.5 years. All stuff are going well and escalating. My LTR was doing a night shift at her medical job. So she finishs around between 5am and 10am. At 6am, she texted this (copy-pasted) LTR at 6am: ''A creep is sweet talking me. The trouble is, I...