breakup

I want to share an insightful experience with you all. I broke up with my toxic ex-girlfriend (3 years of relationship). I was very attached to her, and she disrespected me a lot of times so she started losing interest and you know the rest of the story. It did not matter at the point of the...

Hello, I am 19 and new to this platform. In fact, any dating platform Recently, I have been reading The Rationale Male, and from there, I read about SoSuave, so I decided to check it out. This post will be long since I do not know how to write a short summary, so if you can bear with me, point...

hey guys I try to make it as short as possible. Me and a girl had an ONS (both 20)we were in a kinda relationship. First she wanted to commit me but I said we are just friends. She asked me many times to visit her but I never did and I think it pressed her a little bit. She **** tested me...

Hi, this is my first post in here. I just wanted to tell you about me (M 24) and my ex (F 20) and maybe get some advice. We dated for about a year and we broke up because she moved away from uni last summer (9 months ago). I was a virgin before seeing her. Our relationship was very sexual (we...

Hey DJs, Trying to let breakups or divorces go is hard sometimes even when you are enjoying single life. When was a time you heard what happened to your ex through the grapevine many months or years later? What shocked you about them and their terrible decisions (one clearly being unable to...

Whether trying to get your ex back or move on, there’s are good reasons why no contact is such a highly recommended strategy. Because it works! First of all, it removes you from the source of the pain (her) and will spare you multiple rejections every time you reach out. Secondly, it gives...

I recently just graduated college in May and in early April GF of a year and a half broke it off with me because I totally lost frame. Totally out of the blue and in the beginning of the pandemic. Thankfully, I discovered the red pill, have thought about where I went wrong and what I need to do...

Giving you guys a short background of the situation, me and this girl dated for 10 months. I am a military, and at the time I was in my first year working as much as humanly possible and we couldn't see each other much because of that. Most of our communication would be via text, and we would...

After an pretty loving relationship, where I was an alpha for 90% of the time and in the last 10% (thanks to some doubts about my future and the end of my military service, and her lack of time because of her studies) I became clingy and needy. So, long history short, after 8 months she came...

Hello fellow adventurers. I've been stuck in a rut lately, but today something happened that I know most of you experienced - let's begin. Well, I don't know how to start actually. Right now I'm currently sitting at a cafe, heartbroken, confused, and dizzy from what happened earlier this...

Hello to all, First time posting here so I will do my best to keep it short and to the point. A little bit of context first, i read through numerous threads posted here and after searching for answers on the web it is an absolute pleasure to see how many insightful people are giving advice...

I broke up with my ltr a week ago when my friend saw her at some bar with a guy she works with. She was ignoring my calls and acting weird for weeks. A year ago she was all over me, now I am going through some health issues, gained weight(>10kg) and a new job where I work (>11hrs). I saw the...

I've struggled to have a steady rotation of plates the last few years since my separation and divorce. My confidence took a hit and it took me forever to rebuild my self-esteem after a decade with one woman. I've got waves of dates, yet usually things didn't spark enough in chemistry to land...

She had a 5-year relationship and I also had a 4-month relationship right before. She frequently initiated all contact to meet. We were together all weekends and one day during the week. No fights, no you did that you did not send me you did not call.no needy behavior no clingy behavior, great...

Hello to everyone! I was just broken up with by my gf of almost 2 years, and the reason she broke up with me was that she felt I wasn't honest enough. I don't understand this, I have told her every single thing and have never done anything wrong! She literally came up with this from legit...

Hi everyone. I'm just new to this forum and first of all, I want you to know that my English is not very well, but I'll do my best for you to understand me. Sorry about my English. NOTE: I'm sad about my relationship and afraid to lose her or being dumped/cheated on for another man, but I don't...

Hey guys, So my gf of 9 months broke up with me 11 weeks ago. To make the long story short: I'm 22, she's 17. From January to July, we had an Ldr due to the fact that I'm a soldier. We saw each other every weekend and during the holidays, she lives near my hometown. From the end of July to...

hey Guys My 6 months relationship ended last week , she dumped me without giving me any reason, today she saw me with a new girl i did it because i wanted to send her a message that life don't stop without her and i'm not going to chase or beg for her i'm not going to lie i still have feeling...

Hi guys,first post here, il be honest my heads mashed! Met a girl online 4 months ago, did he whole dating thing, slept with her on the 5th date, a stunning little blonde, best piece ive ever had. We seemed to get on really well, met her parents. The usual sh*t. Was never needy, let her live...

First time poster here. Here are the cliff notes of my situation. Looking for advice on how to play this. I met her while she was on vacation. She is from mainland China, was in an unhappy relationship for 3 years. Was supposed to marry and have kids (society pressure), but that plus the fact...