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Hey guys, I've been datin a girl for about 3mo and we get along great except Im having some percieved problems with the amount of guys she's had previous to me. I'm fairly conservative (spare the flames) with that sorta thing and I'd appreciate some calming thoughts towards dealing with girls...

I totally dissagree. Society pushes sex ALL the time. Sending out messages like 'if your not getting laid, there's something wrong with you' and many even believe it's 'unhealthy' to control your baser instincts. Now what you have are a bunch of hormone crazed teens that are told "HAVE SEX"...

Now that Im able to meet women on a fairly regular basis, I'm starting to get to know all sorts of girls, one thing I've noticed thats common among most of them is something I find quite disturbing. I've probably met close to 2 dozen women in the past year, and almost all of them have a story...

Hey kwah, one of the girls I'm seein used to talk about her Ex all the ****in time. I finally just told her to stop it, she just needed to realize what she was doin i guess. hasn't talked about any "ex's" since.

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This works on the same principle that keeping your anger inside will eventually explode. Keeping your confidence to yourself will result in an explotion of confidence. Let me explain. People are encouraged to let out their anger and frustration by discussing their problems with people. The...

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yea dood, take pride. A married chick is sweet on you. good job. now go out and meet some different chicks. keep practicing!

Everyday all day long I go through feelings of nervousness and anxiouty that never really goes away. After lunch is usually the worst sometimes resulting in mild hyperventilating. my work is suffereing as I am constantly stewing over things in my head and I'm stressing out over non work...

One thing I have noticed about Virgins vs non Vs is that the sexually active are often so obsessed with getting laid that the rest of their life is effected. Obviously some people can handle it better than others and can balance the two, but it seems the non V have a harder time getting their...

http://www.intellectual*****s.com/ladderintro.html This guy is WAY off.

a girl i met online, who lives quite a ways away, has now become very anxious about meeting me. she wants me to attend a pool party that she is hosting in a month or so. I was planning a trip to her city anyway so i got her number and the plan is made, but I am very nervous about this. I've...

This stuff is gold. thanks guys! :D :D :D

Pretty much my only contact with women during my work day is the occasional delivery girl that shows up to drop something off or pickup something. ALL of these women are good looking and I'm sure I'm passing up opportunities by not grabbing their attention before they leave to the their next...

It's not immoral... thats why you are trying to be sneaky about it right? ;)

I suspect my fear of success is directly related to my lack of experiance of any kind. I catch myself making wild leaps of assumption also, as if just because she enjoyed our breif convo I'm gonna have to ask her to marry me in a week. stupid stuff like that. It is more of a fear of doing...

no this girl is a '4' on a good day. But I suppose there can't be any harm in hanging out with her while at the same time I continue to try and meet new chicks..

Ok, I'm fairly certain I have some emotional probs. Generally, I don't have a problem talking to women and building rapport fairly easily, I can approach them 'cold' on occasion as well, however it seems like I am subconsciously engineering ways to sabatoge my success. I am deathly afraid of...

Perhaps it is simply a way of saying they wish your interaction didn't have to end so soon. You should always be 'beating her to the punch' in terms of signing off anyway ;)

you guys are right, but it's getting real hard to curb my frustrations. beyond that, you can't possibly imagine the embarrasment I am feeling right now :o