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Decoding the answer will probably be for me to meditate deeply on it, and review actions, descern likely outcomes and attach to them whats really going on -- trying to get a rise out of me. Simplisitcally difficult, in other words, one of the hardest things you could ever do if you have a...

How does one go from ranting to showing that it doesn't bother him? Should I not be contacting her at all? When she comes to visit the kid, ignore her? Or chat and do the normal stuff of validating their feelings and simultaneously trying to ignore them.

Yah, I completely failed tonight. Got into a long online argument with her, calling her out on old behaviors that were bothering me, and she said alot of **** that stung me good. About her checking out, never being "in the relationship" etc etc. I trashed her boyfriend, hard. He was single...

That is dead peg on the nose, that comment is resonating within me in an eerie way. It brings some comfort. Being with her amplified my pickup training, my mastery over body language, nlp, conversational skills, tone control, reality testing, etc, they're overwhelmingly power against chicks...

Afternoon' SoSauve, I've been reading and going over, well, essentially anything KontrollerX, BB, and Jophial have had to say on the topic of BPD as if it were a bible. We were together for 4 years, I tried like a chump to fix it, been out of it for about 4 months now. No need to...