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I do appreciate that, its really all about the boy. Who would be a better dad for him than me? I did my due diligence and got a paternity test. After I met him for the first time, there was really no question, (same nose, eyes, hands, feet.) But you know, just in case. Due to me being there...

I appreciate the positive comments, he's a great little boy and I love him very much. I don't believe I went out like an AFC. She broke up with me, strung me along, then got mad when I didn't insist we get back together. She then got really mad at me for hanging out with my friends and...

So, here's the deal. I had taken a hiatus from sosuave, and women, because I'm busy (online classes, working 40 hours at night, 14 hours weekly baby visits and so forth.) That may be the root of my problem. As some of you may know, my ex (9 month relationship)changed her number, and didn't...

So...I left a note on her car Wednesday, basically saying call me, I would like an update. No response so far, and it made me feel better at first, but I would have expected her to at least send a text. It could be an icebreaker to go talk to her. I've just had a complete emotional block due...

This is no contact...3 months. It's also not about her, it's about the baby (confirmed pregnant for 6-8 weeks while we were still together, I saw the first ultrasound.) also she never said stay out, it was her parents, who should have just butt out of the whole situation. You do make a good...

I notice you say "going no contact." that's been the situation for 3 months. I feel it is the right thing to do, as I will have a form of closure, in that I can plan my life and decide to get with an attorney sooner than later depending on the outcome. Thinking from her perspective, I really...

Not really what it's about. I'd like her to tell me if there is a chance its not mine, which likely will not happen. But the dates line up really well, and I had nothing but suspicion that it isn't, due to her actions. I'm really just wanting to make it right in some way, at least in my head to...

I now I will get some flak for this, but I feel I should contact her, bradd said I owe it to the child to at least try, and it's basically all I can think about. I figured out that she works at the same place(I did a drive by), and I was thinking I could leave a note on her car. My mom is saying...

Sorry if I made it seem otherwise, but the child will not be born until march. I appreciate the advice though. I do not have her email, the only ways I can see to contact her would be through her parents or somehow at her work. Also, she had an alcohol charge and two cases of substance abuse...

I think I have decided to try and make contact. I read some custody laws, and if she doesn't reply then I can use that against her in court. I already have plenty against her, and while it might sound spiteful, actions like this from her and her parents are sick, and unforgivable. I'm...

Just for an update/bump... Still no contact, but my mother has heard some things, that the baby is a girl and she moved out of her parents house. She was supposed to let me know the sex of the child but she hasn't yet, so that got me down. I think things are gonna get better, but then I...

Yeah, she has been crazy and contradicting herself like that...we had sex after she broke it off, and apparently I "used her", then after I said she came on to me...I "didn't even want her anymore." I have been doing a lot better, as far as emotionally, but I'm still not able to get it out...

Little off subject guys...I do appreciate the different perspective from sighsigh, so I'm also wondering what do you think I should do? Try to make contact but be friends? I've been tempted, I'm just tired of being treated like garbage, and a deadbeat.

First off all, she soured, shut off all relations, changed her number and then her mother threatened a restraining order...(with no just cause...) She plans to keep it, but how am I supposed to find out if it's mine if it doesn't get born until March? I'm pretty set on the fact that she broke...

Haha...thanks Down Low...seriously! You weren't the first to say the kid is not mine, but definately the strongest. The harsh words and characterizing her as a giant slut and terrible person definately helps...it's time to move on and ready to talk to the next hot girl I see and get laid (maybe...

I am getting really depressed about it again...I feel like it's mine and despite how she treated me I want to make contact...any more solid tips for moving on? I'm barely been able to look at other girls or think about anything else...I'm really messed up. It just sucks to be in another mess...

Yeah, I know I screwed up...I was just thinking about this again because I got a concussion at work on Monday and have been super depressed. I was getting all motivated again to go out and meet new girls, but have a splitting headache and can barely walk straight...just another set back. At...

Thanks for the replies guys, I was feeling really desperate when I posted this...one of my thoughts was that its not mine, or she has a question as to whether it is or not. I dont see a woman or her family treating the father of her child like this...we dated for 9 months though and the the...

So here's the deal guys...I dated a girl for nine months, she got pregnant, and about a month later broke up with me...we talked for a while after that, then I apparently wasn't giving her enough attention and she changed her number and her parents are treating me like a stalker because I called...

Thanks guys, I really like the "Don't be captain save-a-ho." Thats good stuff. She is definately a ho, and the guy she cheated on me with is a little *****. She wasn't that good to begin with, and honestly I wanted her more when we broke up. She was prepared to have me move in with her, and...