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    How do you deal with meeting your ex's new guy?

    Since making this post a couple weeks back I have received a lot of very helpful responses. Thank you for that. I figured I would give an update of how it all went down just for entertainment sakes: I decided to go to the BBQ after all. I made this decision after a couple of my very...
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    How do you deal with meeting your ex's new guy?

    This is pure gold. My hat goes off to you yet again, Kontroller.
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    How do you deal with meeting your ex's new guy?

    Thank you all for the replies. I do see how my post would imply this, but it was not intended to do so. What I meant by "keeping my cool" was more internally (the mind fvcking), rather than externally (fighting, arguing, etc.). I am normally very good at keeping my mind still, especially...
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    How do you deal with meeting your ex's new guy?

    Title says it all, really. I have to attend a client's BBQ in a couple weeks and my exBPDgf will be there with her new boyfriend of two months. I hardly think of the woman (except for the random skull-fvcking every now and then), but when I saw a pic of her with her new boyfriend on Facebook...
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    Why do women text you for stupid reasons?

    What?
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    Why do women text you for stupid reasons?

    Great advice. Thank you. I actually took this woman out a couple times about two years ago. Nothing got too serious (although we did sleep together) because I only come into town from time-to-time for big projects. We went our own ways, as most people do, and only began talking to her again...
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    Why do women text you for stupid reasons?

    I met this woman in an office I work at from time to time and I am finding that she will text me about very mundane work related sh*t. I was wondering: is this a common thing for women? Is this just her way to get in touch with me? For example: She texts: "Hey do you know what *blah blah*...
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    everyone, if you had one peice of advice to pass on to someone about women...

    Make sure the fvcking you get is worth the fvcking you get.
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    Is there a female equivalent of a DJ?

    Brilliant post.
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    marrying a BPD

    Does anybody else wonder "holy sh*t, could this be the same crazy I hooked up with?" when reading these stories or is it just me?
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    marrying a BPD

    Seconded. These types of BPD threads were/are invaluable to me through my BPD ordeal. I hate to see them get closed because, to be completely honest, I have no idea where I would be without these threads.
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    This Mental Illness thing with women is SCARY

    Seconded. Kontroller's posts have basically been my therapy throughout my BPD situation. I have to say that, although the situation was completely fvcked for me (and still is on a certain level), I have learned a great deal about myself throughout the whole thing.
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    This Mental Illness thing with women is SCARY

    Trust me, Sinister, you don't want to know. Unless, of course, you would like to know just so you can avoid it like the fvcking plague.
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    How do you get rid of a BPD woman?

    Thank you for the responses. It makes perfect sense when you put it that way. My question is this: how do I deal with it? Do I just ignore? Do I say something about it? If this was a normal person speaking to me like this, I would have said/done something on the first offense. The problem is...
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    How do you get rid of a BPD woman?

    Enlighten me, please: Anybody who has read through this post knows that I have recently gone as much NC as humanly possible because I work with my exBPD. Since my situation seems a little unique (I haven't noticed any other replies in this post where the poster still sees the exBPD every...
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    How do you get rid of a BPD woman?

    First off, I would like to thank everybody who has posted information here. I seriously do not know what I would have done if I didn't have the information from this post - especially the replies from Kontroller and Jophil. I did as instructed and went no contact with my ex-bpd. She would try...
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    How do you get rid of a BPD woman?

    It is funny you say this. My BPD's husband was a narcissist and she also worshiped him just as yours did. She also cheated on him and blamed him for the end of the marriage. It seriously trips me out how these types of woman are able to parallel each others actions so well...
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    How do you get rid of a BPD woman?

    First off, thank you very much for the replies. I am very happy I found this forum and thread... The problem here is that all of my friends are back home. I live/work in a different state from where I grew up and haven't given much effort to meeting new people because she basically became my...
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    How do you get rid of a BPD woman?

    Wow – I cannot begin to describe just how hard this thread has hit me. I have been involved with a textbook BPD woman for over the last year. I met her while she was getting a divorce, we hooked up, we thought we were in “love,” and then it was down hill from that point on: - She would...
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