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    Closure and knowing when to let it go.

    Hey man, Sorry that your 17 year marriage and your recent relationship ended. I am not sure how many people here have gone through that much time with one person and actively post here. You are in a lot of pain I still imagine and will be for a while. It’s ok to be sad and talk to your friends...
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    Contacting Ex

    Thank you for your responses, appreciate it. I’m not gonna do it. Still don’t know where or why these thoughts reoccurring. I still feel like I’m the most responsible for the breakup. I treated her horrible and stopped having sex with her, I don’t blame her. I found this from another thread...
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    Contacting Ex

    hey fellas, I didn’t do it yet! Here is the short version you guys have seen posted thousands of times... We were together 5 years, I went beta, caught her cheating (my fault and I don’t blame her), texted her to leave and haven’t contacted her for almost 2 years. I have been with a few other...
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    Thanks Warboss Alex and Quiksilver

    Thanks you two, you both have helped me a great deal. I started out at about 175lbs (6'2)...now I am at 214 lbs. Warboss Alex I started off with one of your templates in "designing a workout routine" which worked great....about every 6-8 weeks I change up my routine from the one you posted...
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    Weight Gaining Supplements

    Any of you tried one of these and have had positive/negative results? Sometimes its difficult to just "eat more". Curious for your input. Lobby
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    Some progress

    hi guys, just been reading the vault and such which has helped. it has been about 2 months and have gained 13 lbs!! (176 to 189). still working on it short term goal is 200 for the next 3 months. the hardest part is eating for myself. two major things that have helped me 1) going to the gym even...
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    open-ended questions

    Gentlemen! trying to think of some good open ended questions to keep from going quiet, any ideas? do you think a woman that is horrible at kissing is worth pursuing? its boring making out with her. best Lob
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    New to the forum

    Hey people, I am a late bloomer and eager to make up for lost time (23). I had a family problem in highschool that resulted in a family member passing away, I chose to stay home with my family and play video games. I have been in one relationship recently that I ended real quickly as it did...
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