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  1. J

    I need some serious advice guys... what would you do?

    By the way, it's not the fact she didn't go with me that is frustrating. It's the fact that she waited until 2 hours after the game had started to let me know. She had an entire week to send one text message that said "hey i don't wanna go" and she failed. idk.
  2. J

    I need some serious advice guys... what would you do?

    I haven't tried contacting her and don't plan on contacting her at all ever again. I suppose you are right, never depend on her to comfort you. I don't know, I wasn't dependent on that until she did it for me. I didn't ask her to comfort me, she just did it. That's why I thought it was something...
  3. J

    I need some serious advice guys... what would you do?

    Selfish? Nah man, she wasn't being selfish. She was supporting me, she told me she didn't know how to comfort me and she was there for me. She wrapped her arms around me and told me she'd be there, everything was going to be okay. She was far from selfish that night... it was her way of telling...
  4. J

    I need some serious advice guys... what would you do?

    Bump... I know it's long but anyone got anything for me?
  5. J

    I need some serious advice guys... what would you do?

    This girl is a senior in high school, I'm a sophomore in college... (I know... laugh all you want) So, I work with this chick. First, the chick has a lot of stuff going on in her life... her parents are absolutely insane and they pretty much oversee everything she does. Secondly, she's...
  6. J

    Asking a girl if she's seeing anyone else? Yay or Nay?

    She's single, I'm 100% positive.. she broke up with this dude and then we started talking.. she told me about it right when we met and told me she was single. Her myspace doesn't have a lot of guys writing on it but she doesn't use it much.. I checked it a few times and she logs in once or twice...
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    Asking a girl if she's seeing anyone else? Yay or Nay?

    We both are single... I'm just wondering if there is anybody else she's seeing? And... I know it's supposed to be the chicks job to bring up the relationship, but I'd like to know where we stand.. like if I'm wasting my time or if there is a chance for a relationship with the girl.
  8. J

    Asking a girl if she's seeing anyone else? Yay or Nay?

    I'm seeing this girl, but not very frequently. We've gone out twice.. the first time went well.. holding hands.. and the second date ended making out on the hood of my car for 15 minutes or so. She then invited me to her soccer game in which I went to. Her family was there and we all did dinner...
  9. J

    The first date was awesome... about the second one?

    Cooking sounds like a good plan... head to a local park and fire up a grill.. or have a picnic of sorts?
  10. J

    Sigh friendzone....

    Send her the following text. "Next." then delete her number from your phone.
  11. J

    The first date was awesome... about the second one?

    So, I've had many successful first dates, including one last night. :) The IL is high, the kino was flirty, and we had a blast. But, this isn't the first time the first date has gone so well. I'm curious to know a little bit about the second date as it seems I always screw something up the...
  12. J

    Some creative first date ideas?

    Seeing as you are from Detroit, would you consider Ann Arbor to be a 'hip city'? Anyway, thanks for the ideas guys... I was thinking about wandering around downtown then grabbing a bite to eat... obviously we're gonna get hungry walking around, and it's gonna be dinner time anyway. :)
  13. J

    Some creative first date ideas?

    I've been going on out a few dates recently.. and I've got a few more lined up.... I'm not into the cliche dinner/movie date.. especially on a first date.. the movie provides no conversation at all and the dinner provides no action at all. So, other than coffee, a movie, or bowling/mini golf...
  14. J

    Going running with this chick tonight..

    Thinks went well the first time... is there anything else to keep in mind for the second time around or just keep doing some of the same things? Obviously I'm escalating kino since we're getting to know each other.. and I mentioned that I don't wanna run 3 miles to see her... just keep doing...
  15. J

    Going running with this chick tonight..

    I'm just being curious as to how to really talk to each other while running together... it's tough to really flirt without kino.. and it's hard to talk when you're trying to breath in a rhythm... So, what are some good ways to really give a good impression when running with her? We work...
  16. J

    I need a little advice please.

    Thanks a lot guys. Sounds like I'll try to keep up what I'm doing... and show her how I'm different than her current BF. And, I'll see what I can do about jogging together. Anything else I should be aware of?
  17. J

    I need a little advice please.

    Borefriend.. :) I like the sound of that. Thanks man. :D
  18. J

    I need a little advice please.

    I work with this chick.. and before you say "DON'T DATE COWORKERS" I can easily get another job that is nearly the same thing for the same pay if worst comes to worst... I work as a Floor Associate in a grocery store.. not my career... We've been talking more lately at work.. and she's very...
  19. J

    Case of qualifying too much maybe, and possible lost of interest unrelated to that

    Sounds to me like you went well beyond not being a nice and straight into being an @$$. Her lack of response was justified, and you make a complete fool out of yourself pestering her with more text messages. Besides that, texting is no way to accomplish anything. Start calling her.
  20. J

    Opinion Question. What do you think of this way of asking a girl to lunch?

    There's this girl I see every Wednesday in one of my giant lecture classes. There's about 250ish people in my class. We sit in the back, and we met this semester, but we didn't talk until yesterday. Anyway, during class I passed her a tic tac toe board drawn on a sheet of paper and we played...
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