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Ok... time for an update. I finally was able to get her off my mind. We still hang out and all, but I've gotten to a place where I don't care who she's with. Looking to hang out more with other women, etc. So mentally I think I've walked away from this thing. She's pretty much told me...

The confusion is, she says she just wants to be friends. However the time we spend one on one, imo, is deeper than just friends. That's the confusion. It's all good. I decided to go out for my dinner break to a local bar and I ended up having some nice conversations with some other chicks...

Tazman, Nope wasn't into her. Also wasn't angry as I left. Anyway... She suggests hanging out one on one quite often. At least once every two weeks, maybe more. This is the confusion. Actions speak louder than words. Either way I'm backing off. I've been way to clingy / unsecure anyway...

Thanks. Thanks everyone. Just here learning. I will learn the game, I just never had to before. Maybe I'll be back in a month or two with some updates on this one - good or bad.

I would. We were friends long before I looked at her any different. One day after a year my interest just changed. Hers did too for a bit. We've gotten somewhat physical, i.e. we kissed. Last time she's the one who kissed me. Only a few weeks ago... So maybe that's why I'm confused.

By the way, from what I've gathered, I think the answer is back off. Let it go and be her friend but don't push it. Go date others and get my heart protected. She's not ready anyway. So now hit me.

Thanks. So one more question. If you're already friends with a person like that, are you saying forfeit the friendship? Our group of friends is about 50-80 people, depending on the day you see us. It used to be a great group. Now there's so many people that don't talk because of this sh1t...

Try the Latin scene. Ballroom dancing is easier in some ways, but it's rather stiff, not so natural to me. Go to the local Latin club and take salsa classes for a year. You'll never have a shortage of women and more than that you will have confidence like never before.

Thanks Monkey & Interceptor. I just left her a minute ago (before I read all of this). Went to the Waffle House (her suggestion). She ends up talking to one of the other puppydogs for the entire time we were there. Pissed me off. So I paid the bill and left. Took her two minutes to get up and...

Your right. How do I rethink that though? As far as I'm concerned, she truly IS the one. This isn't like some little infatuation, it's all I ever wanted. Makes it hard to deal with when you feel like that. At the same time, we spend 2-3 hours every day together, talking. She's just playing...

Hi, I must have screwed up all the rules... I'm mr nice guy to this chick. Best friends and everything. Similar hobbies, talk a lot, etc. Anyway to get back to where I have a shot at her? Thanks R