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    What's her friend doing....

    **** blocked indeed. You really need to gauge interest of your target before you proceed again. What im seeing is projection of your feelings for the target reciprocated as the target's thoughts. As in, first you referred to her as the one you were interested in then later called her the...
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    How can i stop reading this site and actually do something?????????

    The only way you will ever motivate yourself to make radical change in the way you think is through internal motivation. You need to reinforce your new lifestyle with internal satisfaction in all things that you do in attempt to improve yourself. You may be thinking that external motivators will...
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    Freshman Girl

    You guys all go into rapport building way too fast. Fluff talk does not create attraction. You may feel you are successful in your reproach because she reciprocates conversation, but is this really attraction? I like eye contact opener, that one is solid. Lowering her social value in a neg while...
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    When do girls become 'nice'?

    Your thinking that girls are *****es is really just a psychological coping mechanism (intellectualization). You try and rationalize their behavior to downplay your shortcomings in game. I by no means impy this to be an insult. But to get these girls, you need to re-evaluate your game. You need...
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    What are some tips to avoid being "clingy"

    Are you in a relationship or pursuing one?
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    Do you guys think this is a good opener to approach random girls with?

    You need to used a real opener. Situational stuff is BS and doesn't work on any girl that's been hit on before. How many pathetic guys do you think came up to her and tried something situational. You have to come in under the radar. Nighthawk was on the right track with OPINION OPENERS. Never...
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    First Date Tonight

    Make sure your kino progression is spot on. Don't dwell on hand holding all night, but don't start stroking her hair right from the beginning. If you can work up the kino throughout the date you should be set for a kiss or more. Kino is key, if you don't start the date with touch in your...
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    basic social skills ie CONVERSING WITH A GROUP.

    If you're opening a new set, keep your important beliefs to yourself (politics, religion, etc). However, when socializing, remember that it is 100% confidence. If anyone sense a drop of shyness in you, you have already blown out the set. The more practice you have, the more confident you will...
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    kino trouble

    Keep your cool with the guy. The last thing you want is to have an emotional outburst. Keep playing your game, but remember the KEY to kino is your recognition of her response to kino. It's not the physical act itself, but how she feels about it. If you're getting negative body language, back...
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    Help Me And If I Can Help You Just Ask

    You need to let her go as a prospect right now. Hit on other girls and practice your game there. If you just want to hook up with her its definitely a possibility so keep barking up that tree. But if she'll cheat on her boyfriend, she's open to cheating on you once you get together. So let their...
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    How to Improve Your Social Skills

    From my experience and from what I understand of social dynamics in highschool try to avoid the cold approaches during school. High school is really stratified and if your game isn't 100% solid you will lose the set. There is even a chance with perfect game that you can't close a set with 9's...
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