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Excellent thread. I'm going through a very similar situation and this discussion was very helpful.

Okay well cool, but definitely take a break for a few days after the drinks to keep her guessing a little. :)

No no, enough! Leave it alone for at least a few days! LOL At a minimum your friend will probably tell his girl that you asked about her AGAIN, and of course the girl will tell the sister, you get the idea . . .

I don't think you necessarily screwed it up but you definitely need some damage control here. :) A tm counts as a call (even if unintentional), especially when you had last unreturned contact. I would have suggested waiting till at least Sunday to initiate any contact after you saw her at...

IMHO, that's way too many contacts way too soon. I'd seriously give it a week or so and then maybe give it one more try. Just because you have an in with this one does not mean some basic and fundamental rules do not apply. If she's into you then maybe she'll return one of your (many) calls...

This sounds simple and probably a little stupid, but the only thing you can do is condition yourself not to care. How is what she is doing now of any concern to you now? It'll just take a little time. If things she is saying bother you, then don't talk to her. Ignore or avoid her in a...