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EXCELLENT COMMENTS. I am married now too and feel that in order to maintain my happy home I still have to maintain a dj outlook even when dealing with my wife. If not they will take the ball and run with it and run right over an unsuspecting afc especially if it is a female with more than a few...

keep walkin man been there done that no win situation

Thanks for the words of wisdom rollo. I think I failed to realize I was being tested all the time and let a few things slide and boom few things turned into a wave and no its a constant struggle to get back in our proper roles. Congrats on the successful family though rollo

damn what happened? cant say I havent felt those sentiments exactly though. If ya angry be angry and let it out especially someplace like here.

I plan on addressing all the issues this weekend work is kickin my azzz this week and I work on the farm weekends so even if she pisses me off I can work it off. Insidious and Bible thanks for the posts they were very informative. Insidious do you want to tell any of your story sounds...

Recovering here too Jalex thanks for the 12 steps!

Yeah she was pretty controlling before marriage Sovreign. Wasnt as noticeable btu I was missing the signs they were there. Man I cant believe I went AFC so fast though. Maintaining DJ status even with wifey is a constant undertaking and shouldnt be taken lightly. TRUST ME I have more afc stories...

Ok I guess some background would help. I posted here when I 1st got married back in April. It was rocky at first but I thought It would get better. Rocky becuase of her mood swings and the need to control everything around the house. I dont mind deciding how to decorate but my stuff is pretty...

Im sure there are and there is probably another thread for this. If you are divorced do you remember a specific point when you realized things were not going to work? if ya want ill spill my guts and re afc'd myself by the way gixxer getting another hayabusa !

yeah I sold the gixxer got a chopper too many tickets for wheelies etc. wasnt a fist fight just a big ol verbal argument. 1st one since we got married 25 days ago.

thanks for all the advice and observations had big ass fight over the weekend now back to lovey dovey land again. It is hard once you are married not to fall into afc land. thanks for the tips about continuing to court your wife even after you are married I can see how that mindset will help a...

yeah it was strange at 1st being married. whole relationship dynamic changes. I guess I went into freeze mode realizing I was a married man now and no more new p***y ever! After a few days I finally settled down and was getting used to the fact that Im married now. I do advise people to...

Thanks Pen first real night at my crib for both of us went pretty smooth. except my bad ass cold.

we met when I was living in atlanta and met at a local college there which is where she is from. She moved here (yesterday as a matter of fact) most of my family lives here.

34 me her 20 lovin it mcdonalds!

actually got married on 4/30/05 but we wont be living together until next monday 5/16/05 so its kinda hard to tell so far how this is going to go. Honeymoon was ok blue water and cheap rum I was a happy ass man! fyi we have never lived together im 34 she 31. I m starting to think that even once...

not much has changed except my pockets are a lot lighter after this wedding and honeymoon and we dont talk as much maybe I m just new at this at getting jittery with the new environment. will keep u posted though. I checked out the marriage thread too that was a TON of info! whoa

been married a week and some change just curious of any other mm are here especially any long time married guys lol im 34 by the way