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Allright so I thought I'd leave you guys an update. I know this is the "NC", but for me it's more a "get over your ex" thread. So I'm not ashamed to say that I decided to stop doing the NC. I added her back to the chat (which will be the main means of communication since her cell is suspended...

I'm exactly in the same spot @DonnyJuanny right now. Really not knowing what to do. So I'm still resisting the urge of sending her a message. I'm pretty sure this will subside, but wow...

ALLRIGHT... DAY 1 AGAIN... but.... this is funny... I ran into her in the morning. And then now in the evening I had to park my car near her class. No parking space and I was almost running out of gas! so I had to do it... So, right after class, I went to my car and was prepared to just...

@DonnyJuanny sometimes when I get those "urges", just imagining the whole scenario (with a bonus: "I'll send her a nice SMS, but maybe she's with another guy right now?! i don't know! oh well, fck it!") helps me avoid it. Sometimes I wonder if I just should start talking with her again. She...

Here I am. Day 15 of NC or something like that. It's still on, even though I saw her today. I was with a friend (a guy) having breakfast at a coffee shop and she came right to our table. I should've known (it was one of our common places when we were dating), but hell: the coffee's only $1...

@DonnyJuanny well it's normal, but you're still cheating haha. Mostly I think how you feel it's what matters. But one should be able to trust in oneself too, I think. Now the question: why did you feel the need to do it?

well day 7 of the "new NC", though I had actually started it 2 months ago... just a thought for tonight, and for people like @Jerba (I read your whole story, man that was intense!) and @DJinBlue: I like to measure the success of my NC by the amount of time I spend NOT thinking about her. I...

Regarding my ex, my idea of her is that she's one of the most secure persons I've ever met. It's actually something I like. And it's probably an idealization of her (!!), but I've been for a while under the idea that I'm more insecure than she is. It's good, 'cause on one hand if she asks me...

I'll join you guys too (FUUUUCK this ended up being a long post... Well if you want to read it, be my guest!) Thought I'd join in :) great thread!! 3 years long and still active, makes one think how common this problem is. So ... officialy it would be "Day 3 of NC", even though we broke...

ok this may sound stupid, but, anyway..! i dumped my GF some months ago but never fully break up with her. We've been going back and forth these time.. she's dated other guys, etc... i used to be a full class AFC (as you would tell) before I was with her (a 3 year relationship), now i...