she is seriously an insecure type: normal girls would react positively by wanting me more if i were to flirt with other girls cus that would increase my challenge towards them
but if i'd do that in front of her when im with her, she'd think that i was a player and would not want anything with...
"but how can flirting with other girls improve her sinsecurity? she's not the type that reacts to the system..."
But she did react to the system- just not the way you expected! If she didn't react you wouldn't have any chance with her at all.
By flirting with other girls...
If you are sure you want to give it another shot- first make sure you are ready to walk away.
Now with that in mind there are a few options.
Casually talk to one of her friends and say that " too bad she let her insecurities get the best of her, she won't find another guy like me and...
While I appretiate the concern, I am not going to let it go to the level where I inherit a premade family.
It will definatley be kept as "friends with benifits". As I said before the topic of "booty call" already came up.
I am still on the hunt for more appropriate options, but...
Update... (small steps...)
Well, I waited close to a week before responding to her email. (found out she had been checking her email to see if I responded- so it worked!) Instead of emailing back I called her. I kept the phone call real short and simply asked if she wanted a visit...
"LEVERAGE"
I have found that if you use "leverage" on yourself that you leave yourself little choice but to approach.
"leverage" will be different for everyone, for some it may be as simple as not allowing yourself something simple like beer or food if you don't make the approach...
I meant that I hadn't been with her sexually in 10 years. I have seen her, she still looks real good! And she says she doesn't have any stretch marks, she had the kid 3 years ago and within weeks was back down to her normal weight of ~125 lbs.
Trust me I am probably one of the most...
OK... Heres my first request for advice...
I ran into an x-girl friend... well more like my first long term, and also my "first". I was her "first" as well. We dated for about 4-5 years on and off with the last year or so being for our mutual physical needs. After we parted ways she...
Thanks for the kind words. You are right, I am much stronger in everyway. I even went to the extent to stay single for a full year to make sure I knew what "I" wanted. Yes a full year with out! Even passed up opourtunities. Right or wrong- I thought it was the best thing to do. Plus my...
Why not take it a step further and use another female to bait her? Spend some time inocently flirting with one of the hot girls in class.
She now knows you like her but you want her to think that shes not your only option.
One that I used in the past was to have one of my close...
First of all I want to thank you to everyone on this board and to the creators of such a great web site! I have spent a lot of time reading on here and have learned/ relearnde a lot!
I guess you could say that I have fallen from the graces of Don Juan Mastery...
I have been able to...
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