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    Correct "responses" to women emotional states in a LTR

    I read it mate, I read it... I just kind of politely skipped the part where you tried to project some idea of your interlocutor that you had in your head also upon me, just to repeat the projection concerning what I read and what I didn't read according to you after my ad rem reply (btw. not...
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    Correct "responses" to women emotional states in a LTR

    That's why there is no general pattern. You may know your wife or girlfriend, therefore you may know HER pattern of behaviour, but what works in your relationship may result in failure of the other. What is more interesting, some things would not work in relationship with your women when tried...
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    Correct "responses" to women emotional states in a LTR

    There's no general pattern - also different answers may be correct for different cases and entirely wrong for the other. E.g. "I love you too" may be 10/10 answer for non-crazy, balanced, low mileage/non mileage female if she will say "I love you" and may be falling a **** test hard with hot BPD...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    I agree. Regarding the realization - I think that females are constantly aware of the risk of male ability to leave the relationship (that's why they sabotage him to some extent by buying chips, making cakes while the guy should definitely abstain from sugar and unhealthy fats due to weight etc...
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    I built it, they didn't come

    Not to dismay you anyhow, but it is more than possible that people simply perceive you as emotionally cold person (which should not be a surprise to you) and females understand these vibes well. The thing is, "giving a **uck"/caring about what other person think is part of relationship game for...
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    How many of you are married ?! If so are you sleeping with other women.

    I am married, no "game on the side" and not actively pursuing it - I am nearly 40y old, soon to be father of a child, planning to get at least one more child with my wife. My wife is a decent, smart woman - I am not interested in sluts nor I plan to woe any other woman. Will I always be that...
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    The Enmity between male and female is natural

    This pretty much sums up why for dating HBs 9.0s - HB 10.0s usually term "its just your turn" describes the dating well, as these females have so many choices that, "objectively speaking", your ability to maintain "apha" state of SMV for her and her environment is, arguably, impossible...
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    Men in relationships that would rather jack off than bang their gf/wife

    Sounds rather normal tbh, I have good looking, rather attractive, younger wife (not the super model type but it doesn't matter to me, she has great character, she is smart and is very into me) - I'm not model-looking level either - so we are matched well. I still perceive other females...
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    Older man says he is no longer interested in dating

    Reproductive-age female lust after average looking 68y old guy? We aren't talking about George Clooney type of guy here. Ask 30y old woman whether she finds average looking 68y old guy attractive and tell me what you have found out. I bet the answer will be somewhere between "Yuck" to "Ewww"...
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    Older man says he is no longer interested in dating

    Have two or three children with my wife (7 years younger than me) and raise them until they will become self-sufficient, have my own business fully covering my needs (this will need a lot of work but that's my dream and already some plan in motion), enjoy family gatherings when I will get old. I...
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    Older man says he is no longer interested in dating

    No offence but the guy is just bending the hypergamy by going where his actual value is vastly inflated (Philippines), then going transactional-marrying path (his money Vs her youth) and popping kid while reaching almost 70. When his child will be teenager, it will use paper towel to clean up...
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    Older man says he is no longer interested in dating

    Not sure what he is expecting. He is old and looks old - therefore his matches are old too (which is natural, for at this age you should be more about keeping your quality of life high in terms of health, money but also family life - meaning he should be already past the chasing tails stage...
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    America lowers men's self esteem

    I do not think it is just about America - if you live in any European country, females perceive men from abroad by default as more interesting than men from their own country - that's why for example men from Italy or Spain like to pursue women from Slavic countries (which are generally more...
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    The Enmity between male and female is natural

    She slips in female energy because you slip in male energy - at least that's the dynamics in relationship.
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    "In a woman's eyes you're not a 7. There's 10,9 and 0."

    Young is to some extent state of mind and body - you can meet unspoiled 27y old virgin and you can meet 20y old woman after 2 serious relationships and/or single mom, smoking cigs. Pretty sure you would prefer to pick 27y old virgin in this situation.
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    "In a woman's eyes you're not a 7. There's 10,9 and 0."

    Sorry for self-reply but I can't edit the error I made - I actually meant "if you somehow remind her about her father".
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    "In a woman's eyes you're not a 7. There's 10,9 and 0."

    Yes, but since it require to spot various colours of flags here and there (and romantically interested female will try to hide at least some red flags from you, while your interest in her will also blind you to some extent) it is less likely when compared to assessment of character of person...
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    "In a woman's eyes you're not a 7. There's 10,9 and 0."

    I think it is more about "either she is into you or not" (and the reason may vary and be beyond your control) - women do not think in terms of 0-10 scale ( you need to ask them to think like that) - as long as you are not ugly (and the most of guys are not) you have some shot - however this shot...
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