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    My prediction for dating by 2028 and beyond the foreseeable future

    Regarding online dating: the new stage 0 is coming - a 5mins tops pre-date video call to assess whether it is worth to meet each other or not.
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    How much do looks matter

    Perhaps you a right. I was approached online by acquaintances of my acquaintances with propositions to date basing on my online profile only but my assumption is there was always something additional on this profile (additional information about my job, age, languages I speak, hobbies etc.)...
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    How much do looks matter

    For most women in the most fertile period of their life, looks is the basic qualification factor (you won't get past her whole qualification process because you will fail at looks check) it's hard to tell whether it is more important than for men, but we can safely say it's as much important for...
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    Gottman on how LTR's solve issues

    Best relationships are full of minor fights and addressing issues before they will go out of proportion. If man is afraid if addressing issue, he is not in a healthy relationship. The same goes for woman. Compromise is not something that is always worked out by common understanding w/o any...
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    What are the benefits of being in a relationship?

    Main benefit is that you can finally concentrate fully on other things because you have more time (you don't use it on chasing/pick up, maintaining interest is easy if you know what to do), you have more free resources (courting phase is somewhat expensive), you have also a peace of mind...
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    Long Story: Sister is infect with feminist wokeness

    The argument about "I can wear what I want, rape culture blah blah" argument is kind of similar to "I should be able to walk through the worst neighbourhood dressed rich to show off everyone what I have and noone should rob me, but we have a culture of robbery!" therefore no, there is no "rape...
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    Online dating efficiency

    Tinder, go Gold from the start (otherwise your profile will be burrowed under Gold users profiles), swipe right on aproxx. 40% of profiles whether you like them or not, use boosts on Mon/Tues during travel-from work and early post work hours (5 PM to 7 PM). Put the best photo of your face (but...
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    Did I Dodge A Bullet?

    Lots of aggression dude, I don't know where is it coming from but tbh I am not that interested in this knowledge. I do not need to fantasize about things I already have and I have what I wanted. Live your life and go through used ***** if you wish. XOXO.
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    How to try and finally get out of the friendzone?

    The recipe from exiting the friendzone is simple: - never initiate the contact with a girl that friendzoned you (NEVER) - only reciprocate contact in hard-play style (shorter messages, sent in long time-span since receiving message at time that is inconvenient for sustained communication and not...
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    Did I Dodge A Bullet?

    Like I wrote, aside of easy plate (she is the type that gives no resistance and leads herself to your d*ick and it all happens in 3 weeks tops from first message on dating app to fckng) then it still may or may not be fine. For example I was fcnkng some hot 35y old at some point - later she told...
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    Has the wife of your friend hit on you?

    It was when I was 27 years old, I was at my friend's wedding with HB 7/10 I thought was orbiting me but I got metaphorically bitchslapped when she told me around 11 PM that "she needs to go and her other friend is picking her up" - her father was well known scientist in my country at that time...
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    Did I Dodge A Bullet?

    She is a serial teaser using app as egobooster, most probably using her old photos & playing nice via messages, then getting kicks/pleasure from refusing men, fuelling her fantasy that she is still attractive & desired. Its common behaviour for low-morale but at some point in the past high...
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    Sex is powerful

    Depends on your age - when I was below 30 and single I was mostly after sexual experience, not necessarily particular woman. When you have wife it's different - I can go w/o sex up to two weeks easily - abundance of opportunities to engage makes me less interested in it (which I think is ok as...
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    How do other pets stack up against dogs when getting laid?

    I had both - generally dogs require more attention (you should walk them out) also you need to wash them from time to time (otherwise their furr will get too oiled & start to stink), both dogs and cats can be cute and act cute. Dogs also need bit more cuddling on average to feel loved. Dogs are...
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    Living "below your means"

    Yes but "doer" hobbies are quite limited - you love to cook - great, this is sexy doer hobby. You know how to fix car or things in house - man, females respect that a lot especially if you are the "I will do today what can be done tomorrow" type. They love it. Gardening with passion - usually...
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    Living "below your means"

    I think we can all agree that females generally are more attracted to hunter types, not gatherer types and most thrill man feels in situations which are somewhat stressful to him (whether it is new experience, new date, new challenge, new achievement arising from challenging himself and his...
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    Living "below your means"

    My approach is contrary - man is built by force of nature for slaying issues, collecting trophies, acquiring rewards. Retirement is for old people - drained of lifeforce, broken by stress or health issues. If you feel you are out of energy to work more and you are near 40 years old, it means you...
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    Observations after being married

    You married girl that does not even live with you? Man, that's retro-romantic or poor judgement. I hope its the earlier than the former.
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    Video- Women are Psychologically Drawn to Broken Miserable Men, do you agree?

    Lot of generalisation in here - there are women around that like to lead but they still look for some qualities in men i.e. submissiveness, intelligence, looks - these are qualities of men that leading type women look after - however entering into such relationship for the man is usually a bad...
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    Observations after being married

    You sure you love your wife? Since I got married I don't really care what happens with my old female acquaintances or former lovers and I am not interested in arranging any meetings with them.
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