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In fact I try to approach dating now as a theater play as a good actor might. I put a lot of emotion in it, but only in confines of the date itself. I am prepared to be rejected, to make mistakes and not be destroyed by them. And after the date I calmly reflect on what happened, ask questions...

Definitely no :) I wrote this post not from frustration, but in pursue of knowledge. I definitely will go on the second date with them. And more - I am 95% sure I will have sex there. My question is linked to the fact that in two different cases I got the same result. This got me curious and I...

What is “warmly arrogant” I do not know. Can you elaborate?

I was leading sexually. I wrote them in the first place. I chose the date (they chose on what to do and where). I was chosing the tooics for conversation, although gave them space to speak. I maintained eye contact. And I lead sexually - I touched, hugged, made the first kiss, reached for her...

This I did, although never knew it is a technique. If you can - direct me somewhere to read about sexting. The first one was quite hot sometimes, but sometimes she got concsieous and said something like “let us meet up first” The second got right into the stream head-first. If it helps - I...

You are right, I did not ask. I am very new and still need to explore what is appropriate

Is it me or there is something with girls and first dates? In my first post here a week ago I wrote that I am a post-marriage man re-entering the dating scene for the first time in more than 10 years. So I am very new to this thing, but I’ve payed my due to books and articles. This last week I...

I wonder what parts of men’s lives women are attracted to. I am now very surprised with my selection and the fact that it is not your generic “age-money-looks” list

Okay, seems to be terminology problem here. I`ve read "The Rational male" and from that I thought that the word "spinning" includes all stages of the process. In my mind it was everything AFTER initial step. Like when you are dreaming of someone - that is not spinning and when you have done...

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I am now at the start of my journey and right now I am "spinning" three girls on almost the same stage - we are talking our way to the first date. What really stumbles me is what those girls have fallen for in me. Three girls, three completely different things and none conventional. The first...

I believe I am too fast to break the mystery. I appear in public as a large, able, powerful man. But in private I am easy to open up to the deepest deep. I “drop my game” so to say. There was one girl recently that saw it through to the end and was really excited to see that I retained my power...

Hey, everyone! Thanks for accepting me. My name is Max, I am 37 years old and got here after reading "Rational male" twice and remembering the webpage by heart :) I have run in a bit of a problem and I need to solve it fast. I am relatively recently divorced (1.5 years) from a 10-year...