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I really did notice this. She was absolute stone when we met to break it off completely. I couldn't believe it. I've questioned her many times if there's someone else, in the best possible situations, but she's always said there isn't someone else. Maybe it's just someone she's interested in or...

No it's not desperate behaviour. I told her I'm going to be a player and won't be in a LTR. Anyway, she can think whatever she wants. I'm not with her anymore.

It's update time :) Ok, it's two weeks since she told me it's over. I was in a real state last week, little food, little sleep and poor morale. On Friday, I'd had enough, I wanted this near 5 year relationship to end properly. She didn't want time to think if we could be back together, so why...

I can't just presume she's getting freaky behind my back. Even if we are on a "break". These are way too emotional times for that stuff. For me anyways. I'm going out tonight but I'm not particularly aiming for a new honey. How can you be so certain without knowing her? Be a bit more...

Thanks Trogs, I'm being as busy as I can. But I've wondered about this possibility. I know she is much more busy than I am at the moment. She even has more friends to socialise with. Could it be that she is using this "space to think" to ignore her feelings for me? She will contact me, but I...

Thank you to all of you who took the time to write here. There is still no contact between us since Sunday. I get very emotional sometimes, especially when I'm on my own, but I resist the temptation to contact her. As E-Z Rider said, I'm acting, but I have to now become the act. I don't know...

Ok, if she HAS cheated on me or she is INTERESTED/FLIRTING with another guy, will she ever edmit to this? And how would I go about finding this out? How should I ask, I mean?

Thank you very much to all of you for your help. There's no progress yet as I only posted the message here last night. I will continue not to make any contact with her. I really doubt there is another guy. But who knows, she may be interested in another one and have had a spark inside for...

Hello to everyone. I know this is a regular problem, but I believe that every situation has it's unique details which can change everything. So here I go. Just to start, I'm 20, and the girl is also 20. The relationship was a first and special one for both of us. Full of excitement, holidays...