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    URGENT!!! Should I ask her??

    haha nevermind she already has tickets and was planning to go anyway. i said 'thast cool just letting you know in case u didnt' thats good news, i just saved $110 and 5 hours of my precious time...more time to spend on other ladies. thanks anyway for all u guys' help, i appreciate it.
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    URGENT!!! Should I ask her??

    Theres this HB 8 that i met and have had some nice conversation with, on and off online, i see her around in school and we say hi, for about a month now. I asked her out for a lunch date, but she said she was busy and i told her to call me when she had time for lunch (we go to same college). im...
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    Ganji after a 3-month LJBF??

    i think its my oneitis talking. arggg why is this process so freakin hard?? i wish i had feelings of steel that real DJs have. so anyway im gonna go ice skating with her and pretend i'm totally cool with being friends with her, be all happy and macho on the outside, as if i didnt give a ****...
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    no need to impress

    i'm glad ur feeling this way, because if u dont have a life to begin with how are gurls supposed to be attracted to u in the first place? you dont have to 'be this or or that way' because if thats not urself, its fake and girls will see through that sooner or later. yep...just be urself, respect...
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    Ganji after a 3-month LJBF??

    i replied: sorry i sound distant, but im really busy with (something) and (some other thing) right now, so i dont have time to deal with this. just make sure this is really what u want and im cool wid it. the thing is, im not cool with it. my afcness is killing me...i wanna be with her so...
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    Ganji after a 3-month LJBF??

    ok she replies. shes sounds very worried, begging me to talk to her and that she'll understand. if i dont wanna talk to her, she'll understand too. she just doesnt want me to be distant and mad at her. argg what to do????
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    Ganji after a 3-month LJBF??

    ok, i dated this gurl for 3 months, shes very pretty and i must admit i've been a bit AFC at times, doing considerate things for her here and there, while getting none of it in return. so i guess its pretty obvious that i got LJBF'ed. on our 3rd month anniversary too, right before Xmas. the...
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    cut-up abs

    a real simple question: in order to get a ripped 6 pack, do you do HEAVY and low reps (holding weights and decline crunch)?? or is it LIGHT and high reps (regular floor crunches)?? i've been doing the ladder all the time and all im getting is a flat stomach. hardly any lines. so im...
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    Blind Date

    go on a blind date with her :cool:
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    Feeling Vulnerable

    another thing: she's been chased by quite a few guys in our friend circle, some of them are my friends (not close ones, but we're cool with each other as guys). she has turned them all down, cuz they were all 'nice guys', extremely AFCish. they were all over her, almost all the time, nearly...
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    Feeling Vulnerable

    Don't show weakness. Don't get jealous. You've got to be really very cool - and just concentrate on having fun with her. Don't get to serious unless she takes the 1st step. Don't pester her with phone calls etc. If i start doing this after all of my AFC behaviors she'll think im...
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    Feeling Vulnerable

    Recently started dating this gurl from college, and i've had a crush on her the first moment i laid eyes on her. Shes VERY good looking (perfect body omg, cute face with sexy lips), extremely smart (3.9 gpa), funny, ambitious, hardworking. basically everthing a guy like me can ask for. We were...
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    newbie here, with a nice shot at it =)

    ok so here's the update. it turns out she dumped her boyfriend that very same night, something she's been wanting to do before we met. :D so now i'm in good shape. we talked online and things are going well, but i haven't made a move yet. we arranged to go watch 42nd ST the musical soon, but the...
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    newbie here, with a nice shot at it =)

    Ok first of all lets get the bs out of the way. I'm new the the site; a friend recommended it to me after an incident involving a girl 2 days ago, saying it has great advice and its fun reading real experiences from others. so i said, cool i'll check it out, see what i can find that pertains to...
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