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@GoodMan32 This might sound odd to ask as I know you said that being socially awkward might be a problem but do you have a history of social anxiety? I feel like some of your issues stem from having anxiety from not being on the same level as your age peers socially. Have you tried therapy for...

These two don't seem that bad in comparison. I know a lot of guys who don't have licenses or partly rely on their parents for money, again it might just be my age cohort. If you're older I guess it would be a problem. For socializing, have you tried looking up city meetups for different...

I have this to add. It can be really tiring at times. Most of the times, the sort of approaches and attention are solely based on physical appearance. It can be in an environment where there's zero interest in getting approached, or she could be taken, all sorts of factors should be considered...

100%, whenever I “chase” a guy I always feel so weird about it. This happened a while ago with someone I consider “out of my league” not physically but mentally—I perceived him as way smarter, cooler, & better than me and “the prize.” In the beginning, he pursued me and that felt natural, I was...

It looks like she's still interested to me. She might've forgotten the text briefly, read it in her head and/or planned to respond to it later (happens to a lot of people, including me) and she even asked about drinks directly in her reply. I know it may seem like a sign of low interest or...

Hey, just wondering @FlexpertHamilton if you were able to get this prescribed over counter? I looked it up Modafinil and there's not much information on how to get it near me. I've heard good things about Wellbutrin and non stims because the comedown on Adderall is terrible, so much brain fog...

This is one of those things I can't explain or rationalize. As I'm maturing I'm trying to learn more about myself and where these behaviors stem from, because I don't think it's actually good for me or my attraction. I used to think there was something wrong with me (and maybe there is, I'm not...

I'd say it just makes you not care about normally pleasurable stuff that people like because you're already getting the dopamine from adderall. and the dopamine from the drug just makes you wanna work and be productive 24/7, but when you're working or doing that task you feel great instead of...

the only drug I recommend- adderall for productivity, I've started it and its changed my life for the better. if you're stuck on someone romantically or infatuated, it basically shuts off that part of the brain so you can just work and not overthink. if you're socially anxious, it boosts your...

with all due respect...I don't think 5 is high for a girl in her twenties. That's like a couple relationships and maybe a fling or two. Also, I've personally know some girls my age who've slept with like 30 guys but they just end up lying about it if they get a boyfriend bc they know lol

I'm in the same situation, I just ended up ignoring them like they did to me. Just mirror her responses, if she seems to pull away or act colder then let it die off on its own. You can't negotiate interest after all. In fact I think that if you double text her then she might get annoyed and act...

Avalon by $uicideboys. Not big into some of the sentimental music on here, it would probably just make me even sadder lol. Heavy metal and rock is my jam after a heartbreak.

Good thread, I seriously need to fix my sleeping schedule. I’m currently taking like 300 mg of preworkout, popping two zyns a day (trying to cut back rn) and then take an edible every night which helps with sleep. I don’t feel like this is a healthy long term solution though. Melatonin doesn’t...

If they respond positively they’re not loyal… that’s not a good character trait, unless you just want something casual with them.

Ok, Im not sure why but don’t really care if people believe my situation anymore. I guess there’s not really women who post here, I get it, all I want is an answer to this: is there a way to get over a guy you’re hopelessly infatuated with? And if so, what do you think is the best way to get...

I really just want to get over him asap. I’m considering just blocking him but Ik I don’t have the willpower, I’ll just keep holding on waiting pathetically for a reply back.

@JoyDivision1990 i know, I really need to start taking my own advice. I didn’t realize it until now but infatuation can really make you see things in a rose colored lens. a bit more about the guy, he did give commitment to a 30 yr old who had more money and more experience, until he realized he...

Thank you, this was really helpful and put things in perspective for me. You’re right, if he was truly interested he’d reach out and set something up. It’s just a bit difficult for me to accept because he is one of the coolest and charming people I’ve met and I’m scared to lose him…it’s just...

Well, I hesitated to mention at first on this forum but I am a female, the someone I’m talking about is the boy that I’m really pining for. I’m not sure why he started distancing but it was after we already physically intimate. He is really charming, classically handsome (6’3 fit), and I feel...

Since started dating, I've recently been dangerously infatuated with someone and was wondering if anyone else is going through this and any advice would help. I feel like all the time all I can think about is that particular person and it really pains me because at first they seemed to be really...