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I’m not going back, not at all.

Day 57 3 days to the end, just 3 days to the end and she decided to call. I feel very weird and off, a bit anxious too, generally not good vibes. Feels like everything was for naught because I still have feelings for her. But I know that’s just my inner b!tch talking. I’ve made so much progress...

Day 40 Soo, things are going pretty great. Getting rid of my bad habits, and making progress in life generally. I realised that me and said ex had a lot of pictures and videos saved on the cloud (506). So I went up there and deleted every single one, and deleted them from my recently deleted as...

Day 30 Yesterday, I cleaned my room. It might not look like much, and no it wasn't a messy enough place to require a makeover. It was an act to establish control over the things I know I can control. It took about three days, and in that time I took apart everything and discarded all that I...

Day 26 So I've started journalling to try and get my life together. I write down habits I notice aren't good, their frequency, and things I should be doing every day. I also mistakenly saw her chat a few days ago, I didn't open it but I glanced long enough to know that she didn't send any...

Day 19 Time really flies when you shift gears, realised I hadn't posted here in a while and I thinknits a good sign. I've reconnected with old friends i lost contact with because she used to be the only person I talked to. More in touch with family also. Not so much for hobbies and gyming...

If you're falling into someone's frame, then you're the one doing the responding. You have little to no influence on the direction of the conversation. Once you go from 'is this girl any fun?' to 'I want her to like me, or, I don't want her to think I'm like all these guys' then you're losing...

I think if you're pretty observant, it's easy to spot when you're operating in another person's frame. For instance, a polite dog will always operate in your frame, you throw the ball and it runs to get it, bringing it back to you with all joy while wagging its tail. The 'Alpha male' in a group...

From what I understand, frame essentially is having confidence in your worth, and maintaining that mindset in your interactions with women (or people generally), as opposed to trying too hard to get them to like you, or going overboard to appeal to them. Now this does not in any way infer you...

Hmmmn, I see your point. I'll definitely take on the adventure. Thank you so much again.

Hey man, thanks for the insight. I was honestly looking forward to attempting makeup sex, but I'll definitely steer very far away from that now. Concerning 'rubbing one off', I've stopped doing that for over a year now, I realised it was way too easy, and having that alternative gave me less...

Day 4 So I've been doing a good job not thinking about her and doing other things. But I had a wet dream of her giving me a pretty intense BJ, so I've been in a mood. But I still don't feel like reaching out or even talking to her, I'm still spinning plates and enjoying letting game be my...

Thank you so much for the advice. I will check Jim Stoppani out and try intermittent fasting as well. I will definitely PM you if anything comes up. Very glad to hear someone was also in my shoes, I know I can do this.

Okay, I'll definitely keep that in mind. I got dumped, she usually pulls the 'let's break up' card frequently, but this time I said enough is enough. But then we got to talking a while after(I reached out), and then she found out I had a fling with an ex during the time we were apart, she got...

Day 1 I've been a bit back and forth with my ex since we broke up, and I'm taking the No Contact seriously from today. I'm going to get a gym membership, explore hobbies, and hang out with my bro's more often. I plan to write here once a week, but we'll see how it plays out

I just got out of a similar situation with someone. There's no going back once the 'let's break up' card has been pulled, especially if it's under pressure. Its shows without a doubt that she doesn't see the relationship as something worth fighting for, especially in times of trouble (when she's...