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Thanks for your comments and help. I’ll leave the man alone

Did I mention that I wanted to sleep with him or even get with him? I just shared a fantasy with him. Also, he’s the one who started this friendship with me. When we met, he was the one who started talking to me and trying to get to know me, with a girlfriend and everything!! He was messaging me...

I also wanted to add that he’s spiritual so maybe he doesn’t like certain things and wants to be righteous all the time.

I really feel like he is indeed similar to my ex. He seems like a prude. Ok, I admit I did bad at confessing that to him since he has a girlfriend but I really thought he was different, like more open minded and that I could talk to him about anything but I guess I was wrong.

The thing is, I don’t know if I lost his friendship now because of this. Should I just forget about him? Now it feels like I might bother him and prefer to leave him alone. Do you think what I told him was that bad?

I fantasized while being with my ex because I didn’t felt desired. My ex wouldn’t touch me or kiss me while having sex. I expressed my concerns of not feeling desired to my ex but he never changed. I was miserable back then. I don’t know if he lost respect but I’m only human.

No, I don’t know anything about his ex.

He didn’t kiss me or touch me while having sex. No foreplay. No oral. He didn’t care about pleasing me.

I just wanted to let him know I think he’s hot. He has many qualities I always looked for in a man. I’m usually not too flirty with men but with him I wanted to try it and not have regrets

It was not validation. Even if I wanted to have sex with him, he’s in a committed relationship. He’s loyal to his girlfriend

That’s what I was thinking. I mean, why not just say: “Thanks, you’re beautiful and I’m flattered but I have a girlfriend”. Instead he asks me why I fantasize about him? Like, who cares!! I can fantasize about whoever I want. How would you react if this happens to you?

Do you think I should still be his friend after this? I mean, I feel pretty bad. I wish he was nicer. Do you think he’ll come around at some point and realize this was not a big deal?

Hi. I know this is probably an all men’s forum but I need male advice desperately. I’m friends with a man in his late 40s. He’s divorced but he has a new serious girlfriend. I’m in my mid 30s. I have always liked this man like I have never liked another man before. I had never done anything...