Leave her on read and move on.
The only way you can actually find someone meaningful is when you are not desperate. Else the person you find will accept someone who is desperate. Level up, keep putting yourself out there and don't rush into anything serious.
Well done mate. Everything was handled well. Not pushing any dates with being needy over text. Making your intentions clear.
Strike this one off as great practice. We move.
Something I am tryna work on too. No biggie man. Keep it up.
I am Zoomer, dealing mainly with zoomer chicks. Not against milfs tho.
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Thanks for the responses, everybody.
I actually went for a session of hot yoga with LJBF girl. She wanted to talk afterward so I asked her for coffee. Happy just being her friend, perhaps she has...
haha thank you derby, always enjoy your responses.
2nd lady ghosted after that text. I could see it coming as soon as got no response within the first few mins. We were going back and forth for a few mins. She had sent a VN to me and I sent that text back.
Could not agree more with you Robby...
This would've been a lot better. Thanks mate.
I was thinking the same regarding the first girl. And she seemed like she was interested until the following day when she claimed she did not have time this semester to pursue anything romantically. She said she was still keen to go for a yoga class...
There is more than enough material in this forum for you to not need to buy any such book.
The venters often aren't willing to put in the work as well. Hence them venting.
Being around younger people would open you up to more opportunities to meet other younger people. So looking for a job not just with younger women but men too would help. New circles of friends to meet, livelier social lives. See what is out there mate.
Recently had 2 girls put off by asking them too soon for drinks, over text.
The first one I thought was really about it and said she could not make the day I proposed and offered 2 alternate nights. Silly me was a bit too accomodating and said yeah the first night works. Had I said that I'll be...
There is this catch 22 over text, where if you want to make plans and ask too quickly (within a few messages of saying hi) you come off too strong and they get put off but when you chat and talk rubbish for a few days before asking out they land up ghosting.
Your post is A1 bro! Agree with all you said.
Esp the part about moving cities or traveling. Travelling makes finding girls a lot easier! All of a sudden you are a rare delicacy once you visit other countries.
Hit the nail on the head.
Few.
I have had a few dates from OLD. What you say is not entirely true. You are generalising heavily. There are definitely girls on OLD that are not like that.
What level of quality photos do you need? I am a good looking guy with a nice body. I got several matches, hardly any of which converted to an actual date. My text game is okay. I suspect if I wanted more matches I'd have to up the quality of my photos, first and foremost.
For OP: start a martial art. Preferably BJJ. I have seen and heard of many people changing their life around from doing martial art. Focus on your own spiritual and physical betterment for a while and then keep going. You are not going to flip a switch and become the person you wanted to be. It...
I gotta chime in here and say this:
If you want to know if she has arrived home safely, without sounding needy or weird or showing that you care, message her an hour after the date and say you enjoyed it. When she replies back then you know she's fine. If she doesn't reply back then guess what...
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