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I intend to do cold approach for like 10-15 years but barley took any action, I was always too afraid, lazy, etc. I did maybe a dozen half ass approaches in all that time. It was only until this month that I began to get real results because I finally started to approach, minimum 3 a day...

I made a post about my approach anxiety already but I really want to go into it more in depth, it's a pretty deep topic for me, I suffered from it for 27 years of my life, and this year I've really kind of overcame it, so maybe I can help some guys out there. If you have insane crippling...

Nice, that's good to hear, a lot of the times I feel like time is running out to build up my confidence, even in my 20's and it puts a lot of unnecessary stress on me

Thanks man, just keep going out as much as possible, and just feel that ****ty feeling of not approaching day in day out, that's what I've been doing, it sucks but I guess you gotta sit through the suck until you loosen up

That's great, it doesn't really matter what these girls think, I mean do you care about any of the girls in the past now, probably not

yeah it's kind of painfully awkward to ask so quickly, but that's what I'm looking for desensitization

thanks a lot man

Hey everyone, wanted to share how I've managed to start approaching girls after years of being stuck in my head not able to take action From the time I was a toddler I've wanted to talk to girls and just tell them I like them, but was always just too afraid to do so, I had no idea why. I know...

oh yah no doubt there was another, he was a ****in magician though, in a big open plaza in broad daylight I didn't see the other guy

yeah for sure, probably my best option, until I'm older and more established as a man

Good advice, never isolate yourself with a woman in a relationship, I guess it get increasingly difficult living together though, how would you manage this

yeah in the beginning she pursued me completely, she wanted to be exclusive. It's just that we ended up living together and actually building a project together. It's pretty hard to pull-back when your always around this person, living with them, working with them. But yeah I should not have...

I recently was in a monogamous relationship with a girl I really liked, for about 3 years. I invested everything I had into it, money and resources, tons of my time, emotions, never cheated on her or even talked to much other girls, gave her lots of love and intimacy. I was really trying to...

Yeah, avoid people who have low energy, look broke, needy, everything we don't want to be

I agree with you, just for someone like me with little experience cold approaching and a lot of past social anxiety, briefly greeting other people in passing seems to seriously help me loosen up and feel comfortable actually talking to women I'm attracted to.

No, haven't seen this before, but I guess I was doing something similar

God damn man that is some heavy ****, unfortunate you had to go through that. I guess the moral of the story is as men we should be just as cautious when dealing with any woman as with anyone. Sounds like a red flag, picking you up in a hummer, where is she getting all this money. Maybe as men...

Honestly, I think that lovebombing a woman works wonders, as long as it's inconsistent. Being super loving one day, and then disappear for days or act disinterested. It's kinda ****ed up and not sure if it's really healthy, but it seems to be what women respond to and chase after. Anyways I...

Awesome reply, agree with everything, never lived in really a dangerous area, but now I know better. It won't happen again that's for sure, not the same way. Luckily I didn't get stabbed or anything

A lot of you guys may have never had violence as an issue cold approaching, but I just want to give a warning to everyone based on my experience. The normal advice and which I think usually works great is to warm up and talk to everyone, be social with all the strangers around you, but you must...