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Thanks for your insightful response and also the example given. I think your approach reminds me alot of the tips given by my friend and like you said, as much as you want to punish bad behavior getting sucked in only tends to worsen the conflict. I will take your advice as well as listening...

Thanks, I’ve actually looked into and tried some psychedelics with varying results. Seem to get easily pulled into these type of anger states when I’m under the influence, maybe that’s what I’m supposed to investigate. she constantly says to me that She wants to give me a heroic dose of...

You are really hitting the nail on the head here and it’s great that you share. I can really relate to this anger issue. It’s almost a burning sensation in the body that like you say can take days to subside. Throwing me into negative throught patterns and like you say, emotional statements. I...

Sure there is no definitive truth I guess but one guy tells me I’m not angry enough and you tell me not to show it at all. What I meant was with not directing my anger towards her was I wasn’t being argumentative and bitter but just stated in a clear way that her behavior Was not flying. I get...

if you are referring to the manipulation quotes I wrote earlier I agree with you. Usually use some sort of agree and amplify or ****y funny but sometimes like mentioned above they negate my frame in the sense that I question myself as in “did I overreact?” It’s a process

I agree. I understand there is a time and place for agree and amplify to not get sucked into random drama and minor things but using it when someone acts out of pocket / disrespectful in a way that warrants a reaction just makes you look really stupid. If you continuously show up late for work...

Most of it doesnt but the "how can you treat me like this" works suprisingly well. Makes me go "did I overreact?" and then I post a thread on sosuave. :rolleyes:

She has really been trying to damage it, you are right about that.

Thanks for sharing! Read the first few pages and shes really an *******. Mine very rarely if ever go for overt disrespect but more on the covert expectation kind of way, expecting people to cater to her and guilting people who dont and playing the victim. "why are you doing this to me?" "how...

Totally agree.

holy ****

it's actually freaking scary how on point you are about this woman. If you didnt live in the states I could have swore we dated the same woman. Like I said, I've felt it from the moment I met her that something was way off with this one but she got me hooked early with a pregnancy. (I've been so...

Thank you

However, if staying with a disrespectful person isnt a sign of low self respect, I dont know what it. It stings a bit to aknowledge but thats why I post here in order to shed light on the things I want to improve.

Some people referred to low IL women. This is not the problem here, she is all over mer all the time. Begging me to **** her and spend more time with her etc. However I suspect that she might be a BPD or something of the sort. Also her inlaws has warned me about her on the DL. Her sisters BF of...

Thank you we've established that she doesn't respect me, Id like more feedback on my handling of this, like a ***** or not harsch enough? About grabbing her ****, it's a lot of stuff, not just to grab, its likely to fill a whole truck and I'm not about to put in that work or money. I said I can...

Hi there! I have a question regarding punishing behavior in a relationship. I have been reading a lot about stating what you are dissatisfied with, enforcing a boundary and withdrawing attention. I’m not sure if I’m doing it too harshly or bad women just make it worse when you do it. on the...

Update: She caught me DMing some chick on insta and freaked out. It’s over and I really feels it’s for the the best. I knew deep down it was not right but my ego got the better of me. Appreciate all you guys input! Will read up on the iron rules.

To her? I was not aiming to gain anything in partical tbh except for her to understand why my behavior has been of base lately and that I've identified the problem and am doing something about it. I mean she has not told me that I'm acting wierd but she sure has noticed. And I think it's a...

True and I might regret in again, we'll see.