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What’s the right mindset? I hate to sound lime a broken record but I’m really struggling with this man

What is the clue that I’m missing?

Thanks man. Deep down inside I know you’re right

I understand. Thanks for the reply’s bro. But I can’t help to feel like I’ll be doing all this as a ploy to try to win her back. Deep in my mind I’ll be hoping that all this NC and acting cold will hopefully get her to be attracted to me again. It’s a twisted mind game I’m having with myself

You’re exactly right man. It’s tough

Thanks bro

It’s financially impossible for me right now. The child support eats up most of my finances

They don’t have a relationship. He barely knows who she is.

So with NC should I not respond to anything she texts except about my son? Or should I respond back with a very short response and then let it go?

Here’s something else I failed to mention... when I see my son on the weekends, I stay at her house because I don’t have my own place. I sleep in his bed with him. Sometimes we have fun together as a “family”. When we have these times together, it gives me hope. How should I deal with this...

I get that but I’m talking about when I have to see her in person when I get my son?

Thanks. What should I say when she asks why I’m not responding to her texts?

I’ve done this in the past and she says I’m acting like an *******. This ****s hard when I have oneitis with this girl

I think you’re right. Just the thought of her screwing other guys is driving me crazy.

Oneitis sucks dude. I’m currently reading the Rational Male for the second time. I want this woman for some reason. She has a gorgeous body and struts it around and it drives me crazy. It’s hard when I see that walking around

Even when she contacts me first? Should I just ignore the calls and texts?

Hi everyone. This is my first post to the forum. I’m having a hard time letting my ex girlfriend go after 5 years. She is the mother of my son and I have to see her constantly. I’m 42 years old and live with my mother but I’m currently saving to buy my own place. The ex girlfriend likes to drop...